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I tried the day 4 drill today (will be doing it again though). I don't know why it took me 2 hours, that's pretty sad. I wasn't very nervous, but making the commitment of "ok, now I'll ask this girl" seemed rather hard, as I was expecting that it would be lame - who asks for time nowadays. 2 of the 5 girls had a pretty pissed reaction and said "I don't know.", the rest was friendly. Of course, I don't know if this is the reason, but I do feel like this might be a bit because I'm in eastern Europe. I've noticed how friendly/smiling people are when I was in UK, and it must be even better in USA, but here, people on the street tend to have a very pissed off look and just mind their own business.
In English, there is "you" in the formal sense, and "you" in the friendly sense, but obviously the same word is used for both. In my language, there are two words. Is it ok to ask in the formal sense? I didn't do that, but it would be a lot easier that way. And I would be able to ask older women as well lol, because at 21 years old, there's no way I'm going up to a 30+ one and asking her informally.
Also, is the "what time it is" meant to be an awkward question? I'd rather just skip to asking for directions, as that would be so much easier. Or maybe I'm just making excuses and lying to myself, I don't know.
I really don't know why I care so much. I know it doesn't matter, and when I'm sitting here at home, I don't give a fuck. I don't even give a fuck once I make the commitment of asking, but doing that commitment... that's just really hard for me.
Don't get caught up in the words - asking for the time is only a pretense to facilitate social interaction and help you get over your fears.
I'm in Finland - a country with people who can be in ways cold, closed and poorly socially calibrated/unsocial, yet EVERYONE tells me the time or points to a clock.
Your expectations create your reality. If you expect failure, you'll get it. If you're friendly and kind to people - they generally reflect that back. If you learn to stay positive and love life - people will react to you better. Ask "you" in whatever sense you want, you gotta get comfortable saying anything that comes to your mind anyway.
Hey, you don't want to get stumped this early on in the program. Do whatever that makes you least comfortable, but at some point you still have to get comfortable with asking for time. You can ask for direction first, then ask for time, etc. But if you can't ask girls for time, how do you expect to take a girl off the street home for sex.
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