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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 00:01 #26851

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Cool program. Wish I'd have had it years ago..

What if you can generally approach but are outcome dependent (get discouraged after lots of poor results and then approach less) and have anxiety about being aggressive?

Or is this not geared for that?

I'd imagine some exercises, like high-five 10 girls and try to hold on to their hand, or purposely creep her out as bad as possible, or the go out alone and touch 10 girls on the arm, would be good to fix that, but not others.

Did you do any particular drills AFTER you started approaching?

My friend and I used to occasionally make ourselves use rather dumb/crazy openers sometimes, I'm thinking I should start doing this myself.

Or is this AA program just about getting a guy to a point where he can start approaching and I should just wait until your next big block of material here for intermediate guys?
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 00:05 #26856

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forgive me- what was the link to the new hopkins book? did I see it (sorry im so busy and bombarded with stuff that I literally could have missed it)..


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This is what I've found: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Official-Guide-Success-ebook/dp/B00B7QMX3I/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1361292601&sr=1-4

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 00:09 #26857

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Cool program. Wish I'd have had it years ago..

What if you can generally approach but are outcome dependent (get discouraged after lots of poor results and then approach less) and have anxiety about being aggressive?

Or is this not geared for that?

I'd imagine some exercises, like high-five 10 girls and try to hold on to their hand, or purposely creep her out as bad as possible, would be good to fix that, but not others.

Did you do any particular drills AFTER you started approaching?

Or is this just about getting a guy to a point where he can start approaching and I should just wait until your next big block of material here for intermediate guys?


i see what you are saying, thats a great question and you just made we realize something--- this will help you guys too.

you are right in that some of the drills are more about building tolerance to installing physical dialogue (how nerdy does that line sound), some will be better than other. eventually it gets guys to start doing more ballsy/physical approaches, which is what we are shooting for.

at the same time, there's other stuff that will help your outcome dependence more-- the most obvious is- doing some girls, even if they are from the Internet. there's a big time difference when you approach girls when you have 0 girls in your life... versus. 2+. bringing fuckbuddies in (by any means necessary) would be my suggestion, while continuing to get ripped abs.
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 00:10 #26858

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forgive me- what was the link to the new hopkins book? did I see it (sorry im so busy and bombarded with stuff that I literally could have missed it)..


Thanks for response
This is what I've found: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Official-Guide-Success-ebook/dp/B00B7QMX3I/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1361292601&sr=1-4


ohh yeah the kindle link. unfortunately we couldn't use that one (she said she couldnt view it...), it would have been perfect.
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 01:36 #26871

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Do you recommend to do this at an area we're not from?

Not school, where we work, etc... I'm thinking a bus ride 1.5 hours away to the busiest city.

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 01:59 #26875

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Hey whats up

just a couple questions

1.  If we've already started video logs about approaches before, should we just start everything over, clean slate?  start new threads?  Some of us already have introduced ourselves and have dating profiles, so it's like we're a couple days ahead already, and ready to jump into day 3

2.  What if we do have 3 or 4 hours per day to work on AA?  Should we ask girls for the time for 3-4 hours, because I know beyond a doubt I can do that.  I'm assuming don't go into the next day if you already feel comfortable that same day?  **hope that make sense!


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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 03:31 #26890

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so we stay away from this if social skills are bad?
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 05:14 #26903

How would you adopt the program to night-time?

From what I see all of the later drills can be done anywhere...

But the first drills are very much based on the idea of daygame.

If I could simply substitute the asking for time and asking for directions, the program could be done in night-time too.

Any ideas on what to replace time-asking and directions with?

My initial instinct is to replace them with friendly manager/organizer kind of a thing. "Hey guys, how you enjoying the party", "Hey guys, how's it going", "Hey guys, how you enjoying the music". Stuff like that.

Ideas?

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 05:32 #26908

Will you have programs on approaching groups of girls, girls working(waitress, shop girls), and small enclosed area where everyone can hear you? I think those are my main sticking point.

Also I've regularly screening girls so I am thinking of doing the AA drill hopefully in 1/2 hour then switch to screening girls. Is that ok? There shouldn't be anything negative from doing that?

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 11:47 #26929

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How would you adopt the program to night-time?

From what I see all of the later drills can be done anywhere...

But the first drills are very much based on the idea of daygame.

If I could simply substitute the asking for time and asking for directions, the program could be done in night-time too.

Any ideas on what to replace time-asking and directions with?

I would say: dont try to change the drills or the program.
Just do them.

My initial instinct is to replace them with friendly manager/organizer kind of a thing. "Hey guys, how you enjoying the party", "Hey guys, how's it going", "Hey guys, how you enjoying the music". Stuff like that.

Ideas?

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 16:11 #26957

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Night drills begin in Week 3 and Week 4-- you'll see them more throughout

Groups, different dynamics come later in the program too
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 27 Mar 2013 16:12 #26958

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Do you recommend to do this at an area we're not from?

Not school, where we work, etc... I'm thinking a bus ride 1.5 hours away to the busiest city.


you can do that on some days, it's not realistic (or a good use of time) to spend 1.5+1.5hrs=3hrs on a bus each day. But it depends on how small your current area is
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