TOPIC: I will crush my AA

Dude congrats! regardless of how it was, u still got laid. Im hoping to follow in your footsteps soon enough

Dude congrats! regardless of how it was, u still got laid. Im hoping to follow in your footsteps soon enough

Thanks! You will for sure (: I gained some experience out of it so it's all positive. Now it's time to level up and raise my standards. I'm gonna hit up the online extra hard again.

Custom Day: Movies

After two days of not doing drills I felt like I shouldn't move forward yet, but I also didn't feel like repeating the previous day. I decided to do a custom drill where I would ask girls whether they had seen the new Hobbit movie and what they thought about it, and then just ask if they'd like to watch it with me in the theater.

Location: 2 different malls
What I did: Asked 15 girls whether they had seen the new Hobbit movie, what they thought about it, whether they thought it was better than the first one etc. Then I asked if they'd like to come see it with me in the theater later tonight, regardless of their answers.
Notes: I didn't actually expect anyone to agree to such a crude approach, but my goal was just to execute. This was fun because it was the first time I've tried to apply my newfound social freedom in "real" life. I got rejected every time, but it didn't really feel like anything. I really didn't care anymore whether people saw me asking several different girls, or what they thought of me wandering around the malls.

I am proud of myself for being able to do this. These were legit approaches, and I did 15 of them in a single day! It doesn't matter how bad they were, it matters that I was able to do it.

I did feel slightly depressed after a couple of reactions. I felt as though some of the girls thought I was pathetic for going to a movie alone and looking for a date. It may have all been in my mind, though. Going to a movie with friends is easy. Trying to find a date for a movie is challenging, and thus not pathetic. Plus I bet that was the most interesting thing that has happened to most of the girls all week, while for me it's just something I do every day!

Other:
- Took my date to the train station in the morning, and kissed her in front of all the people.
- Messaged a massive number of girls online.

Day 26 (Arnold)

Location: 2 different malls
What I did: The "Arnold" sequence for 6 girls. As I didn't reach the required 10, I have to repeat this day.
Challenge: Didn't do it, because the drill itself was hard enough.
Notes: The hardest one so far, although the reactions were mostly those of laughter. Nevertheless I felt really anxious today and was very picky about who I approached.

One girl was with 3 guys and by the 3rd repetition she went in the middle of them to try to get me to go away (she was still laughing though). I turned her around, didn't mind the guys and said the whole sequence for a final time. None of the guys said anything! I should just be more brave.

I totally creeped out two girls - they started walking away after the first time I said the sequence, and I kept following them trying to get all 3 times done. They told me to stop following them and that I was being really weird, but there was no way I was going to yield. At the end I told them they are boring. That really sucked for me, even though I know the only thing that made it creepy/weird was them.

The next girl that I did it to, immediately answered "my father is my father and I don't know what he does... he's probably getting wasted". I was a little taken aback that she was so quick, and accepted the answer She was the best looking out of all the girls, too, so it seems that Chris was correct when he said that the losers will respond poorly while the cool chicks will be cool.

Other:
- Spoke to a random guy at the gym.
- Told a girl at the gym that she was cute, and walked away

It sucks that the stores will be closed for a couple of days due to Christmas. I may not be able to do any drills for the next few days. I hope it won't be too hard to get back into it. In addition I had to combine two workout days together so I was really exhausted today, among other things.

Christmas Eve

Nothing's open - can't do drills since I can't find girls anywhere. I guess someone else might feel all sorry for themselves for spending the christmas home alone, but I really don't give a shit. If I wanted to, I could have gone to visit relatives with my family, but I rather got some shit done today. I tried to get at least a little out of my comfort zone today:

- Told a girl at the gym that she was cute and walked the fuck away. She totally smiled and said thanks

The next ones are more social anxiety related things, because they were done on men:
- There was a really scary looking guy at the gym, so I made a point to make casual eye contact as I would with anyone less scary looking.
- Commented on some dude's Titan Longhorn powerlifting belt, because it was cool looking.

I've also started singing in my car when I'm listening to my tunes. I've found that it really gets me into a good mood even if I don't feel like singing when I start.

Things that suck ATM:
* I've reduced my anti-depressant dose, which is making me feel slightly more uncomfortable.
* I managed to lose BOTH my earring AND my dog tag. They were not the cheap kind either.

Day 26 (Arnold)

Location: Movie theater
What I did: The Arnold sequence for 4 girls.
Notes: Everything's closed and I was so bored today. I decided to see a movie alone, because I had nothing else to do. I'm so glad I did! I found some girls at the movie theater and was able to do some drills on them. Everything went very well today: all four told me what their daddy did!

In general I'm also always making a point to talk to strangers whenever I can think of something to say; whether it be cashiers or other customers at a store or whatever.

Day 26 (Arnold)

I got this!!!

Location: Movie theater (Note: this is a good location, because the girls are in a good mood. The only downside is that they are rarely alone.)
What I did: The Arnold sequence for all 10 girls! I did 5 at first, then had a break, then came back and did 5 more.
Challenge: Not completed.
Notes: I was pressed for time because I had my band rehearsal coming up. Fortunately the challenge seemed easier than before and I was able to do 5 before I had to go. When I arrived at the rehearsal no one was there and I realized I had remembered the day wrong. So I went back to the theater and did 5 more girls in quick succession! After about the 7th time I was just like: "okay, let's get this over with" and did it.

