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- Still fucking that chick I met online
- Went on a date with another one.
- Created POF:
- Created OkCupid: (Not sure how to get the URL for this since the website doesn't seem to allow you. Anyone know?)
- Messaged 16 girls in 30 minutes. Got one response already:
Me: I'm making the first move. I dare you to reply!
Her: I do not accept the challenge. Thank you
Me: You're not one fo the crazies on here, stalker and or clinger?
Her: I said I do NOT accept the challenge. So if I was.... it does not matter to you. Thanks
Her: You shouldn't be picky anyway. Those pictures do nothing for you.
I think she is testing me. Not sure if this is going to go anywhere. Might be a waste of time. Please let me know your thoughts, also can someone evaluate the profile? I am up for suggestions. Thanks
- Asked 6 girls (I found attractive) for the time. Took about 15 mins. (AM)
- Asked 4 girls (I found attractive) for the time. Took about 15 mins. (Noon)
- Asked 4 girls (I found attractive) for the time. Took about 15 mins. (Evening)
- Messaged 30+ girls on POF.
Starting to understand what this is all really about. It's almost as if you are bypassing thought and just executing. Let's if I can continue this streak. I am leaving the country on Thursday. Will try to do the drills there, but I feel as though some may be difficult to execute in "unknown terrain". I was thinking of modifying some of the phrasing to fit the situation. Any thoughts on this?
- Approached 7 women (who I was attracted to) in < 15 mins
- Approached 7 women (who I was attracted to) all while walking with friend of mine. Took a little bit longer because of this.
- Approached 6 women (who I was attracted to) in < 10 mins.
I'm definitely getting faster. First 3 were under a minute. The thing that is slowing me down is I'm having trouble evaluating who is attractive or not.
At the end of the day it became almost an impulse. Something done almost naturally.
- Ran 3 stacks (AM). "Pussied" out on some of the approaches, but I feel I ended on a high note
- Had a short lunch. Ran half a stack. I don't count it.
- Got a chicks number online.
- Ran 3 stacks (PM). Still "Pussying" out on some. Also a lot of girls did not know the place I was asking about - Rockefeller Center. I guess I was asking mostly tourists.
Had to do this stack over a few days since I was traveling.
- Finished it by the end of my vacation. I did not have a lot of success on this since where I was people didn't speak much English.
- Silver-lining: I ran basic guy game on a girl and got a date (date was unsuccessful), and approached 3 girls with basic guy game with no dates. - this was also difficult since I didn't really stay in one place for a long time.
- I have been also talking to Scotty about his program (since he lives in my area). I am going to meet some time next week. I am planning to meet only for an hour. Has anyone else on the on forum done the program? Any experiences you would like to share?
- Also added new/deleted pictures from my POF account. Can someone please review and let me know if they are good?
Yes sir, culturally, but I have actually studied a lot of different religions. I was actually a tantra-buddhist monk for 4 years. Probably the cause of my AA since we were supposed to take ourselves out of the material world. I was also baptized into an all African-American/Caribbean non-denominational church. Let's just say I stood out when I was there.
...Why? Did you want to wish me a happy new year (Rosh Hashanah) ...jk.
- Ran 2 and half stacks (AM). Really starting to "Get in there".
- Approached with basic guy game. Got interrupted before I could ask her out. I still feel like it is a success since the approach felt very natural.
- Ran 1 more stack. Ran out of time to complete the last one.
- Ran basic guy game on a cute Asian girl. Texted myself her number through her phone, but she told me she unimaginatively busy and couldn't go out tonight or tomorrow. Is this where I should just move on to the next one or actually pursue?
- Also just planned a date with a girl I met online.
- Still fucking other chick from before. She wants to get serious though. I keep telling her that I don't want anything exclusive.
- Took lunch with a friend so I couldn't do the full stack. Just ran the last question:
*Time, Have you ever eaten at..., Did you like it?*
Did this 5 times. (actually lost count after that)
- Completed 2 stacks - not happy with the way I did on these. I felt very tired after work. I'm going to try harder tomorrow.
Followup: Asian chick says that she is "not necessarily interested in men" and she was to shy to tell me on the bus. Haha just my luck! Well waste of time. Move on. Made plans with the chick I met online to meet this Saturday.
Quick question guys: I know Chris talks about approaching the 'first' girl you see, attractive or unattractive. I never really had trouble with unattractive girls in terms of the approach. I been trying to approach mostly attractive girls (9 or 10's) and that's probably why it's been taking me so long to do these drills. What's you opinion on this? Should I just talk to 15/20/etc random girls with basically no flight or fight response or try to go for the 9/10s and really feel the response.
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