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I mean first number of a girl I think I have a shot with. (single + short but powerful interaction)
I texted her:
"so, where are you going to buy me a drink? Yazé, the umbrella hitchhiker"
"I think it rather has to be you who has to buy me a drink, I allowed you to use my umbrella haha"
Now my first impulse was to say something like:
"hmm, you got a point there"
But I don't know if that's to admissive/beta/not taking the lead?
+ I don't know what to say after that to keep the conversation going.
(keep in mind I don't want to screen too hard: I sure want to go on a date, but I don't want to scare her away. If she is a boyfriend seeker, I don't mind. I want to see how far I can possibly go with her, even if it takes a while)
If I were you, I wouldn't go with either of those. Pitch a time for a date and tell her you can discuss it then.
"Well, if you're free this Thursday night, we can debate it further" or something. I'm not witty, but you get the picture.
Thanks bro, I used that exactly.
Even without '' which I first wanted to add, but then realised, there's no need and might even be creepy.
Main reason why I don't want to use my own lines is because I don't know if they work. So I'd rather fuck it up with someone else's lines, so I won't be angry at myself. Not that your lines won't work, but I suppose you had more experience with texting girls than me, so it's only logical you know it better.
Well, she responded with: "no, I got no time this week "
Exactly what I expected though.
I think I'm just gonna stick to my own feeling next time.
Because like I said: I don't want to screen too hard already, if I find a solid 9 who is a boyfriend seeker I'd rather not scare her away, and I don't mind having a girlfriend for once in my life and having sex for the first time as well.
I don't think asking to go out after getting her number is screening too hard... Who knows, chat with her a bit more then put it on her to tell you when she's free. If she's interested but just legit busy, she'll try.
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