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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 05 Apr 2013 07:40 #28454

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I can honestly say that I have a MUCH HARDER time doing the basic drills (asking for nearby places etc) than I would doing the more advanced drills....for example teasing chicks and poking fun at them.....I guess it's because I'm not used to doing the simple stuff since I grew up with family thats very flirtatious extroverted and outgoing (they have what I would call above average "game") both male and female not top 10% game but better than most...But I've also noticed a huge difference in my interactions with people in general doing the basic drills....I feel more well rounded and centered......Great program....


thanks man- the "basic" drills that you are describing actually starting week 7. I consider them harder than the "act like a jackass" drills that make up week 4-5. Weeks 6-7 we have you guys being sincere and genuine with compliments and such- this exposes a vulnerability that the "funny man" drills don't. They are harder, you are correct- it's not the other way around. The 'advanced' drills are a combo of sincerity and sexual advances... no joking around
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 05 Apr 2013 08:02 #28459

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I can honestly say that I have a MUCH HARDER time doing the basic drills (asking for nearby places etc) than I would doing the more advanced drills....for example teasing chicks and poking fun at them.....I guess it's because I'm not used to doing the simple stuff since I grew up with family thats very flirtatious extroverted and outgoing (they have what I would call above average "game") both male and female not top 10% game but better than most...But I've also noticed a huge difference in my interactions with people in general doing the basic drills....I feel more well rounded and centered......Great program....


thanks man- the "basic" drills that you are describing actually starting week 7. I consider them harder than the "act like a jackass" drills that make up week 4-5. Weeks 6-7 we have you guys being sincere and genuine with compliments and such- this exposes a vulnerability that the "funny man" drills don't. They are harder, you are correct- it's not the other way around. The 'advanced' drills are a combo of sincerity and sexual advances... no joking around

I can honestly say that I have a MUCH HARDER time doing the basic drills (asking for nearby places etc) than I would doing the more advanced drills....for example teasing chicks and poking fun at them.....I guess it's because I'm not used to doing the simple stuff since I grew up with family thats very flirtatious extroverted and outgoing (they have what I would call above average "game") both male and female not top 10% game but better than most...But I've also noticed a huge difference in my interactions with people in general doing the basic drills....I feel more well rounded and centered......Great program....


thanks man- the "basic" drills that you are describing actually starting week 7. I consider them harder than the "act like a jackass" drills that make up week 4-5. Weeks 6-7 we have you guys being sincere and genuine with compliments and such- this exposes a vulnerability that the "funny man" drills don't. They are harder, you are correct- it's not the other way around. The 'advanced' drills are a combo of sincerity and sexual advances... no joking around


It makes perfect sense.....When guys are out there pulling "funny guy" game, they are basically using it as a vehicle to mask and cover their own insecurities....since it takes real courage and balls to be sincere yet "aggressive" with a chick.....I've personally experienced and seen that with a few of my own family members....I think the BEST part of the whole program is the "do it when you are by yourself" aspect of it....I've noticed that It's considerably more difficult to execute the drills when you are by yourself than when you go out with friends (false sense of security).....it makes it MUCH EASIER when you do them while out with people but doesn't have 4X THE AMOUNT OF EFFECTIVENESS....

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 05 Apr 2013 08:10 #28462

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you're correct
there has to be a bridge between jackass-sincere. a guy can do "jackass game" can't jump into being sincere. he has selective social/approach anxiety. we do it with compliments from non-sexual to slightly-sexual to sexual...
barely sincere > kinda sincere > somewhat sincere > average sincere > slightly above average sincere > sincere

I have a friend just like that an I talk about him in one of the audios. Better social freedom (thats jackass game, primarily) than even Scotty--- but he can't approach a girl and show even the slightest hint that he likes her. This is where the "experts" don't get that social anxiety and approach anxiety are not the same thing. There's drills out there for social anxiety (sing loudy in a store) but they do jackshit for AA.
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 05 Apr 2013 09:53 #28474

