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-Approached 15 girls for the drill + 3 extra
Was very anxious all day for some reason but went out to the mall anyway. The drills are starting to get a little more suggestive about my intentions. I went through them pretty fast without much trouble. Tomorrow, day 11!
Had a good time, no trouble doing these drills. Some girls would carry on a conversation even longer and it ended up drifting so I had to remember to LEAVE. When I would ask what kind of phone you have some would pause and say "Why?". I'd respond with something like just wondering or I'm looking for a new phone and they would tell me anyway.
I'll probably go out to do Day 12 drills later tonight.
Extra: Got a number on POF. She seems like a cool girl but very shy and/or boring or she's just nervous. Can't really tell yet. I was doing most of the talking. I'll probably call her tomorrow to set something up.
I was more nervous than usual. I was thinking about the interactions way too much beforehand and it got my anxiety going. Also I dropped some kratom right before which may be part of it. I think it was mostly the idea of saying "I'm the sweetest guy ever", which was definitely the hardest line to say.
Although kind of anxious, my state was high in the beginning and lower towards the end. I let the awkwardness take some control like I did the first couple days. Understandably so since the interactions are becoming more difficult. Also the employees are starting to notice me in the mall lol. Also the fact that I'm still wearing my watch and I have a big ass phone outline in my pocket LOL.
It's starting to become a little challenging. BRING IT ON!
Went to the mall dressed down, no watch this time. Maintained confidence and state entire time. Didn't have any trouble perfoming this drill, even on the really attractive girls. Did 1 extra full routine on my way out.
Day 14: High Fives
-Did 20 highfives for drills + 2 extra
First 10: 6 min
Second 10: 16 minutes
Went to the mall somewhat nervous about the drill but not overly so. I went for the first girl I saw but started to feel like it was first day of asking for the time. Kinda nervous and feeling stupid for doing these drills. Carried on anyway. Some girls just looked totally bewildered that somebody would ask them for a high 5. Some would give me a low 5 even when my hand is in the air and I say high five, lol. A few would just ask "why?!" and then not do it no matter what I said. Another demanded that I tell her why and wouldn't accept any of my answers like "I just want a high 5"
I didn't stop at all between the sets of 10 but I started to get in my head in the second half and almost left half way through. After one of the girls denied me I felt stupid but I understood how irrational it was to let myself feel down over that so I said, WTF does it matter and continued anyway. Ended up doing 2 extra as well.
Not to get hung up on their reactions but about 6 of the 28 girls I approached refused to give me a high five.
Day 15: High Five Part 2
-High five 20 girls + did 2 extra
Went much better today! I went to a different mall with hotter/higher class chicks and I'm usually more intimidated of this mall because of that but it went pretty well.
First 10: 4 min
2nd 10: 10 min
Finished faster than yesterday. I wasn't near as nervous as yesterday. Couple girls still refused but I didn't let it effect me at all. I would just say "call me" and walk to the next one. A lot of girls giggled at it. But reactions aside since they are irrelevant, great success today. Did a couple extra on the way out too.
I'm working on not thinking ahead in interactions and just going for it. But I noticed that some girls I thought definitely would not high 5 ended up going for it and vice versa. The point of this is to remember there is always an element of surprise in interactions. You never truly know what the response will be so you should just throw it out there and see how it goes. It may turn out in your favor when you least expect it.
Day 16: High Five P.3
-High fived 20 girls who were stationary
Went to the mall again. I found it incredibly easy this time. I was laughing at myself and enjoying myself, not really nervous. I found it incredibly funny and pathetic that it's taken so seriously when a couple of the girls wouldn't high five. I didn't find anyone smoking but I high fived people eating food, holding things, looking at clothes, on the phone, etc. I did the 20 back to back and probably did it in about 20 minutes while not trying to go fast.
This one was pretty easy for me because it's not dependent on an outcome from her like high fives are. It was still embarrassing standing there saying the ABCs and quite hilarious. I almost didn't finish one because I was laughing so hard.
I was on fire today. I was approaching girls left and right with 0 anxiety. I wasn't even feeling particularly well, it's just I was so indifferent about the fact that I'm approaching once again, after having done it for 2 weeks straight every single day, skipped only 1 day so far. My mind was kind of scattered at that moment so I kept forgetting the lines and I would have them wait while I think of it. It would get extremely awkward but it was fun. Most of the girls I ended up in conversation with and almost forgot to LEAVE. I was twirling around so they can check out the jacket. I just had a really good time with this drill. I did the gay challenge twice as well.
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK. The last set I opened which was an extra beyond the drills was sexy as hell and totally feeling me. Petite latina with a sexy body. She was giving me the eye HARD as I was walking up to her. Our conversation was flowing real nice. It would of been so easy to escalate physically and get a date tonight. But I signed the petition man so I LEFT. FUCK.
That said, the drill was fun/easy. The gay part was kinda hard and uncomfortable but I got through it no problems.
I opened the 16 girls + 4-5 extra sets doing the "What's hangin" challenge.
Also, I had one lady in her late 30s or so, new yorker or maybe new jersey, totally flipped on me lol. I just walked up and said "Hey how's it going" and she's like "WHOA! You're like attacking me". Once I said "justin beiber" she's like "OKAY. I GOTTA GO!". She was so mad lol. I just said "CALL ME!" and hit the next set.
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