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Hey man,
I used to be in the the same boat as you in that I had an incredibly high amount of numbers that ultimately amount to nothing more than sizzled-out conversations and last-minute flakes. Eventually I'll send a mass restart-text and most will either not respond or respond with "whos this?" It can definitely kill momentum and make you wanna just say "fuck it." But I have found that building just a tad bit more rapport/comfort during the initial approach can help. You're already being aggressive and sexual up-front which is great but you have to remember to also build the rapport and comfort as well. Regarding your example with that chick, seems like she probably wants nothing to do with you but enjoys the confidence boost / validation she gets from having a guy text her and give her attention. Phone call is more personal and puts her on the spot to commit to something which I don't think she is down to do. The "sorry" text is probably meant to keep you at bay so you still keep texting her (kinda like trying to dangle a carrot in front of your face). For the sake of your own pride, stop texting this bitch. Cheers |
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Read this, it's fucking brilliant. Time is precious.
www.boytoystory.com/texting-girls-10-message-rule/ |
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I get the girls number. Text her within hour or two letting her know that it's me and I tell her to save my number. Then I talk to her for a bit about something, sometimes I just leave it at that, it really doesn't matter. Usually I try and schedule a date ASAP while I'm fresh in the girls mind.
For 4-5 days after i get the girls number, I'm basically pushing real hard to get her ass out on a date, and I pretty much always quit asking after the 2nd try, sometimes even after the first time. If she flakes on the first date, I try to schedule another date within a day or two of the first date that she flaked on. Basically, I'm quick quick quick. I ask her to hang out 2 times within 7 days, and if I get bullshit excuses and "ask me another time" nonsense I move on. Never snap out, or give ultimatums on hanging out. For example, "If you don't hang out by wednesday, I'm not gonna ask again blahblahblah". My most recent bang from Daygame cold approach was a girl that I approached like 3 weeks before I fucked her. I was just cool, and patient, and she eventually came around. In 2014 I got laid laid 5 times from day game cold approach, 4 of them are in my lay reports if you're interested.
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i tend to be in the 'give up too easy' club...if im texting a chick, even ones who i know are interested and they are dead texters, meaning they dont reply for days or when they do reply, its one word answers, i usually give up on the chick and move on..im a texter, not a talker and if a girl isnt willing to put a little effort and energy into texting, then its not worth it...i hate that type of weird game playing..
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Great advice from Rousseau. Asking her out 2 times within 7 days sounds pretty legit to me, and is similar to what I do.
I'll add this: I never delete a number. Lots of old flakes/flames have texted me years after we first met and turned to lays. Of course don't bet on it, but it doesn't hurt to spent 0,1kb on the digits. There's nothing weird about girls "taking long" to answer. You're just not a priority. I text tons of girls and I see myself doing it (often by accident) to interested girls that are just not in my top 5. Just keep getting digits, if you're constantly texting girls you'll stop thinking about the "dead-texters" because you're literally busy texting the girls that are texting you. Of course if girls rarely text you back you probably need to alter your approach. my two cent |
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i agree with Roussea. If I text them a hour after the approach they are more likely to answer and try to make it stick somehow. The sooner the date the better.
At this time I'm trying for same day lays or dates that night. |
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A girl interested in you does the texting.
It still never happened to me that a girl that was cold via text ended up in a lay. And I tried and tried and tried. Remember that 10% of numbers will lead to a lay. No more. And I'm talking about 10 girls that seemed really enthusiastic about meeting you again. The numbers you get from girls seeming perplexed don't count. So I don't know if you are talking about daygame or not, but every girl I fucked was just WORSHIPING me : we would have a long text convo few hours after the approach (or the day after) where she was super curious about me and then we would meet some days later. Surprisingly, I meet them pretty "late" like 7 days later. Only trust your own experience.
Every beginner's question has a simple answer : go date 100 girls and you will have your answer. Stop asking stupid questions ; that's what girls do. Lays : more than you |
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thats exactly my point, if a girl takes day to text back, that puts me at the bottom of her priority list, either that or she is playing games..i dont have patience or time for either..i usually always get the girls to text back but they are just meh about it..again, either playing games or truly not interested BUt what throws a monkey wrench into this line of thought is some of these same girls have called me weeks later to hook up..again, its impossible to tell whats going on.. |
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I agree with this. Im going to record my approach so maybe i can get some tweeks on what to do!
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