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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 03 May 2013 20:02 #33020

On bday drill, is "i dont know" an acceptable answer? I drilled about 35 girls today and at least half of them thought for like ten seconds and gave an I dont know. Should I have kept asking or is the 3 times just chicks who are like "what? Do you even know my birthday? What do I want for my bday?" Etc. ?

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 03 May 2013 22:39 #33045

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another question....where is an OK stopping point with the drills? do we really need to do all 12+ weeks to consider ourselves capable of screening approaches for good? i imagine week 12 looking something like

-tap woman on boob, show gun
- tap woman on boob, hold up gun to her head, say give me all your money
-tap woman on boob, hold up gun, say give me all your money, then pull the trigger
-tap woman on boob, hold up gun, say give me all your money, the pull the trigger, thanks.

i dont know if i'm ready to kill anyone. if i can get away with stopping at 9 weeks with the GLL stamp of approval, i would.
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 06 May 2013 15:55 #33616

Chris,

A quick question. I find myself modifying the drills and making  them harder. I don't mean to, but it just sort of happens; I think it's my nerves.

Example:

I was supposed to do the "Time and have you been there" drill for day 9, but I ended up tacking on a "Did you like it" out of reflex, instead of walking away immediately. I just felt very conversational and cool about it. I will redo the entire drill if you (chris) think I did something wrong.

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 06 May 2013 16:12 #33620

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I know this question has already been asked by Matt for example, just checking in whether I have understood everything.
Say somebody has a lot of time for the drills (4-8 hours a day), what would be the most productive way to use the time? Doing the drill again and again, doing more than one drill per day or is there another way?

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 06 May 2013 20:06 #33651

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I got a 2 questions about AA program.

#1
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/approach-anxiety-program/

It took me 5-6months to beat AA (2008) and Scotty about 3 weeks (2008) because he worked harder and got more exposure therapy than I did.

Do you really mean 3 weeks? Or maybe this is typo and he beated AA in 3 months?

#2
Is it "forbidden" to hit on chicks after you do AA drills?
eg.
Day X
I have done 30 AA drills.
I am walking home. BOOM! I see good looking chick and I approach her.
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 08 May 2013 13:03 #34002

Thank you Chris for putting togather what seems to be excellent program for beating approach anxiety.

My situation is like this: in my city students suddenly move back home and people go to vacations during the summer so city is dead from 15th July - 25th August.
During that time I will have at least 3x less girls on streets. I will still see hot girls, enough to do 1-2 direct approaches per day, but I will definitively not have enough girls to do missions.

My goal is to be able to do direct approaches without missing opportunities by 10th of July. So I have 2 questions:

1) Can I do 2days in one day? If a day feels really easy, can I take a break for 30 minutes or so and then do next day's drill?

2) Can I pause the program for 40 days and just do 1 direct approach per day to maintain my skill level and then continue when people return to my city?

Off I go to do day 4 and if that feels easy, day 5.
Thank you for your answers.

EDIT: I did days 4 and 5. I need to do days 1, 2 and 3.
If that makes any difference, I have calculated that, if I do 6 missions per week, by the time most people leave my city I'll be on day 60. Can I just do 1 direct approach per day for 40 days until people return and go back where I was?

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 12 May 2013 11:40 #34715

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Bump...

Chris... please answer our questions. :)
I am not a native speaker. If I write some 'errors' please correct me :) Thanks!

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 13 May 2013 22:01 #35057

Another question. After every exercise you say: "If you were unable to do the drill or weren’t happy with your performance (NOT the reactions you got) – feel free to repeat this day."

Should I repeat the exercise if: I wasn't 100% comfortable (I was thinking in my head this is weird, I am bothering her etc) but I did 90% of girls anyway?

Later when I get to fun missions - should I repeat them until I am not just 100% comfortable, but I actually enjoy them?

I don't know if I am just being a perfectionist when I want to be 100% comfortable doing the drill, maybe just doing it without hesitation is good enough?

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 14 May 2013 04:54 #35127

^ Be honest with yourself. If you're doing a drill and you really feel like you didn't give it your all, then repeat it; otherwise, i'd move on. I redid day 6 because I felt really uncomfortable asking "did you like it" to random strangers. Now I am getting better at questioning random people about shit.

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 14 May 2013 11:06 #35168

1. My question is how bad is skipping a day i mean a day in the week not a day of the program

2. Does anyone have problems aswell doing the drills in really busy areas? cause I can do them fine if it not so busy.

3. Does it matter that I tend to skip a lot of the "hot" girls? cause I can seem to ask one as part of the drill but then i will skip the next 3 or 4 that i see.

4. Does anyone also find it easier to do girls that are already stationary cause i feel like I'm bothering girls if they are walking very fast

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 14 May 2013 11:12 #35169

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I got a 2 questions about AA program.

#1
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/approach-anxiety-program/

It took me 5-6months to beat AA (2008) and Scotty about 3 weeks (2008) because he worked harder and got more exposure therapy than I did.

Do you really mean 3 weeks? Or maybe this is typo and he beated AA in 3 months?

#2
Is it "forbidden" to hit on chicks after you do AA drills?
eg.
Day X
I have done 30 AA drills.
I am walking home. BOOM! I see good looking chick and I approach her.


Hey man-
1) yep, 3 weeks. He literally beat the shit out of it. and that was it. He felt anxiety but approached girls anyway, in the end- that is what it takes

2) There comes a point in the program where you can, I advise not doing that until that point because the chances it will go well aren't high and 'bad reactions' are what make people "quit". everyone is different however.
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 14 May 2013 11:13 #35170

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On bday drill, is "i dont know" an acceptable answer? I drilled about 35 girls today and at least half of them thought for like ten seconds and gave an I dont know. Should I have kept asking or is the 3 times just chicks who are like "what? Do you even know my birthday? What do I want for my bday?" Etc. ?


yep, that's just fine. a predictable response. I want you to see that... over and over and over. because is what approach is like.
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