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**Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 21:14 #26808

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Hey- hit me up with any questions in here, i'll build a FAQ from it.

I really made an effort in the program to cover everything I thought would be asked. Each drill is explained in writing and in the audio... so definitely take a look there if your question is related to doing the drill.
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 21:33 #26815

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first off, impressive work bro. seriously. really impressive.

link to this thread in the AA program pages (if u havent already done it)
... since u have deactivated the comments, u need to show ppl where to ask questions :)
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 21:37 #26816

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in the approaches, it says do this to 'x' amount of women. for example, walk around a girl a make ticking noises. if i walk around 2 girls who are together making ticking noises, does this cross 2 girls off the check list, or does it count as one girl/one rep? also, do the girls have to be hot? what exactly are the criterion?
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 21:46 #26819

Hello Good Looking Loser, first off I want to thank you personally for putting together this program for free, not many people (that I at least personally know) are willing to go such extremes to help other people for nothing in return, so thank you.

Now my question; I have a friend in real life who is interested in coming out with me to see me do the drills (I guess you could say he is my spotter). My question is do you think this is a good idea, or do you believe having a friend come along with would be harmful to someone's progression?

Thank you in advance for answering this question.
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 22:37 #26828

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BT- Thank budddy

CJU - Hey man, that would be 1. and most drills have distinct steps that will be easy to understand, you probably won't have any problem understanding them. but remember- it's not just about simply checking off stuff... it's about getting real exposure therapy. Ironically, the guys that kill their AA the fastest will be the guys that repeat the drills they aren't easy for them until they have extreme comfort with them. Conversely, the guys that "get behind" will be the guys that skip "ahead" and avoid doing the drills.

Near the beginning it explains in detail who you should approach. Basically though- every girl age 18-40 is fair game. if there still aren't enough girls (for some reason) any girl 18-120yrs old is fair game. You shouldn't be too selective about exposure therapy (nothing is on the line), whereas approaching- guys should approach the girls they want to fuck and should be able to if they go through this program.

Millennium- Do them alone, but I do encourage guys to be "experimental" when they repeat the drills, especially starting week 3. So you'd do the drills on day, then the next day you'd bring a friend along. I don't want guys to get a false sense of security because their friend is "rooting" them on. So make sure you can do the drills alone, but as long as you do that you are free to bring in other dynamics.
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 22:38 #26829

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Just saw this thread, Don't mean to double post. Since this is a the thread to ask questions, I post my question from the other thread here.


Would this benefit me if I'm not trying to get laid? Just to beat AA? Since I already have a gf and all that jazz.  8)
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 22:40 #26831

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Just saw this thread, Don't mean to double post. Since this is a the thread to ask questions, I post my question from the other thread here.


Would this benefit me if I'm not trying to get laid? Just to beat AA? Since I already have a gf and all that jazz.  8)


absolutely :)

like i remind people over-and-over-- they are doing the drill and LEAVING and not trying to get laid. approaching is so hard at the beginning because guys have an outcome dependence.. with the drills there is much less/no outcome dependence
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 22:45 #26832

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Yo Chris, So you can do the drills on women of any age? granted they are 18 years of age or older......Does it matter where? Lets say I'm a cashier at a restaurant, can I do them there also?

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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 22:47 #26833

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You say if someone is serious about the program they should do 4 - 6 hours a everyday? but does it really take that long I looked at some of them at day 6 where you have to speak to 15 women.

But I have a huge problem since I'm having vacation to an other country that is around 26,27,28 about there in june  month is it possible for me if I really work hard to eliminate my AA before I go there (it means I have little less than 3 months now because I'm going to visit some family and other stuff?

Btw the amazon link I gave to the Tom Hopkins ebook you were looking for how is it? is the new edition a lot better than the old one?? (btw you owe me 25 bucks haha)

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Just saw this thread, Don't mean to double post. Since this is a the thread to ask questions, I post my question from the other thread here.


Would this benefit me if I'm not trying to get laid? Just to beat AA? Since I already have a gf and all that jazz.  8)


absolutely :)

like i remind people over-and-over-- they are doing the drill and LEAVING and not trying to get laid. approaching is so hard at the beginning because guys have an outcome dependence.. with the drills there is much less/no outcome dependence

I will try to do this with little time I have. This is an awesome program. Many thanks Chris, you are a gem. Cheers!
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 23:23 #26838

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Yo Chris, So you can do the drills on women of any age? granted they are 18 years of age or older......Does it matter where? Lets say I'm a cashier at a restaurant, can I do them there also?


You're going to want to do them in the situations that you would normal hit on a girl (and touch her) to get her number/take her somewhere.. so prob not at work

any age, yes though
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Re: **Your Questions About the AA Program** 26 Mar 2013 23:49 #26843

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You say if someone is serious about the program they should do 4 - 6 hours a everyday? but does it really take that long I looked at some of them at day 6 where you have to speak to 15 women.

But I have a huge problem since I'm having vacation to an other country that is around 26,27,28 about there in june  month is it possible for me if I really work hard to eliminate my AA before I go there (it means I have little less than 3 months now because I'm going to visit some family and other stuff?

Btw the amazon link I gave to the Tom Hopkins ebook you were looking for how is it? is the new edition a lot better than the old one?? (btw you owe me 25 bucks haha)

You say if someone is serious about the program they should do 4 - 6 hours a everyday? but does it really take that long I looked at some of them at day 6 where you have to speak to 15 women.

But I have a huge problem since I'm having vacation to an other country that is around 26,27,28 about there in june  month is it possible for me if I really work hard to eliminate my AA before I go there (it means I have little less than 3 months now because I'm going to visit some family and other stuff?

Btw the amazon link I gave to the Tom Hopkins ebook you were looking for how is it? is the new edition a lot better than the old one?? (btw you owe me 25 bucks haha)


It definitely picks up after day 6, but generally the actual drills will take 90-120minutes id say to complete the 'bare minimum requirements (listed in red). It will do nothing but help to do more of them, can't ever get enough exposure therapy.

hey I actually updated the AA program front page for ya--- goood question, i figure that a lot of other will have the same

scroll down to the bottom "bare minimum" + picture
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/approach-anxiety-program/

you can take a big chunk of your AA out, btw- a lot of guys (myself, zuberi, ssk, etc.) got laid when we had AA, so you def. can too

forgive me- what was the link to the new hopkins book? did I see it (sorry im so busy and bombarded with stuff that I literally could have missed it)..
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