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<---- This is my POF. I have a conundrum: I don't have any good pictures of myself. I tend to be a little anti-social and avoidant, so I usually run off when people start talking about pictures. I'm told I'm a good looking guy, but I've always had self-confidence issues. I'm going to fix up my profile when I get home from work tonight.
Sent out some messages using roosters guide as a template and now I'm about to go to bed. I'd appreciate it if anyone checked out my profile and gave me some feedback. I'm going to get better pictures soon, but I need to take them first. Haha.
Today was definitely the hardest! I don't know why asking people, "have you been there? would be so hard. I did 60% of it yesterday (each step 3 times) and did the other 40% in two days. I'm definitely repeating this day.
In hindsight, day six was lot of fun. I mad ea lot of people laugh and I made myself laugh too. hahaha. One girl was like, "yeah...i've been there. I do work at the mall, after all."
I just sorta acted like whatever and said, "cool. I don't" and she kept trying to keep the conversation going with, "I guess you're just really craving Burger King, huh?"
I am having fun and that is what counts at this stage.
My schedule is changing this monday and I will only be able to do my drills Thursday-sunday, because I'll be working 10:30am-8:30pm Mon-Thurs. I may start going out at night and doing this stuff, but I'll have to see.
Either way, this is my main mission right now and I"m going to KILL IT and feast on it.
Week 1 Complete
Ok, so I just finished my last day of week one and I just want to reflect a little bit on what I've learned.
I was surpisingly reticent about the first few approaches, esecially when I had to ask, "have you been there," but I got over that rather qucikly. As the preface to each day said, it wasn't that hard but I'm happy with myself for taking action this far--I'm just going to take it week by week and knock it out with time.
Sadly, my schedule is a little lame, when it comes to availability, but I am making this my major project for however long it takes. I've been going out every day that I can and doing the drills.
I had a few really good reactions today. I know this isn't about the reactions, but it always makes me feel good when things go well (duh, I'm human being.). I spoke to this short, slender brunette with tattoos all over her body (I love girls with short hair and awesome tattoos) and did the Time, location and did you like it drill and it turns out she was actually going there. She was giving me a lot of proximity and she was incredibly nice about it. Moreso than most girls are. I could tell that she wanted to go me to go with her, but I stuck to the program and didn't turn it into an approach.
I suppose I have a question about this: I know I'm not supposed to turn any of these exercises into an indirect approach, but is it worth it to go for it if a girl is giving insane IOIs and stuff? I definitely could have turned that into an instant date with a number close or something.
For now, I'm going to assume the answer is no, but I'd like to get a mod's opinion on this.
I knocked it out over an hour and a half yesterday. I felt pretty rad afterwards. I noticed that cute girls are a lot friendly than other girls.
Exercise with an ugly girl:
Me: Hi, do you have the time.
Her: Sure, 3:30pm.
Me: Have you been to chipotle?
Her:....yeah...why? (with a bitchy look on her face)
Me: *Walk away*
Conversation with cute girl:
Me: hi, do you have the time?
Her: sure, 3:45.
Me: have you eaten at the Cheese Cake factory here?
me: did you like it?
Her: yeah, it's pretty good, but I think *place* is better. *at this point she kept trying to talk to me, but I cut it short and walked away. Definitely a girl I would try to go for in the future.*
I like that she was cool and tried to actually have a conversation with me about certain restaurants as opposed to looking at me like I'm some creep. I didn't care about the first girl's reaction at all, I actually thought it was funny how lame she was. I see what Chris means when you screen girls. The first girl was creepy and suspicious, not me. Quite a switch to make in my head.
I did day 3 of week two on Saturday and day 4 of week two on Sunday. Both went pretty well. FUnny thing, some of the clerks from stores are beginning to recognize me because I sometimes walk into their stores and look at the fine wares. This really hot, petite clerk called me out:
Her: hey, you were here last week and week before.
Me: *Teasingly* how do you remember?
Her: I could just be weird like that.
Me: *laughing* I'm Poete, Do you want to give me the tour like you have the past few weeks.
I found that funny and inspiring. She is really cute. She has a Monroe piercing, glasses and just has a hot personality.
I'm going to do some more exercises on friday, saturday and sunday. Wish me luck.
I killed day twelve in two days. I could have done it in one day, but I got weak and let my friends pull me away to party at night. lmao. I had fun though.
I began day 13, but I kept fucking it up, becuase I was hung over from the night before. I need to cut down my drinking and starting working more on my health. If I had gauged my time better, I could have gotten through the last days of this week by sunday. Oh well, I'm going to definitely put in the work this week. I may be able to do some approaches tomorrow because I get done with work at 5 as opposed to 8:30pm--scratch that, I defintely am going out. This is my main mission right now and I don't want to quit. I must say though, some of the days to come sound like they're going to be really scary.
Agenda for the week do day 13 tomorrow at the mall
complete day 14 on Friday. If I can those two days done this week, then I'm going to feel like a boss.
I picked myself up a gym membership for $20 a month. I really can't wait to get in there!
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