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Just talked to this indian girl i saw in our small gym downstairs in my door apartment. Basicly saw her couple days ago working out at 23:30.. dropping the weights when i was downstairs and then she did some yoga shit when i entered. Gave me huge DTF signs back then but i politly excused myself and didnt approach her then.
Now i saw her again today just a couple minutes ago, working out again. I approached her and hold her hand for like 2 minutes straigh, she got warm and gave me DTF ioi's.. said she is heres since october but doesnt have any friends, she suggested we meet downstairs again. I took her number, even tho i know that i shouldve fucking kept talking with her and do more kino.. i really felt like i couldve fucked that girl then and there...
anyways i just took her number and went upstairs. Now 30 minutes later i write her my name in whatsapp and she writes me back:
'I'm married. So i'm sorry as i can't speak with you anymore.'
what_the_fuck? what can i write back?! that girl is DTF 1100%
If you really wanna push it you can just ask to meet up anyway (coffee, drinks, whatever.) If she’s dtf she’ll say yes or she’ll put up some resistance for you to break down. If so, offer solutions if she has any objections. You’re definitely walking on touchy ground if she is actually married, so keep that in mind.
That said, don’t invest too much time into one allegedly unavailable girl...instead spend most of your time talking to other girls
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She said shes lonely and has been here for just 3 month. she hold my hand for like 2 minutes, i saw her almost at midnight in the gym before dropping weights and making noise when i came downstairs.. shes like obviously looking for someone that fucks her.. atleast thats in my mind. im like 100% sure. I just left right after the NC when a girl called her i shouldve just stayed downstairs wtf im such a fkn idiot sometimes..
now she give me this bs and its like what can i write back ? Oo, because its going to be like yea sure we can meet just as friends blablabla and then shes going to be all resistanced up next time, when it was so easy on the first appraoch to kino her.
i wrote her now: "haha i think you are joking? " to give her a chance to take it back
And this is exactly why we don't focus on PUA nonsense like "IOI's". You have no idea if a girl is DTF until your penis actually enters her vagina.
Don't stress too much about this - you did everything about as well as you could have done. Some girls aren't going to fuck you no matter how perfect things seem, no matter how much they seem into you. Girls are like a leaf on the wind - they often change direction from moment to moment.
Don't write anything back. She said "I'm married, I cannot speak to you any more". Respect that and move on - go talk to more girls. Sticking your dick in married pussy isn't worth the drama when there's 4 billion other girls on the planet for you to talk to.
Again, you did everything right. Forget her and go hit on the next one.
Yeah, if she had been DTF, she would have had sex with you. She was, by definition, not down to fuck. What Andy said: you have absolutely no idea if a girl is dtf unless you're A.) extremely experienced, or B.) she had sex with you.
Even guys who've fucked 100, 200, or 300 girls are usually smart enough to recognize they never really know if they're getting laid for sure. It's a rookie mistake to think you can tell if a girl is down just because she's flirting hard.
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