TOPIC: #1 COLLEGE ADVICE

If you go to a Big State School most likely Greek Life is a Big Deal

PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR COLLEGE EXPERIENCE AND YOUR DICK RUSH A FRAT

In college I didn't join one and that's my regret

There is pussy to be had in college and lots of it, but it's only to be given to men of the highest status and I am not lying when I say this

If you are not an athlete or in well known fraternity you will not be getting laid as much as you think you should, In fact you may find it VERY hard to get laid at all

Competition Is Fierce and that's what no one tells you. The guys getting laid in college are in the top 20%(athletes, frats) and they are fucking 80% of the girls. Chris already explains this in his article about college. Very Very Very informative. The majority of hot girls want to hook up with the coolest guys who are in the 20%. Thus the only people really enjoying college are the guys in the 20% and the girls in the 80% who they are fucking. This leaves the average guy destroyed and starving for pussy. GIRLS IN COLLEGE HAVE BETTER OPTIONS THAN THE AVERAGE GUY IN COLLEGE the cute girl in your math class has several orbit ors around her texting her everyday, making her feel good, and boosting up her ego. A LOT OF THOSE GUYS ARE VERY DESPERATE AND THIRSTY and want to lock her down as a girlfriend.

This is your competition as an average guy in college with no status. You are competing against very very thirsty dudes who are really desperate and would do anything to get a girlfriend srs. You are fighting for the leftover chicks srs and even they can be picky because they have options. College is a great place for girls and guys in frats and athletes but no place for the average guy.

JOIN A FRATERNITY

you will have status over the bottom 80% of the college population. You're standing at the top of the hill and the girls know it. They will fuck you just because you're at the top of the hierarchy. Everything comes back to status and that's all that matters. Not so much your looks, style, or w.e. but just being in a well known frat will get you laid. The system is really fucked up and nasty to thing about how some girls will spread their legs just because of some letters on your shirt. But it is what it is.

I'm better looking and dress cooler than a majority of guys I encounter on my campus but I've only fucked less than 5 girls the whole time I've been in college. I've been at the bars and I've seen dudes way way uglier than me pull girls way way out of their league because they're an athlete or in a frat, while I'm getting rejected by a girl that's barely a 5 haha the world is fucked.

I have a friend who's roommate is rushing a frat. A 5 foot nothing scrawny kid, me my friend and his roommates look way better than this guy but in the last week he's already fucked 5 girls. These girls apparently have just walked up to him at the frat party and said they want to go home with him. Pussy is given to you on a silver platter. He's probably going to get way more ass than my friend and his roommates The way he's going.

JOIN A FRAT

if you want a vibrant sex life in college

because it will take care of your social life

many of you guys will argue joining a fraternity is not worth it and that you can still have an awesome sex life in college where you don't need to be in a relationship to have sex with a girl

You're Right, but those guys are outliers not the norm

I knew a handful of guys in college who were crushing ass but not in a frat

my friend who goes to the bar every weekend to chase ass is one of them, he bangs about 2 chicks from the bars every month

but it's a lot of work and he sometimes admits it's not even worth it

M.C. Solaar wrote: If you go to a Big State School most likely Greek Life is a Big Deal

PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR COLLEGE EXPERIENCE AND YOUR DICK RUSH A FRAT

In college I didn't join one and that's my regret

There is pussy to be had in college and lots of it, but it's only to be given to men of the highest status and I am not lying when I say this

If you are not an athlete or in well known fraternity you will not be getting laid as much as you think you should, In fact you may find it VERY hard to get laid at all

Competition Is Fierce and that's what no one tells you. The guys getting laid in college are in the top 20%(athletes, frats) and they are fucking 80% of the girls. Chris already explains this in his article about college. Very Very Very informative. The majority of hot girls want to hook up with the coolest guys who are in the 20%. Thus the only people really enjoying college are the guys in the 20% and the girls in the 80% who they are fucking. This leaves the average guy destroyed and starving for pussy. GIRLS IN COLLEGE HAVE BETTER OPTIONS THAN THE AVERAGE GUY IN COLLEGE the cute girl in your math class has several orbit ors around her texting her everyday, making her feel good, and boosting up her ego. A LOT OF THOSE GUYS ARE VERY DESPERATE AND THIRSTY and want to lock her down as a girlfriend.

This is your competition as an average guy in college with no status. You are competing against very very thirsty dudes who are really desperate and would do anything to get a girlfriend srs. You are fighting for the leftover chicks srs and even they can be picky because they have options. College is a great place for girls and guys in frats and athletes but no place for the average guy.

JOIN A FRATERNITY

you will have status over the bottom 80% of the college population. You're standing at the top of the hill and the girls know it. They will fuck you just because you're at the top of the hierarchy. Everything comes back to status and that's all that matters. Not so much your looks, style, or w.e. but just being in a well known frat will get you laid. The system is really fucked up and nasty to thing about how some girls will spread their legs just because of some letters on your shirt. But it is what it is.

