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Radical AA control 03 Jan 2014 18:24 #88402

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Introduced myself a few days ago so this is day 2 of the AA program.

I experience this pretty badly so i want to destroy this anxiety as much as possible.

Today i have
-started this log
-moved back to the city

I will be doing victor prides 30 days of discipline starting tomorrow (the log will be up tomorrow afternoon)

This will be fun. I want to preserve anonymity for now but reserve the right to start a vlog later in the program.
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Re: Getting my crippling AA under control 04 Jan 2014 13:00 #88692

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Days 3+4

Log:
- did the day 4 drill - approached at least 5 women and asked for the time + 2 that i didnt consider good attempts
- thoughts: did some shopping in town and decided to do the first set of drills, i was far too picky with targets. Should have approached more older women and less attractive women to get it done quicker. Had two messed up approaches the first where i asked a girl who did not speak english and looked at me terrified by the question, and second when i approached a good looking twenty-something girl who was shopping with her mum and asked her the time, the mum answered rather than the target so i didnt count it. Probably should have counted those approaches but any excuse to approach more is good right?
- one girl looked through her bag for like 2 minutes, in the rain, and was extremely apologetic about not being able to give me the time. She clearly didn't see the clock on the town hall right behind her lol. The ones that require girls to have basic manners should be easy in England.


side note: im doing Victor Pride's 30 days thing and was keeping eye contact with as many people as possible, he's right there are a lot of 'broken dogs' out there - except the first guy i saw out of the house who literally turned his head to keep  eye contact as we passed each other ha.
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Re: Getting my crippling AA under control 06 Jan 2014 12:17 #89298

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Day 5

Log:
- started the drill as i was walking into town,1st set took me 35 minutes, 2nd 15 minutes
- first set went well until i got to town and there were no real targets in sight for about ten minutes
- had a weird exchange of looks before asking a girl the time - she didnt give it to me despite holding her phone in her hand
- would have got the quicker set done in about 7 minutes if i hadnt accidentally walked into a dead part of town
- first set took a long time partly cause the bad reaction from the 2nd girl shocked me a little
- general reaction was fairly positive but some seemed inconvenienced cause i stopped them while they were walking somewhere, stopping girls to ask them something in the middle of the road is a bit stupid tbf.
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Re: Getting my crippling AA under control 07 Jan 2014 16:19 #89716

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Day 6

log:
- felt like shit this morning, full of nervous energy it was similar to my anxiety i felt last night
- it may well be the first withdrawal symptoms from quitting PMO but i cant be sure
- felt better after working out and a cold shower
- anyway did the drills for about an hour in town
- had to kind of do the 'get in there thing' a day early due to lack of women in city centre
- 'have you been there? is a strange question in such a small city centre lol
- best reactions from foreign girls funnily, whoever said British girls are usually ruder on here was preaching gospel
- feel my mood and ability to do the drills will really increase when my flatmates move back in as im lacking constant social interaction
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Re: Getting my crippling AA under control 08 Jan 2014 15:24 #90048

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Day 7 and Week 1 done

log:
- failed the first set immediately, was faffing around with the house alarm system and saw a girl across the street i didnt know, couldnt get across the road fast enough before she shut her house door behind her
- reset when i walked into Sainsbury's and completed all the other 'get in there reps' properly from then on
- felt the best i have so far -  the wonders a good nights sleep can do
- my mood has just been incredible all day - Chris's audio was also very helpful
- think i experienced the social momentum, however the longer it took between finding good targets the more anxiety built up
- there were far more girls out than before, approached some absolute stunners
- felt a lot more motivated to ask the hottest girls the time than just the average ones and they were actually the most receptive
- Week 2 looks more interesting  :P

Annoyingly going to have to take a few days off the programme, including tomorrow, the weekend and Monday as i have an exam on that Monday, which i need to revise for - my plan is to do day 8 on Friday and then again on Tuesday so as to keep the momentum
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Re: Radical AA control 10 Jan 2014 16:06 #90761

