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Only managed two sets today due to the weather and being selective if not would I have finished tbh. I learned that I have another weakness is remembering the questions for example sometimes I would say "hi do you have the time" then move on to ask "do you know anywhere that sells good wine" without saying random question first which annoys me I'm not sure if that's a bad thing. Though I'm gonna start again by doing four sets since i didn't finish it that's a penalty I do for myself which i've done for previous drills.
Regarding POF it's been struggle regarding set up dates with the girls one cancelled due to work and has been ignoring my messages from then on, another cancelled on me twice, other three had to delete as they wouldn't answer. I followed the text and phone plan btw. If wasn't for the fact that it's part of the programme I would never sign up just be happy doing the programme sure I get attention on there but that does nothing for me.
Though it gives me another reason to why I have to beat AA if anything and just keep practising on the field till next time.
Due to me working that day and it being a fireworks event my social momentum built up a bit where I was working is a tourist attraction and alot of people. After I finished my first shift I did the first two sets in 15 mins but due me being busy at my second shift I couldn't the finish the drill as quickly as I wanted though managed to do one set during working all work colleagues were looking at me thinking how does he do it and were giving me props. Alot of the girls were friendly though two girls I asked the time they said no and I asked again they walked away from me I just laughed it off. One foreign girl I asked the last question from there just started talking to her then left. Another girl I approached she was friendly and just from talking at first she was defensive when I was asking the question it felt like she was getting receptive a little bit I asked her to remove her glasses she listened starting joking with her and then left
Now one girl I set up a date with from the second week due to other things she couldn't meet up until now. It was quite late and so decided to do the day 13 drill before I meet her, all the girls I approached seemed receptive one especially was interested when I asked for the time she was just looking at me and i said need the time she was like sorry started checking her bag and told me, started to talking to her but cut short as I was close to taking her number, she seemed a bit annoyed didn't.
I was waiting at the station, I phoned her to let her know i was there she was still at home saying she thought I wasn't gonna come cause of left time, next time I learned only confirm a meet up on the phone period. While I waiting I saw this mixed, exotic girl she was looking at me so before I approached knew what I gonna ask went up her asked if there was anyway good clubs or bars she said yes from there starting talking we were laughing then I introduced myself. Turns out she was just waiting for her friend so when she eventually came I left and she waved and smiled at me.
The date was with a cute black girl now when I meet her we hugged for quite awhile, as we looked around everything was close so i suggested we go to my house and just have a drink and I have movies we can watch. As we were waiting for the train I put my arm around her brought her in close, on the train was talking then as we walked to house I held her hand on the way bought wine though she was complaining about how far my house was.
As we got home made her comfortable gave her food, drank some wine we talked, times she kept looking at me then I looked at her, we just laughed she said she was admiring how I looked. Later on got her on my bed we cuddled, talked started, kissing her and touching her and then grouping her and she shut me down and said i should stop trying to seduce her, calmly said i'm not and changed the subject, another 10 mins did same thing again she shut me down pretty it was the same process then came to a point she said she was gonna slap if I did it again lol. I held back a bit and starting talking holding her, she turned her face the another way so I couldn't kiss her then later on held her waist moved up close to her and did same thing again, she got annoyed asking why I didn't respect her blah blah, asked for the time, she wanted to leave.
I was a bit annoyed but with want i've learned today and the program I'm doing I just didn't care when she gave me a bad reaction it was almost like I was an asshole but in a nice way she couldn't really slap me or get angry as she wanted to as I wasn't forcing her or showing annoyance or getting angry when she rejected my advances. Half way through I didn't care whether I had or sex or not cause knew there were other girls out there that like me and soon I will be able to screen approach so I was thinking in abundance so helped me not appear needy or beg her to stay.
Another thing she was one of those girls that doesn't like to be touched and doesn't like to kiss which she stated herself which showed me she might not have a good view on sex, she also added she's not about that life though I didn't buy it as you know girls say something and do the opposite. Anyway she want in cab and I said bye and that was my date.