I'm better looking and dress cooler than a majority of guys I encounter on my campus but I've only fucked less than 5 girls the whole time I've been in college. I've been at the bars and I've seen dudes way way uglier than me pull girls way way out of their league because they're an athlete or in a frat, while I'm getting rejected by a girl that's barely a 5 haha the world is fucked.

I have a friend who's roommate is rushing a frat. A 5 foot nothing scrawny kid, me my friend and his roommates look way better than this guy but in the last week he's already fucked 5 girls. These girls apparently have just walked up to him at the frat party and said they want to go home with him. Pussy is given to you on a silver platter. He's probably going to get way more ass than my friend and his roommates The way he's going.

JOIN A FRAT

if you want a vibrant sex life in college

because it will take care of your social life

many of you guys will argue joining a fraternity is not worth it and that you can still have an awesome sex life in college where you don't need to be in a relationship to have sex with a girl

You're Right, but those guys are outliers not the norm

I knew a handful of guys in college who were crushing ass but not in a frat

my friend who goes to the bar every weekend to chase ass is one of them, he bangs about 2 chicks from the bars every month

but it's a lot of work and he sometimes admits it's not even worth it

Since I attended one of the top 5 party schools in the country, I can verify everything M.C. Solaar said.

This information is painfully accurate.

I'm not model, but I feel like my looks are above average. Even when I was a socially awkward dude with a jewfro and no style, girls would still give me looks/say that I'm cute.

The summer of senior year was huge for me. Got decent style/confidence. Thought I was going to kill it. Boy was I dead wrong.

Shit started out great. I met a ton of hot girls at orientation who seemed into me. Hot girls would literally pass by my dorm room, stop when I smiled at them, and invite me to come eat with them. The first few weeks of college was fucking awesome.

Then once greek life got started, everything changed. Suddenly, I couldn't go sit with that cute blonde in the dining hall cause she was surrounded by judgmental sorority girls and sometimes frat guys.

I would constantly see guys that were average, below average, ugly, or even geeky looking with girls - simply cause they were in a frat.

I busted my ass at the bar scene, making tons of approaches. I would be lucky to pull one girl a month. It was a fucking huge waste of time, but I was so desperate for pussy I would go + lower my standards. BTW, at my school most sororities don't allow their girls to go to a bar without frat guys accompanying them and they're not allowed to dance, makeout in public etc so independent girls (A.K.A. mostly average/below average girls) or girls from other schools were my only options.

I'm a dude that most people like once they get to know me. Making friends has always been easy. But it seemed like everyone was off doing their own thing while I was stuck in my dorm, wondering what to do. I made friends with people in my dorm, but most of the guys were lame honestly. Almost every dude that was cool/I got along with was in a frat. I felt like I was invisible and everything was passing without me.

Unsurprisingly, I was depressed. I spent most of my time in my dorm. I hated the school aspect of college, and the social life wasn't panning out. Worse of all, I couldn't figure out what to do to make cool friends. In hindsight, I should have joined a club with cool people. That would have helped, but it's still absolutely nothing compared to a frat.

Summary: Join a frat godamnit. Don't be "too cool for those cliques, etc" like me. Who gives a fuck about all that bullshit. Sometimes, you have to sell out. That's just reality. Yeah, I hate the whole clique mentality thing. Yeah, I hate dressing like I came from my boat 24/7. Yeah, I hate having some faggot tell me what to do my Freshman year. Yeah, I hate losing freedom. Yes, I hate wasting time with some of the bullshit they have to do.

But the pussy, incredible parties, friends, memories, etc outweigh the negatives.

I'm much happier now. I make a living fulltime from the Internet. I sleep with a decent amount of girls. I dropped out of college so I don't have to deal with all the bullshit academics anymore ( siting in a classroom is like hell for me).

But I still regret not joining a frat. Just for the incredible pussy. I know I would have gotten laid a lot.

But fuck it. I'm going to figure out a way in. Seeing these hot young sorority girls is driving me crazy. I will bang multiple 9/10 girls before this year is over. You have my word.

Ugh, not what I wanted to hear!
Just started this semester after a few years of being out of it; just turned 24 and I have 3 years left to do.
I'm completely lost when it comes to how frat's work and what-not. I just met a dude at the bar this last weekend, had a good convo and we exchanged numbers to chill later. found out he's pretty high up in the most popular frat on campus. I know they're doing well because they post on "fade" (an app like snapchat but for the local area, mainly for college students), and i'll see them posting pics up of topless chicks with sharpie on their ass or tits saying "Rush SAE" all the time.
I'm moved in with a friend who's doing school too, we were both military together. He's going on 30 now (and gay) but hella fun to party with. He didn't seem to like that I was considering joining a frat, but meh. I'm gonna do what I need to do for me. However we just signed a year lease on this place because I was close to being homeless.

