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Sup guys. I'm gonna give this my best shot an hope you follow along. I'll try to get videos in when possible.
Day 1: New Beginnings
-Registered on the site and made my introduction.
I'm feeling really good about the program, excited to get out on the field. Not sure where I'm gonna go to actually do these tasks, but I'll figure something out.
Day 2: EXECUTE, EXECUTE, EXECUTE
-Signed the petition and started this log
I listened to the audio in day 1 and I work full time so I realize I do need to make this my #1b priority and I've made that commitment. This will mean making sacrifices for me. I'm trying to grow my business and I also run a team in an online game, but I'm willing to put that stuff on hold in order to be successful in this program.
Day 3: "At the End of The Day It's About Getting Laid" - No Shame in Online Dating
-Already have a POF and OKC account so that part was easy.
-Read Rooster's Guide
-Took several new pictures for my profile
-Completely rewrote my profiles based on rooster's guide
WOW. What a great guide. I was going about it ALL wrong and coming off as a needy nice guy/wasting too much time. Can't wait for the drills tomorrow! Gonna try to knock out day 4 and 5 in one shot.
Day 4: Realization
-Messaged ~40 or so girls on OKC/POF
-Approached 5 girls at the mall
I made it through but it was harder than I thought. I thought it would be cake and I would hit 5 girls on my way into the mall and be done. It took me about 40 minutes total and several laps around a huge mall. The place was packed.
I'm trying not to attach to the reactions but it seems when I approached a couple of them from behind they reacted as if they were bothered.
Either way, I made it through and I made a rule for myself to approach attractive girls, otherwise it would of been cake if I only approached older women or 1-5s.
Day 5: Improvement
-Approached 10 girls and asked for the time
Time: 40 mins total
This time I went downtown and walked along the strip. My mindset was kind of angry that I didn't do as well at the mall earlier today - not vengeful but more like 'I'm not gonna take this shit anymore' type attitude. Otherwise I wasn't feeling particularly well physically, mostly just tired from a wacked out sleep schedule. I picked out hotties for the most part and non-staff workers.
I could have done it a lot faster but again I was being selective since old/ugly women and staff workers seem too easy. The 40 mins includes a short piss break and staring at the water. I even did some ballsy moves like shouting across the street asking for the time at 2 girls walking and I was totally ignored or they didn't hear me but I said it pretty damn loud. Mostly it was groups of 2 or more that I approached.
There were a couple girls alone around my age that I would open with "Hi" then pause for a second. Their face would light up because I think they thought I was going to hit on them. One of them looked totally disappointed when I asked for the time haha.
Overall good day but I did notice for both sets of drills today my state starts high then descends. However, it wasn't as bad this second time around and I was willing to do beyond 10 but I didn't run into anymore woman on the way back to my car. Nearly stopped at the mall to do 10 more but decided I'll do some PEgym and online dating stuff instead.
-Day 6 drills opened 15 girls
-Opened 2 extra sets with: time, directions, have you been there
-17 sets total
Woke up this morning and the first thing on my mind was doing these drills - I was actually eager to go. Hit up a different mall this time - the other one is notorious nationwide for snobby rich people, not that it should matter though.
I was a bit nervous going in but definitely quite a bit calmer than yesterday. I even wore my watch today lol - but it's a movado so I had somewhat of an excuse since there are no numbers. First girl I hit was a 9 in the parking lot and I just moved fast from there. I was opening sets in front of the previous set. Not a single fuck was given. Walked into lingerie stores and everything. Today I built social momentum rather than getting more nervous as I went on. Feeling great.
This time I went back to the notoriously snobby mall to challenge myself. Opened first girl at the entrance of the mall no hesitation. Finished entire routine about 3 minutes faster than yesterday which I was surprised by considering I almost didn't go.
I'm still sleeping shitty and my neck and jaw muscle are all strained and painful. I also quit marijuana 3 weeks ago after heavy heavy usage for several years and I think I have insomnia from that. Plus it's a weekday so I worked all day so I almost used that as an excuse to skip today but decided to go anyway.
Somewhat psyched myself out and started feeling anxiety at the last set, which I'm seeing more and more is totally irrational and in my head. I kept thinking: "Why the hell do I have anxiety I just did this 12x, fuck it I'll approach anyway."
Oh I did get blown out by a mom and her daughter, the daughter was being cool, but the Mom saw my watch on then started walking away, I said but it has no numbers and showed her (movado), and she made some snarky comment then the daughter followed her. It was a time/direction rep so proceeded to ask directions as they walked away anyway. The daughter answered as the mom proceeded to pull her away, hahaha. Cringed for a second after then laughed at myself. Fuck it.
There were two 8's and a 6, and a couple guys outside the mall on my way out messing around and I engaged with them for a couple minutes, even while feeling kind of shitty. It's totally unlike me to randomly engage with strangers but I guess I had that momentum going.
Day 8: Cake
-Opened 16 girls total
-Wasnt keeping track of time
Hit up the first girl I was attracted to, close to my age, about a 7 or so, no hesitation. I found myself doing the full routine instead of just the time on on some of them on accident. The mall was nearly a ghost town so I was asking a lot of employees. I stayed in a good state for the most part. Almost 0 anxiety when I walk into the mall now to do this. I went up to a security guard and it totally looked like a woman but ended up being a dude, LOL. I still counted it.
Finished the drill in about 12 minutes. Went to a populated mall this time and approached very aggressively. I was moving so fast I was approaching a set in front of the previous two sets. Quite a few said no when I asked if they have been there and when I said did you like it they usually just look at me awkward/confused then I would just start laughing. Compared to Day 8 I would kind of feel bad/cringe when it got awkward. I did an extra two sets on my way out as well. Maintained a positive mood throughout.
I also found it funny the look on their face when I ask have you been there? they say "yes" and I just say "ok" and walk away, haha. I'm really starting to enjoy this.
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