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For the Guys Who Did Day 14 29 Jan 2014 18:25 #96983

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How did you do it? I restarted the program b/c i skipped ahead and 14 kicked my ass, but even with the social momentum i've gotten i can't imagine how to high five people without saying anything.
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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 29 Jan 2014 19:01 #96990

You can say something if you want. It says in the description

No verbal necessary. You can verbally stop them if you want. Just say, "Hey, high-five."

Use your imagination. The important thing is to get the high fives, not the method by which you get them.
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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 29 Jan 2014 19:23 #96999

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You can say something if you want. It says in the description

No verbal necessary. You can verbally stop them if you want. Just say, "Hey, high-five."

Use your imagination. The important thing is to get the high fives, not the method by which you get them.


yeh i failed this day yesterday, only managed 5 reps. But the easiest one i got was when i stopped a girl to (genuinely) ask for directions and high fived her as i left. Was planning to initiate conversation first for a few of the early ones when i retry tomorrow
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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 30 Jan 2014 02:47 #97124

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You can say something if you want. It says in the description

No verbal necessary. You can verbally stop them if you want. Just say, "Hey, high-five."

Use your imagination. The important thing is to get the high fives, not the method by which you get them.


Wait.. we actually have to get the high five? I thought just going for it counts as a rep cause the reaction doesn't matter. I counted my high five rejections as reps.
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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 30 Jan 2014 05:01 #97137

hi lucidity,

i just did day 14 last sunday.
  it was hard because, it seemed to make no sense to me to the girls.
so for most of the girls, i made up some pretext.

for example:

"nice hat!" - then hold up your hand
"hey how are you?" - then hold up your hand
if they look like sports fans/sporty "superbowl sunday!" - then hold up your hand
" how is your shopping going?" <wait for positive response>  - "allright!" - then hold up your hand.

i'm using pretexts less now, but if/when you need 'em, use 'em.
use them as a crutch till you can get rid of them.

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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 30 Jan 2014 09:19 #97167

Wait.. we actually have to get the high five? I thought just going for it counts as a rep cause the reaction doesn't matter. I counted my high five rejections as reps.


The reaction doesn't matter, but in my mind the rep is not "completed" if you don't get the high-five. That's also what I understood from the audio (it might have been the double high-five audio), where Chris said something like if it takes over 20 attempts to get 10 high fives then you should go home.

But we're not being graded. This is just for ourselves. So I think either way is fine. The approach is the hardest part anyway.
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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 02 Feb 2014 16:11 #97981

Man this day sucked for me, i only got 3 high fives and the rest I was Left hanging:(

I Will not give up tho ill repeat tomorrow.

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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 02 Feb 2014 16:46 #97983

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Man this day sucked for me, i only got 3 high fives and the rest I was Left hanging:(

I Will not give up tho ill repeat tomorrow.


dude i didnt get a high five 8 times straight, so fuckin what lol... well it was freezing outside and i was dressed like a criminal.
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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 02 Feb 2014 18:49 #98010

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To confirm:

You MUST SUCCESSFULLY get the high 5s.

h-bomb is right - use a pretext if that helps. The first time i did the drill, I used "High 5 because it's Friday!".

That worked well. After you complete the day successfully, you will not need the pretext anymore.

Make sure you complete this day well - for me, it was probably THE MOST IMPORTANT day in the whole program because it is far outside of the comfort zone and you attract a lot of social pressure. (people noticing and stuff)

The good news is - once you've done it a few times successfully, you'll be able to do it for the rest of your life  :D

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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 02 Feb 2014 19:17 #98013

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I still think it doesn't really matter if u get the high five, i mean the drill is 3 entire days anyway... ull get plenty, i got plenty...
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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 02 Feb 2014 19:55 #98026

Man this day sucked for me, i only got 3 high fives and the rest I was Left hanging:(

I Will not give up tho ill repeat tomorrow.


dude i didnt get a high five 8 times straight, so fuckin what lol... well it was freezing outside and i was dressed like a criminal.


Understand what u are saying.

But it was a nightmare, it's too embarassing doing it in a mall Then get Left hanging and Ppl laughing at u :(

Hopefully it goes better tomorrow, did you get 20 highfives the first day ?

Is it possible to attempt two days, 40 highfives in one day ?

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Re: For the Guys Who Did Day 14 02 Feb 2014 20:10 #98031

But it was a nightmare, it's too embarassing doing it in a mall Then get Left hanging and Ppl laughing at u :(


That feeling is the anxiety leaving your body. Embrace it. Tomorrow it'll go so much easier.
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