Originally was gonna do the drill tomorrow as it was evening didn't think there would be enough girls but as I was on my to the gym I decided to do it out of the nine girls I approached only four them high-fived which didn't affect me and the drill was not as hard as I thought it would be. Now last two girls I high-fived I was with my friend which gave me a boost though gonna do this drill on my own until i feel comfortable with doing this.
Today I was at another social event which built my social momentum up and only managed to approach 7 girls only four of them gave a high five. So going to keep doing this until i feel comfortable and finish the drill properly
Managed to high five ten girls in three hours though could have done it quicker but i went to the barbers and then to gym after finishing there done rest of my reps. Today was a funny and really awkward two girls out of the ten proved difficult, the first one said no and literally kept hand up and said i'm not leaving until you give a high five, though she was friendly and I helped with directions then finally gave me a high five.
The second girl I approached as soon I said hey high five stopped and got defensive I said just give me one she said could I please leave her alone again I stood my ground until she gave me one.
One woman properly lates 40's I approached was confused and tried to give a bro fist instead of a high five, she was like sorry I'm on phone I tried again the same thing happend again. So I grabbed her arm clapped her hand on my hand lol. I left bursted out laughing that was probably the most awkward encounter i've had doing these drills.
Today managed to high five 20 girls ran into some resistance with a few girls but kept the pressure on though two refused to high five me even though I didn't back down I got the usual leave me alone, also I got new one today of replies, she said do I do this all the time with girls with her bitchy face I said I'm in a good mood she didn't want talk, then turned into the station. High fived girls in groups including a mum and daughter, also tried to high five one woman who was meeting her boyfriend once she meet up with him I said to him i wanna high five your girlfriend he just laughed she did it did close call.
I went past a takeaway shop and saw one girl looking at me walked back and stuck my head to look at her, walked in looked at the guy on the right and looked her and before I could say anything she said hey u alright replied hey high five she did then I left lmao, who knows want was going through her head after.
One italian girl I approached I high fived her and later on was walking approached her again not knowing it was her she was like what I doing with a smile I told her trying me social and confident we walked to together and talked did a bit touching on her arm asking whether she goes gym, asked for the time then held a wrist pretending I couldn't see her watch properly then finally introduced myself holding her hand for quite a while then saying bye giving her a hug.
The day before I took a rest day due to work but i'm going to this one time but during the day before I finally move on to week 3.
Again high fived 20 girls my friend was with me to watch, was even faster than yesterday done it in about 30 minutes. Two of the woman I approached tried to high five didn't want to so kept pressuring them one of them said they have allergies can't obviously she was lying, then I said why are you walking with your friend if you do. I kept following them her friend saying I should leave then told me to fuck off I started pissing her off more then she said she's gonna call the police I didn't react just laughed and shouted at her saying the number doesn't begin with zero.
After just started talking to random women and also being funny making jokes but realised even though I don't have outcome dependency need to balance with serious being able to listen.
I had two days off but wanna keep focus so going to avoid taking days off if I have a choice, today was medicore as I was aiming to finish in 15 mins worse 20 mins but ended up finishing in 30 mins same as last drill on day 14. Normally I would start from when I leave my house but waited to go the central part where there would be plenty of women, now normally I would hang in if they don't give me a high five but due to this being rapid fire if they don't comply after the second time I leave.
This was worse then yesterday as I took more time to finish I was on my way to finishing on time but some of these bitches didn't wanna give a simple high five either though I engaged them a bit. I was a bit pissed off plus I got really bad reactions today but could care less to be honest. My anxiety did play up a bit and doing the first few reps were awkward and started thinking too much again.
Plus I learned something today every time I would compliment a girl she would give me a high five typical, now next time i'm doing this drill it's either my hand up or hey high five. The compliments and hi fives is just for extra and the hot girls
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