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Day 6 - Went to a college campus, located downtown, to do the drill.
The first 5 (just asking for the time,) took around 10 minutes again. Not much hesitation. It would have been faster, but sometimes I had to walk a bit tell I came across the next attractive girl.
The second 5 (I additionally ask directions,) was a little bit harder, because a couple of times I didn't follow through and ask the directions because they were in the middle of crossing the street or walking very fast with a purpose. (To be clear I did this until I had asked 5 girls both the time and directions.) This 5 took about 15 minutes.
The last 5 (where I also ask if they been there,) I felt were at the same difficulty as asking directions.
I notice that I’m still more hesitate when more people are around or if the person I just asked the time happens to be still with in ear shot of me asking the next person.
All together, the drill took me about 45 minutes to complete, and approached about 20 girls, in total.
Day 7 - Yesterday, went to a community college campus, near my place. I felt like it was very similar to day 6 as far as difficulty level. I did as Chris said, the very 1st girl I saw went up and asked for the time. Could have been an easy one to pass up (she was on her phone, talking in a semi-private area,) but I just followed Chris's advice "to get in there!"
Over all took about 40 minutes to complete the drills.
Day 8 - Today, strolled through the downtown/mall area. I've been trying to push myself to do the drills with situations that I consider more challenging. For instance, instead of always going for the low hanging fruit, such as a girl sitting or standing by herself, I approaching girls talking on their phones, with headphones on, walking very fast with purpose, or with a group of people in middle of conversation. Not every drill I do resembles these situations, but I'm consciously trying to mix them in as much as possible.
Also, later in the day, when I was grocery shopping, I'd practiced some of the drills when I saw a cute girl strolling through the grocery store. I figure the extra practice can't hurt, right?
Day 9 - Just completed the drills at a mall, today. About 6 drills in, I had to change up what restaurant I was asking about because every girl had been to the restaurant I was previously asking about.
Did about 20 drills in an hour. I do find these to be a little higher level of difficulty then the previous exercises, but most of the time just pushed through (and found it a little funny at the same time.)
I would have stayed and done a bunch extra, but Friday and Saturday are my longest nights at work (so, the least amount of spare time during the day.)
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Day 10 - I did Day 10's drills yesterday, a little before I had to go to work that night. All the drills were done either on the street (downtown,) a book store, or Whole Foods. Although, I completed the required amount, I wasn't real happy how with I performed. There were a couple of times where I cut a couple of drills short.
Fore instance, just asking for the time and where a theater was at, and not asking if she had seen any good movies lately. I had the most difficulty with this when I was at the bookstore. I think cause it's so quite in there and with other people around, I become worried about other peoples judgment of me. I know there is no real credibility to this fear, but it still crept up in the back of my mind.
I had to re-attempt the drill where I ask all three questions a couple of times, so over all I did the drill 17 times.
Even though I technically completed Day 10's exercises, because I don't feel like I killed it, I decided to redo the drills today.
Day 10 B - I ended up going to the exact same places I went yesterday. I usually try to mix it up, but the weather was shitty and a lot of places close early on Sunday evenings.
Did better this time, followed through with every drill as I should have. Some took place at the bookstore, too. I think I'm going to try to include more drills there, since it seems to be a weak spot.
After a I completed the required 15, I did the 3rd drill (asking all three questions,) a few more times. Racking up a total of 18 times in less then a hour and a half.
Took yesterday off, because I was limited on time, but had the whole day off today. Since Chris emphasized how important this drill was I thought it would be better to hold off one day, so I could really dig my teeth into the exercise. Instead, I'd used the extra time I had yesterday to journal, to myself, my goals/progress in all aspects of my life. It helps me keep perspective, and I think helped rejuvenate me a little, too.
Today I did day 11's drills at a college campus, downtown, and a couple of grocery stores. I think for whatever reason, I had an easier time with this one then day 10's drills. I completed the required 20 in about an hour, then did an addition 8 more after. Almost all the post required approaches were strictly part 4 of the drill (where I ask all 4 questions to the girl.) I then went and got something to eat, and did it 3 more encounters.
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