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Made an account on okcupid, but it is kind of pointless. I mean there are only 4 or 5 attractive girls from my city on it. So I really need a good alternative. Anyone knows a good free datingsite in the Netherlands?
Because the wheather (finally!) was sunny today I decided to do some approaches.
I approached this nice looking girl I have seen before in the library, she walked toward me and I said: hi you have beautiful hair, she thanked me for the complimented. I then introduced myself and made some small talk with her. I said I had an appointment (true) and that I would like to have a coffee with her sometime. She said she couldn’t because she has a boyfriend. But the approach felt really good. Really positive, I really had the feeling the girl appreciated it.
I approached another girl on the street I just said hi and that she was beautiful, she said thank you, thank you but kept on walking.
In the supermarket I started talking talking to a girl behind me in the line about a product she was going to buy. Then on her way out of the store I re-approached her (the conversation had stalled during the cashier) and I asked what she was going to do. She was going to some meeting. I asked her if she wanted to have a drink with me sometime. She said:” I am so sorry, I have a boyfriend, but it is really nice to meet you!”
To which I replied:” You don’t have to be sorry, if I had a girlfriend I wouldn’t go out with you either.” So I am quite content with what I did today.
I tried to approach a lot more girls, but something inside me blocked.
Approached a girl in the morning, on the street walking towards me, I said you look very good. She just said thanks and kept walking.
In the afternoon I asked 5 girls for the time in about ten minutes.
After that I did another direct approach. I think I kind of scared the girl a bit there.
I had been unable to do drills for 2 days, Wednesday and Thursday. Luckilly I was able to do day 5 yesterday in sunny Amsterdam. Man, I have to move to a city like that. Hot women everywhere, lots of lonely female tourists too. I did the time asking thing in 10 minutes first round and 3 minutes and 24 seconds second round.
After that I talked to a lot of girls in Amsterdam and had a great day. I was indirect mainly, but had some nice interactions and was happy about that. At night, back in my own city I got approached twice in a bar. Normally I don’t get approached at all. The first girl who approached me said I looked like a famous dutch person. Which I think is bullshit. After talking to her for a while her friend interfered. She then told me they where going to stand somewhere with another group of friends. I asked for her number, but she wouldn’t give it. She said:” you’re quick, aren’t you.” I laughed.
Today I did some volunteer work. Has been a while since I did something like this, but it was quite rewarding and there were lots of cute girls around too.
I was kind tired and thought that I “had to “ skip another day. But then I thought about how much I already gained from just doing the drills for the past few days and that I had vowed to make this a priority for the next months. So I left the house and did the drills, although the shops where already closed. I did day 5 again today. First round about ten minutes. Second round 6 and a half. Holla.
I am noticing clear differences since I have started this program in my own level of confidence. I communicate better and girls and people in general react better to me during communication. This motivates me a lot.
Today I did the drills for day 6. From a lot of places in my city the tower with the clock on it is visible. So a lot of girls I asked pointed at the clock. Everything went quite normal. Only thing is when I was asking for directions a few times the girls didnt know how to get there and I had to bite my tongue to not blow my cover and tell them where it was. One pretty cute girl was pretty apologetic about not being able to tell me how to get to where I asked and she was asking me questions where I was from and I was feeding her lies… pretending I was a tourist in my own city. I felt kind of stupid about it, because I liked her and it seemed like she was also interested.
Anyway I completed the drill. The have you been here part felt a bit unnatural. I mean it felt unnatural to eject after that. Also I felt a bit silly to ask for directions and then not follow them, but I didn’t want to get to far away from the ciy centre.
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