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so I'm currently texting a few girls and when I bring up hanging out they use make some excuse that their busy. I really don't care cause I'm out talking to other girls and getting other numbers. I'm curious if it's worth my time to keep persisting the girls who make excuses until they give in. A few of my friends said that I should because if they truly weren't interested they wouldn't reply to any of my texts.
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Your friends are probably right. She wants to meet but not yet. Usually these girls are looking for a relationship but could just be a chatter...
Ive tried scheduling and it usually works if it's like 2 days or less away but the spontaneous hangouts are the best.
Maybe someday soon they will message you because they are bored and have nothing to do.
This happened to me Saturday but then her mom wanted to hang out with her... It has also happened in the past. And these girls are usually the ones that want to fool around later.
If this is from online. Girls are almost always reluctant on first meet ups especially when they have not done it before. Coffee shop or somewhere else public makes it easier on them.
I've also found stating a time and place together quickly in one message avoids the messages taking too long and her getting pulled away to something else. None of the idk what do you want to do thing. Or what time works for you. It just makes it draw out too long and you risk her doing something else.
2-3 times top.
And wait a bit between each attempt, typically I do something like that
1/ ask her out => excuse
2/ a few days later, ask her out => excuse
3/ two weeks later, ask her out => excuse
the idea is that maybe she's truly busy at that time, or just not in the mood, maybe she'll be a bit later
Of course use judgement, you may vary based on how much you believe her excuse, if she offers an alternative by herself, etc.
Though these days my girls ghost instead, excuses are rare.
I think it's because I don't try to get a convo going in the texts, I ask them out right away. If you build a conversation, like 3+ texts back and forth, and then ask her out, IMO girls are more engaged and don't want to appear rude, so they give excuses instead of going ghost.
I don't remember a single case where persistence paid off for me. There's probably been a few that I just don't remember, but overall I wish I would've been much less persistent and focused on girls who were instantly like "yay".
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I've had a few numbers where the girl just didn't want to hang out cause I was a little too far away. Kept texting and several months later I texted her again and got laid.
Eventually, after cold approaching, you'll have like 30 numbers where you can mass text and hope for one to fuck. Chris used to do this. He'd label them too. So he'd have 5-10 numbers with the label "bubble butt" or "asian" or whatever. If he was in the mood for a certain type of girl he'd have a bunch of numbers for that niche of girls.
But ya TL;DR: Keep numbers and try later. They could be sexually available later.
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