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you're correct
there has to be a bridge between jackass-sincere. a guy can do "jackass game" can't jump into being sincere. he has selective social/approach anxiety. we do it with compliments from non-sexual to slightly-sexual to sexual...
barely sincere > kinda sincere > somewhat sincere > average sincere > slightly above average sincere > sincere

I have a friend just like that an I talk about him in one of the audios. Better social freedom (thats jackass game, primarily) than even Scotty--- but he can't approach a girl and show even the slightest hint that he likes her. This is where the "experts" don't get that social anxiety and approach anxiety are not the same thing. There's drills out there for social anxiety (sing loudy in a store) but they do jackshit for AA.


Let's say I'm from a type of family that would NEVER PUT A FEMALE OR "BITCHES" (BOSSES) ABOVE $$$ OR SUCCESS (Money over Bitches type of family)......YET I STILL HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR GUYS WHO SPEND ALL THEIR TIME PICKING UP YOUNG GIRLS....Cuz they have more balls than 90% of other dudes out there....which I HONESTLY VALUE MORE......How can I merge both mentalities and have them co-exsist?...I WANT TO BE A "BOSS" AND "PIMP".....Its challenging for me to articulate what I mean(I'm not tryna come across as an idiot asshole) but I tried.....bear with me please...


well definitely.. i don't spend all my time picking up girls. i did for ~2.25years though... I totally encourage people to incorporate it in their lifestyle, only after a concentrated period of getting good at it and developing their body (including dick). It's only because the period of 2.25years +2 more(moderation of pickup) that im able to sit around the house, work this blog, make passive income and have sex with a new [hopefully really hot] girl every week-10days  (via 1on1 or 3some, lately). im all about being efficient and not allocating a period of time to "go talk to girls'... its paid off huge in so many ways and im happy i didnt stop after the pua community experience came up short

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 05 Apr 2013 21:10 #28564

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phenibut / alcohol / kratom / weed /any relaxation drug on drills? yes or no? I am having trouble deciding.

my heart pounds like a motherfucker doing the simplest drills like asking the time when I'm dead sober.
But I've tried with weed and that just makes it worse

Thoughts?

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 06 Apr 2013 12:38 #28655

Hey Chris, audio on wk 3 (night drill grab arm) wont play. says "file not found". thanks!

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 07 Apr 2013 00:31 #28752

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how ru in week 3 already, thats so fast

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 07 Apr 2013 01:26 #28763

hey tatu, im not on wk 3 yet. im on wk 2 mr nosy drill tomorrow. i just like looking ahead and seeing whats in the coming weeks.

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 08 Apr 2013 01:24 #28941

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cool, keep it up man

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 08 Apr 2013 16:19 #29032

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quick question -
im getting thoughts about "using up my city". since i do the drills in the same places (2 different cities), i get anxiety thinking about the same people seeing me and thinking shit about me. i.e. using up the "limited amount" of people in the area.

If i remember correctly, this is always been an obstacle i hit everytime i try to get better at pulling girls/aa drill now.

*** its not as bad as it used to be, but just wondering if anyone's got a different way of looking at this. i get that we're supposed to do creepy shit. for the most part im okay with that, but theres still something in me that doesnt want to ruin my "reputation"

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 09 Apr 2013 00:42 #29107

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phenibut / alcohol / kratom / weed /any relaxation drug on drills? yes or no? I am having trouble deciding.

my heart pounds like a motherfucker doing the simplest drills like asking the time when I'm dead sober.
But I've tried with weed and that just makes it worse

Thoughts?


play around with it.. not just for anxiety- but for fun. I suggest repeating days to experiment, especailly starting week 3
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 09 Apr 2013 00:43 #29108

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Hey Chris, audio on wk 3 (night drill grab arm) wont play. says "file not found". thanks!


lemme check on that sorry
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