Few questions: if I joined a frat, am I pretty much expected to live in the fraternity house? What can I expect to change outside of my normal college experience? Am I gonna be able to juggle frat life, school, and a job, or will I pretty much have to take student loans and just focus on the school/fraternity? (Military is paying for my school, so a part time is all I need to avoid any loans atm)
Just want some more details before I even try to move forward.

Man, I wish I had a frat at my uni, frats are not are not much of a thing in Canada and york university actually doesn't allow frats so this one mini frat thing is hosted off campus. Oh well, just gonna have to suck it up.

It really depends on the school. I had many friends in my math/physics classes who rushed frats only to drop a semester later because they were on the verge of probation. However, I too regret not rushing one.


My advice for those in STEM majors:

Rush a top frat (you can get away with a mid tier at a school which isn't a top 100 party school)
Take the bare minimum during rush season
Go to summer school at your local community college and take one or two classes to catch up. You most certainly won't be getting internships over summer break so use that time to catch up on classes.

SKJ2003 wrote: Ugh, not what I wanted to hear!
Just started this semester after a few years of being out of it; just turned 24 and I have 3 years left to do.
I'm completely lost when it comes to how frat's work and what-not. I just met a dude at the bar this last weekend, had a good convo and we exchanged numbers to chill later. found out he's pretty high up in the most popular frat on campus. I know they're doing well because they post on "fade" (an app like snapchat but for the local area, mainly for college students), and i'll see them posting pics up of topless chicks with sharpie on their ass or tits saying "Rush SAE" all the time.
I'm moved in with a friend who's doing school too, we were both military together. He's going on 30 now (and gay) but hella fun to party with. He didn't seem to like that I was considering joining a frat, but meh. I'm gonna do what I need to do for me. However we just signed a year lease on this place because I was close to being homeless.

Few questions: if I joined a frat, am I pretty much expected to live in the fraternity house? What can I expect to change outside of my normal college experience? Am I gonna be able to juggle frat life, school, and a job, or will I pretty much have to take student loans and just focus on the school/fraternity? (Military is paying for my school, so a part time is all I need to avoid any loans atm)
Just want some more details before I even try to move forward.

no you're not expected to live in the frat house but most ppl do

you can expect to party and have sex with more girls than the average college kid who goes to a university

When you're rushing a frat you basically give up a semester so it will be very hard to juggle responsibilities

the only downside to joining a frat is rushing and paying the dues

pledging is hell you're basically someone's bitch from what I've seen and heard

Dues for Frats can be very expensive like we're talking $5000. That's also part of the reason why I didn't want to join but looking back it would have been worth it

Resurrection wrote: It really depends on the school. I had many friends in my math/physics classes who rushed frats only to drop a semester later because they were on the verge of probation. However, I too regret not rushing one.


My advice for those in STEM majors:

Rush a top frat (you can get away with a mid tier at a school which isn't a top 100 party school)
Take the bare minimum during rush season
Go to summer school at your local community college and take one or two classes to catch up. You most certainly won't be getting internships over summer break so use that time to catch up on classes.

good advice

I am in a frat. It's the same frat all my family is in Omega Psi Phi Fraternity Inc. I love my frat, I love stepping and the girls love the Ques. Pledging is way different than rush but I love my burhas.!!!!!!!!

Reading this thread depresses the shit out of me, after the news I received last night.

Well fuck it I wish I tried harder but I'm just going to pledge a frat that I really like but aren't top tier. As long as they have mixers and events and shit I'm happy, it's better than being in my fucking apartment alone.

I really wish I rushed top houses, but I didn't know anyone and the only thing I did was walk up to their house and get a number of their rush chair, who never responded because the houses have 150 members and a shit ton of rushees.

Any advice on not regretting my decision/kicking myself? I like the guys and they seem really close, I was at another house yesterday and I just got a vibe that everyone there hated eachother, some of the guys were weird too and I'm thankful the house I'm pledging isn't like that. Their brotherhood seems really, really good. Sororities? That's what I'm unsure about. A plus I've noticed is that I'd be one of the better looking guys in the fraternity, this can be a good thing right?

I honestly feel like if I rushed a more "top" house then I wouldn't fit in. The guys in this one are as cool/cooler than me so that means there's some good room for personal growth, yea?

Thanks for the feedback. Think i'm gonna rush in the spring. Right now I plan on taking summer classes and shit so i'll maintain an easy class load next semester... I don't mind the time dedication, I have more free time than I care for, sitting around by myself since I just moved here and don't know really anyone besides my roommate.

Fuuuuk apparently that house has a reputation as 'creepy', jesus christ i should have asked for some advice from friends sooner.... i'm going to head to a new house tmw and hope i can sway them into giving me a bid 4 weeks into the semester lol. Fuck.

I'm sorry for posting this haha I'm not sure why I am. Good post OP I'm just kind of freaking out right now