Most of the girls I approached were in a group or with a friend!

The last girl I spoke to was a total 10/10. Not in a cute/sexy way but in a totally Beautiful way. She didn't even look that attractive from behind, but when I said hi and she turned... wow! I got a mini-crush on her. Too bad I was just doing drills

I wish I had known what to follow this drill with... it was kinda awkward, and at the end I just usually said something like "you won!" or "good!" and walked away, turning my head back with a wry smile. Sometimes I high fived them at the end and bid them a good movie.

Day 27 (Where's the Beach?)

Location: Mall, shopping center/bus terminal and a movie theater.
What I did: Did the drill for 4 reps x 4 sets = 16 girls total.
Challenge: Nope. Hard enough as it was.
Notes: This was the toughest one yet, especially the first time. I said "hey bro" to the first girl, but I think it came off threatening, because she was startled. After that I just said "hey". Mostly got "meh" reactions. I can't believe that some of them thought I was being serious! Maybe it's because I actually have some muscle so they might think I'm actually trying to flaunt it. I had my leather jacket on, and took it off for the flexing.

The last girl of set #2 was a total spoilsport: she told me "would you like to get lost?" as I was doing the 10 second routine. I told her to get a sense of humor after I finished and left. That really dipped into my mood, but I decided to fight through it because I didn't want to waste the effort I had done so far. I went home, ate a snack, showered, changed my shirt and went back out.

Luckily the last two girls laughed at me so it was a happy way to finish off the day. The last one were two girls standing on the street outside a bar. They cracked up and asked me why I was showing off and who was filming? They even said thank you after the show

I felt so relieved and on a high after getting it done!!!

Day 28 (Nerd Glasses)

Location: 2 different malls
What I did: Nerd glasses drill for 5 reps x 4 sets = 20 girls (including the challenges).
Notes: This was an easy day for me. No awkward physical stuff, just talking.

When I told one woman I had a question for her and walked away... she started following me all the way upstairs and to the men's department, thinking I actually had something to show her until I realized it! I apologized to her for messing with her because she was actually probably interested in me. Another hilarious event occurred when I did the same part of the drill to two girls and then pretended like I was scared of them or something when I walked away. They were staring after me with the looks on their face spelling out "wtf just happened?".

Some of the girls didn't know what I meant by nerd glasses so I had to explain it quite many times. One girl was totally into it, and immediately answered where I could get them. When I said they would be pretty fucking cool, she was just like "uh-huh, yeah!", smiling and nodding her head in an excited way, thinkin I was serious

I've noticed that the approach and anticipation are always the hardest part. When I was actually in the conversation I never had any problems blurting out the swear words or the "would you fuck me?" -line.

Challenge: Completed once on every set. I can't believe how good the reactions were to this! Nobody got mad and everybody had a sense of humor. The answers I got were (would you fuck me if I had nerd glasses?): "If I wasn't married I would", "Suure...", "No..?", "Maybe not you, but someone else with those glasses on."

Day 29 (x2 High-Five)

Location: Mall
What I did: 3 double high fives
Notes: I slept really poorly last night and have been feeling like absolute shit the whole day. I decided to just get something done, and after three reps decided it was good enough. The three reps were surprisingly pretty easy. I'm gonna repeat this tomorrow when I'll feel better.

Day 29 (x2 High-Five)

Location: 2 malls
What I did: Double high-five for 11 girls. In addition a few one-handed high-fives and ones where I high-fived two girls at the same time with both my hands.
Notes: Today was harder again, probably because there was the possibility of "rejection" that I experienced a few times. As I understood from the audio we were encouraged to put our own spin on it, so I bid happy new year before offering the double high-five. It worked pretty well.

My mood drops when I'm wandering around looking for targets. The best feeling was when I got 4 in a row in like 20 seconds. I went up to two girls sitting on a bench and they both high-fived me, and then I went to the next bench to two other girls.

I had a couple of interesting revelations:

My approach for the last two girls was super awkward and they looked at me with a face that said "wtf is this guy doing?", and I was sure they weren't gonna high-five me. But I put my hands up anyway and they totally did, and hard too! After I high-fived the first one, the other one even stepped up as if she wanted to get a high-five, too.

One girl I thought didn't look like she had a sense of humor so I went up to her friend instead. Turns out that her friend wouldn't double high-five me, but she did and with a smile, too! Looks can be deceiving.

Date

Met up with the same girl again, as she came over for New Year's. I really enjoy spending time with her, but I suspect it's just because I've never had this kind of a relationship with any woman before. It's like having a best friend that you can also fuck! Our sex sucked again, but not as much as last time, so it's experience gained all the time. I don't think I should make her my GF though. The chemistry's not really that good.

A month ago I would have jumped at the chance to get a girlfriend like this, but now I'm confident that I can find someone more suitable and don't have to settle.

I have another date set up for tomorrow (Thursday the 2nd) with a different girl, and I'm excited about that!