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So although I do know now that I should just keep trying by repeating the text/phone blueprint, I'm not sure WHEN to do it en WHAT to write.
short version of the story so far:
meeting/pick up hot blonde in bar, friday night 03 am: first some small talk with touching, then few mins sexy dancing. Finally took number and left.
text #1 (me to her), fri night 05 am: "hey sexy, sleep well"
text #2 (me to her), sat 03 pm: "hey [name], what's up? Are you working in the [bar] tonight? [My name]"
text #3 (her to me), sun 04 pm: "hey [my name], haha no I didn't work yesterday. Neither will I next week... too bad. How are you? X [name]
Exactly 8 minutes after I received text #3, I called her. She didn't answer the call, nor did she call / text me back after that.
It looks like she wants to start some kind of text convo - she didn't respond to my "hey sexy" text, but still sends me another text two days later, asking me "how are you?". But then, it seems like she doesn't want to talk on the phone.
Should I answer her text "how are you?" and tell her something in a text, or should I ignore it and send her another screening text like "hey sexy" in one or two days, to see if she's still DTF? Or should I just try to call her again tomorrow night? It seems a bit weird and "uncalibrated" to ignore her text and just literally repeat the text screening "hey sexy", since I've already done that friday night... So which of the following options would be best: ignore and repeat // a little text game, and screen her again later // move on and play the numbers game?
I really thought this girl was interested to meet (dtf), but maybe I'm mistaken after all. Anyway I hope you guys can give me some suggestions/advice here!
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Sounds like it could go either way. I'd text her back if you haven't already and try to get a convo going. If not, I wouldn't over think it much, some girls just get away. As you already know, it's a numbers game.
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