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Day 8

log:
- so failed out of the starting blocks again, there was unfortunately fast moving traffic between me and the girl i saw across the road.
- redeemed myself on the second set when i finished the first one and walked past a cafe with two girls in the window, walked on for a bit before kicking myself (mentally) turned round got the fuck in there and asked the two seated girls for the time. Got a rude look and was told there was a clock on the wall lol
- took the rest of the day quite chilled, made it a mission to approach some groups of two rather than just girls on their own.
- this day probably took me the longest but only because I chose not to rush. It wasn't like day 2 when I was apprehensive and moody.
- got some decent reactions and held the conversations a bit longer than previously
- lots of girls i approached turned out to be fffa, but it didnt really matter
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Re: Radical AA control 14 Jan 2014 16:25 #92039

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Day 8b

log:
- took three days off due to an exam so i decided to redo day 8 and get myself back into the swing of things
- made an effort to approach girls i would actually want to sleep with
- i was in a shit mood, fucked up a few times and it was really the wrong time of day - so i did 5 sets instead of 4 just put myself through a little adversity. I felt better for it.
- reactions were good in general, even to 'have you been there?' which is really is weird to ask after being given directions
- approached some groups of two when it was possible
- genuinely had two girls competing over who was going to give me directions - funny pair
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Re: Radical AA control 15 Jan 2014 15:49 #92356

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Day 9 - Yum Yum

- did the 5 sets required plus an extra set and repeated the last question a few times, approached around 24 girls total
- didnt take me long, even on a pretty dead day and i also took some time to get some shopping done
- this was fun tbh, i was getting bored of asking for directions
- The worst anxiety came in the first three sets - why i did more tbh, felt the social momentum and wanted as much as possible
- again the cutest nicest looking girls actually gave the best reaction
- a girl said she hadnt been there and when i said 'did you like it?' she said she hated fried food and began listing other places that were better - maybe she just likes the sound of her own voice
- for one of the second reps (just ask if they have eaten there) a girl just replied why?
- i'm really enjoying this at the moment, the feeling of completing the drills is pretty good now
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Re: Radical AA control 16 Jan 2014 16:12 #92714

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Day 10

log:
- was in a bit of a rush round town trying to do actual errands for once
- was in town for around 2 and half hours - drill must have taken me about 90 min at most
- did 7 sets so 21 girls
- the main reaction to the last question was just no sorry
- had some good reactions - still finding the ones I'm actually attracted to give me the best reactions
- pussied out of one opportunity because a girl was carrying a load of stuff and didnt want to be inconvenient - thought i had gotten over such excuses. This was why i did more sets.
- approached some groups of two, actually seems to be easier to talk to a group than a girl on her own
- after finishing the 4th set i felt fucking bullet proof
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Day 11: mr nosey 17 Jan 2014 16:32 #93100

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log:
- did 7 sets - so 28 girls plus a few more who replied no to the time questions
- was always within like a minute of an obvious phone shop so got some weird reactions lol
- spent like 2 and a bit hours in town, was shopping for some stuff too and had a coffee break


i did a VLog for this one check it out on my Vlog thread
http://goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=9484.msg89013#msg89013
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2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Re: Radical AA control 20 Jan 2014 16:46 #93952

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Day 12

log:
- did 5 sets roughly and repeated the final rep a few times
- felt the most anxious i have in a while - basically because this is one is an outright lie and also it seemed a bit cringeworthy to me
- made an effort to push through as i always do when im in a shit mood. I think it will help more to keep getting in there rather than bailing and repeating the day
- the conversations were longer with this one and it felt more natural to keep the girls for a little bit more time than before
- i focused on smiling on approach this time too
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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Radical AA control - no drills today but the kratom and phenibut arrived 23 Jan 2014 15:07 #94918

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Kratom and Phenibut arrived

- ounce each of happy hippo 1 and hyper hippo and 500mg of Phenibut
- burned around 3.5 grams of hyper hippo to check the effects (not sure about first usage tbh)
- will use the phenibut when i go out tomorrow night

- no drills as it is pissing down outside, want to be on day 14 by monday though
- redoing day 12 tomorrow and, if i am satisfied with my performance, will do day 13 on saturday
Big goal: 100 lays - so far 14/100
2019 tally: 8 (2 cold approach)

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