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I didn’t start a log cause I actually keep track on a notepad.
Tried to day 8 today after skipping a day and I noticed that my anxiety had not increased emotional wise but I started to think a lot about which girls I should approach.
So I said F it and approached the first woman I saw and asked for time even though I comtemplated about skipping her I don’t know why.
Got to the city center and asked the first girl I saw once I was outside of the trainstation asked her for time and directions but for some reason I also asked her if it was far away.
I started to notice that I was skipping a lot of girls so I finally approached one that was stationary and asked for the time, directions if she had been there. But since I was not in the right state of mind I went back to asking three more girls the time before calling it quits.
I think skipping a day might be the worst thing I could’ve done but I promised myself that I’m gonna retry day 8 tomorrow and get it right. If it doesn’t work out I’m going back to day 7 untill I feel 200% confident.
Got a few numbers of POF and OKC but still haven’t gotten any dates as of right now but hoping that will happen with the week.
So overall I’m pretty happy how far I’ve gotten considering the first time I tried day 4 it took me 4 hours!! to ask 5 women for the time and now I can do the day 4 drill within 5-10 minutes. The only problem I have is that there are a lot of clocks in my city for some reason and I always feel weird/ like I’m bothering them when I’m asking for the time. I also need to learn not to skip so many “hot” girls that are like a 9 or 10 cause I can ask talk to 6’s left and right but the hotter ones I always find excuses to skip them.
Got it done today even though I let the first girl slip by since she was with a group of girls and I immediatly felt the AA, did the 2nd girl after that though. All in all the drills took me about 90 minutes to finish.
So gonna try and do it again tomorrow but within an hour
Almost let the first one slip by but I didnt and this the first three within 3 min.
But then i got to
the city center and made a big mistake by talking to my friend on the phone which took away almost all of my momentum so i had to build that up again.
The one thing i noticed though is that if you ask a girl for the time and if she has eaten in a nearby restaurant she will almost follow it up with a story and i felt rude if walked away so i never did.
But i got through all 15.
So note to self: dont talk to friends on my phone and dont let girls finish their stories
I got off to a quick start but found myself to be way too selective when it came to approaching. So after the 2nd set I almost wanted to quit and then I said to myself there is NO SUCH THING AS QUITTING. And then I did the other 3 sets within 30 minutes. The only thing I need to watch for was when ppl said they didn’t hadn’t eaten at the restaurant I said: ohh right instead of did you like it.
Got off to another quick start but I noticed that I have a lot of trouble when I leave too much time between approaches and that’s what messes me up. Had problems again after the 2nd set and had to reset my mindset to DO THE F*CKING DRILLS and after that I got it done pretty quickly.
Note to self: Need to keep in mind that I’m there to do the drills and that’s it .
Things I noticed:
-Still trying to be selective when picking girls to talk to
-Did it faster than saturday but still not quite satisfied
-My anxiety is lower but my social momentum doesn't go up as much anymore probably cause the question asking is more in my comfort zone now.
I bombed today so I decided to call it quits for today and gonna try day 10 again tomorrow.
3rd time is the charm
Yo mate just to put shit into perspective: Doing a certain day more than once is a very good sign. It shows that you are really dedicated and willing to get most out of the program and not just half-assing and skipping everything. It took me 5!! days to get Day 11 done but today it just felt much better.
As long as you are willing to put yourself out there and get some exposition you are moving forward even when you are not successful drill-wise. At least that´s how it feels like for me.
Things I noticed:
-I can definitly talk to the first woman I see, I actually ran after her lol
-I did it faster than yesterday(in 60 minutes i think) even where I got a few no to the Do you know where a movie theatre question. My thought was to count them anyway but I didnt so I only counted the girl that also answered the movie questions.
-I find the hotter looking girls to be way more polite than the average girls and a lot of them dont seem to want to leave the convo so I say okay thanks and then walk off. One girl actually stood still after i walked off and then was like uhm okay bye lol.
Not sure if im gonna do this one again tomorrow or gonna do day 11, I will decide that tomorrow but most definitly not gonna do it as early again since there way too many spaces between actually seeing a girl that wasnt a tourist and spoke my language.
Did 5x of time asking
and 4x of asking where the phone store is
Things I noticed:
-If I ask a few tourists in a row and they obviously dont know or understand the question it gets me out of state and in my head.
-When i travel with the subway to the city centre the subway ride gets me out of state cause i'm not talking.
So yeah gonna try again tomorrow just gotta keep at it!
Still having trouble doing the drills because right now i'm jobless and i'm worrying about bills constantly!
Its really annoying
So I did 5x asking for time
and 3x asking for where the shop is before i gave up.
So dont know where to go from here since i dont wanna quit but i dont want to be spending money on train tickets when i dont have any money coming in anytime soon.
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