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Ok do last night I'm on my way home and I see this tine ass blonde standing on the corner pointing her finger out. It looked like she wax waiting for someone. But the nice guy in me came out and I pulled a u turn pulled up and asked if she needed a ride. She hopped In. Turns out ghat she had been stood up. She was all upset. I tried to comfort her and she was ok when I got her go her dorm. She was a bit drunk. And was trying to pay me. She left a five on my back seat cause I refused to take cash. I tried to walk her up but she said she was ok. She gave Md a nice hug and we said goodbye then she hugged me again and gave me a kiss on the lips. Now I'm feeling like I would be dumb to jet but i reluctantly got in my car. Noticed the money. And also noticed that she couldn't get In. So being the gentleman I am I grabbed the cash and went up the stairs to help.
I got the door opened. And she asked if I wanted to come in fir a bit. She went to the restroom and then we sat on the sofa for a bit I was rubbing her feet. She got up to get her phone so she could take my number. Thinking back I should not have been such a pussy and should have escilated further. But I didn't. And she said I should go to bed I'm so drunk. So we got up hugged and I pulled her in and we made out. This went on for a bit but she eventually got me to the door. Kissed aittle more. She kept giving me this sexy ass smile. But I didn't press. So I left. And I texted her from my car. Trying to flirt my way back in.
I said : you sure I cant come back up.
She said: Haha yes. I'm way too drunk.
I said: I give the best massage around. And its free.
She said: maybe tomorrow
I said: sounds a bit like a " thanks but no thanks" lol
She said: well see. Night
I said : ill hold my breath. Ha!
How do I play this???
I'm pretty certain that that chance for ass has gone. But what do you guys think!
She was probably down to fuck.
Why? she was drunk, she initiated the kiss, she was down to makeout, she let you in in her apartment, etc etc
You know why it probably didnt happen? You escalated too slow. Escalate faster. its suuuuch a common mistake.
Escalation to sex should be fast and hot and wild. Not slow and romantic and caressing.
As soon as you kiss her, grab her ass, kiss her neck and touch her pussy outside her pants.
The slower you escalate, the more time her logical brain has to think "this is a bad idea i probably should do this"
THATS what happened my friend.
BUT. If she liked u that night, she might like i another time... Call or text her, and set up a time for u guys to hang out again. Then fuck her. Have fun
the details DOESNT MATTER. if she mentions to get together today, then say yeah lets do that, and agree on a time to meet. U DONT NEED TO PLAY GAMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! U DONT NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET !!!!!!!!!!
Look, man. It's just a morals thing, but I don't fuck a girl for the first time when she she is drunk. It's desperate and pathetic.
I know guys who get her drunk right away so they can establish the "Well, we already fucked." It doesn't make you a mack if you can bang a drunk chick. Just makes you that guy she had to be drunk to fuck. You did the right thing. Just hit her up and tell her you want to hang out. Sounds like she likes playful, just be playful.
You're good, man. Move fast, or homeboy who stood her up will fuck her first.
"I don't need your pussy, bitch. I'm on my own dick." - Kanye West
"My dick? On the double-feature screen. Your dick? Went straight to DVD." - Mickey Avalon.
"My heart is massive, but they want my dick. Bitch, you ain't never felt no shit like this. So give me a kiss." -Tech N9ne
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