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Re: Beating Approach Anxiety! (Remedy) 17 Jun 2013 16:55 #41206

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Had quite some shit going down the last few days but got my life sorted a bit.
I now have more than 3 months where I should be able to do the drills in my current town, then I am moving to another city (1-2 million people). Stressed out but a bit relieved that I now have clarity. Gonna resume the drills within the next few days.

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Re: Beating Approach Anxiety! (Remedy) 17 Jun 2013 17:24 #41215

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all looks good man. :D
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Re: Beating Approach Anxiety! (Remedy) 17 Jun 2013 19:49 #41240

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Dude, persist with those high fives! I remember when I tried it, I was going crazy because I just could not get myself to do it.

Now it seems like literally the easiest thing in the world.

You'll get it eventually :)

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Day 13 18 Jun 2013 13:17 #41387

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What did I do today?

- Revisited Day 13 but only the the last step (Time, Is there a shop around that sells good wine? I passed an important exam! Which one would you recommend? Leave). Dont really need the build-up anymore.

Things I noticed:

- Did this drill mainly to regain momentum and get used to approaching again.
- Not really hard, perfectly doable.
- It´s´like 110 F out there in the sun, think I got some kind of heatstroke haha.

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RESTART! 16 Jan 2014 19:58 #92760

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Just reading through this thread actually makes me quite angry, that I simply quit (obviously there were lots of other things going down at the time - but nevertheless it's always your decision whether you quit or not!) and pussied out.

Gonna take my second term off from university (actually I already did) to get this shit handled once and for all - starting from the 3rd of February (end of first term finals) until beginning of july or september - depending on my summer plans. That makes about 5 or 7 full months of unconditional hustle with perfect logistics from March to July. So basically I have 5 or 7 months (february - beginning of july or september) where I have NO duties or responsibilities other than approaching and killing my AA. There might be some days where I have to take a day off due to various reasons out of my control but other than that nothing!

I hope some people here are going to call me out when I start to slack off. Honestly just thinking of the drills starts to creep me out a bit haha. It definitely is something I need to get handled this year!

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Re: Beating Approach Anxiety! (Remedy) 16 Jan 2014 20:03 #92764

You might as well start today.
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Re: Beating Approach Anxiety! (Remedy) 16 Jan 2014 20:07 #92765

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Definitely feelin you ronin but I deliberately chose the 3rd of february as I think it is better to fully finish everything else university-related so I am free in the second term and dont have to drag along one or two fuckin courses.

But honestly you are the kind of person I need in this thread ;) I hope you are going to check in with me from time to time, bro!

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Restart! 03 Feb 2014 08:16 #98159

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Yo guys!

Today is the 3rd of February, time to restart the AA program. Spent january getting rid of stuff that could haunt me the next few months (even though I might have to redo one exam in june but that is not for sure!) to be able to spend my undivided attention on the AA program.
I'm going to start really slow this time meaning I will do more approaches than necessary till I'm really comfortable with the drill and not just skip ahead when I am able to half-ass the drills somehow.
I have with almost 100% certainty no other obligations until the beginning of june (4 months), with about 60% certainty no obligations until end of august (7 months) which will definitely be the last time in my life where I will have that much free time. Furthermore I'm rolling with lots of social momentum at the moment as I have a fuck buddy who is a current regional beauty-queen and model.
I'm very content with my life in general (even though I have been physically feeling like shit for the last few days due to severe kratom side effects) but I'm very dissatisfied with my social freedom as I seem to miss out on lots & lots of opportunities. Seems like I have the fundamentals down but I cannot capitalize on it due to lack of social freedom.

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Re: Beating Approach Anxiety! (Remedy) 03 Feb 2014 16:01 #98216

Let's push each other man, I'm on Day 9 and I'm really sick of "pussying" out on some of the drills. I'm in college too so I have distractions and exams so I know how you feel.

Anyway keep going hard bro, and try to remember that once you get over your A.A. you'll be "unstoppable".

"I will die before I quit"

"In order to achieve a goal you need a Refuse To Lose mindset and a force of will that simply can't be stopped, diverted, or diluted by anyone or anything.

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Re: Beating Approach Anxiety! (Remedy) 03 Feb 2014 19:47 #98279

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welcome back boss! Best of luck but you won't need it

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Re: Beating Approach Anxiety! (Remedy) 05 Feb 2014 13:42 #98815

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Let's push each other man, I'm on Day 9 and I'm really sick of "pussying" out on some of the drills. I'm in college too so I have distractions and exams so I know how you feel.

Anyway keep going hard bro, and try to remember that once you get over your A.A. you'll be "unstoppable".


Yo I'm all for it, always a game changer when you have someone you could (friendly) compete with and motivate each other!
Yeah I've been thinking that for about 1-2 years now - kill AA and then the world is your fuckin playground!

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Re: Beating Approach Anxiety! (Remedy) 05 Feb 2014 13:43 #98816

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welcome back boss! Best of luck but you won't need it

Thanks jason, it honestly means a lot when there are people supporting you with a cause like that. Friends and family don't really understand the stuff we do.

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