TOPIC: **Your Questions About the AA Program**

Hey not sure if this question has been asked, but I was wondering if you completed the drill with ease and did it the bare minimum amount of times, possibly even more just to be sure, would it be ok for you to move on to the next "day" drill on the same day you completed that drill? I only ask because I completed a drill the other day and went straight on to the next one after that, completing like 3 days worth of drills in one. I need to mention though that I only moved on because I felt EXTREMELY comfortable with the completion of it and even repeated them a few more times than the mi imum requirement just to be sure.... However I have run into adversity on day 14 with the high giving for some reason, Yesterday I went out and repeated this one over and over simply because I didn't feel totally satisfied/comfortable with it.

I have a question about day 9
after i do the time, have you ever eaten at nearby restaurant. the girl will always ask me why and stuff and i feel rude just saying bye and walking off. So how do i handle that?

Yo Chris,

Quick question: I have to pause the program for about 10 days. Where should I resume it (been goin out for about 15 consecutive days with one day pause; I am on day 14 at the moment) ?

Thanks

Chris,

I am wondering if you have any compromises regarding day 44 (eye contact). It's up for me tomorrow. There is cultural differences regarding eye contact across the globe (and even across one country), and the country I currently live in is definitely on the shy end. I will try to catch eyes tomorrow, but if I feel it is going nowhere, my plan is to compromise to more subtle signals and hope I get it done that way. I know that more subtle signals are always up to interpretation, but it's the only way I see getting this day done without completely disproportional time investment.

Cheers,
Ernest

Just wanted to clarify something - what if I have social anxiety? (I would say it's low to moderate, depending on the mood). Should I be doing these drills or not?

I have some social anxiety to, but I can make friends with my friend's friends so I figure that's good enough. I'm just going to fucking do this and if I fail I'll go get doped up on a script drug and keep doing it until it works.

Question about Day 6 drill - what if the girl doesn't know the place and it's the time to ask
her about "if she's been there", should I still ask that OR should I just leave and count it or not?