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Re: AA who needs it 06 Sep 2013 10:03 #55860

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I only do really hot girls or girls I would actually do real approaches on.

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Re: AA who needs it 06 Sep 2013 12:40 #55879

I only do really hot girls or girls I would actually do real approaches on.


Cool. Thanks man for the verification. It's going to take me a bit longer to complete, but I feel the results are going to be a lot better  :D

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Re: AA who needs it 06 Sep 2013 13:52 #55888

Day 9b:

- Did 2 stacks in the AM. Feeling a lot more natural today and really getting in there with the first question. Stacks are running a lot faster now.
- Did another 2 stacks...easy.
- Finished the last stack....on the last approach (a model chick) ended up introducing herself to me and starting a conversation. I stayed within the boundaries of the drill and tried to leave as quickly as possible.
- Went to a bar around 11 PM ran average guy game there at least 5 to 10 times. Got one number and a date that night, but by the time I texted her everything was closed. So I really couldn't suggest a spot. Any suggestions on this?

Overall much better than yesterday.

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Re: AA who needs it 09 Sep 2013 14:37 #56525

Day 10:

- Ran 3 stacks this morning. Got a weird look, haha. Love it.
- Also added this picture on POF to replace the tattoo. Is it ok?
- Ran 2 stacks in the evening.



- I also ran basic guy game on a cute girl waiting on line with me for the bus. I'm getting pretty comfortable with these. She said she had a boyfriend so I backed off. GLL community: Is backing off the right/wrong thing to do? Also, if I'm feeling comfortable enough to run basic guy game (especially in bars/clubs) is it alright to do so? I was never really the kind of guy the feared rejection so for me it's actually pretty easy.

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Re: AA who needs it 10 Sep 2013 15:27 #56735

Day 11a:

- Didn't see that many hot girls today. Ran only 2 stack.
- The girls I approached seemed in a real rush at lunch. Some couldn't even give me the time of day, literally. I got 1 stack done.

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Re: AA who needs it 11 Sep 2013 14:13 #56975

Day 11b:

- Ran 1 more stack. I'm having trouble with this one. It's not the approach itself (if anything my approach has went up), but the amount of time that the girls are sticking around is a lot less. Not really running into a problem with the approach here. Moving on to the next one.
- Planned to meet with Scotty this Friday.
- I started touching girls to get their attention. This definitely kicks in the the fight or flight response a lot more. I'm going to do the drills using this method.
- Ran basic guy game on 2 girls after the gym. I think I might take a break from the drills in order to try:

* Squeeze arm to get attention
* Ask for the time
* "Wow. Your naturally pretty"
* "Tell me how your week was" + small talk
* Ask on date.

- The above really isn't difficult for me. GLL COMMUNITY: Do you feel this is the wrong thing to do? 
- The drills aren't really invoking any kind of "fight or flight" response. Before starting the drills I actually was trying to talk to at least 5 random girls a day (small talk not asking out), the approach may have never really been the problem. 

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Re: AA who needs it 12 Sep 2013 12:17 #57145

- Ran my first basic guy game stack on the bus. Girl wasn't available. Feeling good. Keep them coming.  ;D
- Tried to run another stack during the morning walk to my job. Definitely a lot more challenging, but I like it. I was only able to run:

*Squeeze arm - Time
*Squeeze arm - Time, Compliment.

- I like the challenge though. I'm going to continue for now.
- Ran another attempt at the stack got further. Feeling more natural

*Squeeze arm - Time
*Squeeze arm - Time, Compliment.
*Squeeze arm - "Tell me how your week was" + small talk

- Ran into rain and had to head back before I can finish the stack.
- Finished another stack. Got to say a lot harder to this than the drills, some women are completely unrepresentative to being touched.

- Things that i need to work on:

* Speeding up the approach. I notice I put way too much thought on "I can't let my previous approach see me approach someone else". I need to stop this way of thinking.
* I keep forgetting to introduce myself. In addition I think "What's the time?" is weak. I should just approach with "Hey, what's up" then the compliment. Like I do at a bar/club. This will be my drill for tomorrow.

- I am meeting Scotty tomorrow, so he may help me overcome the above.

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Re: AA who needs it 13 Sep 2013 14:43 #57458

- Only ran one full "stack" of basic guy game on a girl. She instantly told me she had a boyfriend. It feels so liberating to not be wasting my time anymore.
- Got to work on increasing the number of approaches though. My night game is much stronger than my day game.
- Feeling "off" today. Like I don't want to approach at all. Got to get myself out of this rut.

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Re: AA who needs it 16 Sep 2013 00:53 #57875

- Ran 5 stacks of basic guy game yesterday. They are getting more and more natural. First one got me a number. Texted her got no response yet. Next.
- Got a number online. Texting her tomorrow.

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Re: AA who needs it 16 Sep 2013 15:15 #57958

- Ran another basic guy game stack this morning. I'm just glad touching and asking them out feels like a regular thing for me. Still feeling a little anxiety. No big deal though.
- Ran another stack during lunch. Need get faster at this. Still too much thought behind. My objective is clear: no thought just action.
- Definitely still "pussying" out on street approaches. Went to a bar and basically approached every women there (with a guy or in a group). Got a number but from a girl that I wasn't really interested in. It was my last approach of the night. Decided to might as well do it and just get the number.
- Got a date with a chick from POF. Going to work on my dating game with her.

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Re: AA who needs it 18 Sep 2013 12:54 #58371

- Went on date yesterday. Went alright. I was trying to touch as much as possible and to be sexual. I'm going to invite to drinks/cuddle/movie tomorrow.
- Also confirmed a date for Sunday. These chicks are still not the quality I'm looking for though. I guess until I put on some lbs I won't get those.

- Gym progress: gained 2 pounds but lost fat (abs starting to peak through again). After two weeks I think that's pretty good progress. Goal: gain 20 lbs by next summer. Currently 138 and 5'7". I want to start taking progress shots. Not sure if this is the place to post them though. Can anyone advise?

- I also wanted to list my diet, but not sure if this where I should list it.

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Re: AA who needs it 24 Sep 2013 17:51 #59781

Sorry guys. I was MIA for a while. I have been going through some stuff. Ended up getting a chick pregnant. She ended up terminating and I got sick, so I have been dealing with those issues for now. Also went on another POF date. I was a lot more aggressive on this. I think it ended well. She really like hugging me. Probably should have made out (not that I didn't make the attempt). Going to shoot her a text tomorrow asking for drinks cuddle movie?

I have been still running BGG from time to time with little to no success. Probably because I either ask for the date at a bar and its much too late, or street approaches aren't being successfully executed. Nevertheless, in a bar, I am getting much more comfortable touching and holding, so I'm going to start more aggressive game at the bars.

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