TOPIC: Day 28 journal

ime, Leave (talk to very first girl you see; DONT let her slip by)
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, Leave
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, I got a promotion at work/Passed my test at school and I want to celebrate, Leave
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, I got a promotion at work/Passed my test at school and I want to celebrate, What type do you recommend?, Leave

Today I went to the mall and was tight on time so i completed 1 set and a half. I rememeber as I was walking there was this older chick probably in her older 20s was really cute and I asked the second part and told her I passed my exam. She was really receptive and feminine and told me directions to another place where they sold wine. After I had to goto work so I wanted to atleast finish 2 drills today. the second set i went to a few stores and when I asked this lady (prob in her mid 30s) as soon as i got out my car and went to her car she completely ignored me and said no. i went to the store and came back and saw she put my left mirror down on my car. whata bitch but that shows how some women have issues, especially the older ones. for the last set i asked this old worker at a grocery store and she was really receptive and told me that wine stores are closed but you can grab a drink from a bar nearby from me. really cool. Going to finish the rest of sets tomm

Leave (talk to very first girl you see; DONT let her slip by)
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, Leave
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, I got a promotion at work/Passed my test at school and I want to celebrate, Leave
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, I got a promotion at work/Passed my test at school and I want to celebrate, What type do you recommend?, Leave
Today was interesting.My mood was off so I told myself to go in and just do 1 set. I went and asked this girl for the 3rd set and she was really happy and congradulated me that i passed my exam. Than as I was walking, there was a lady walking towards me and i did the 4th set on her and she and I just kicked the conversation for literally like about 10 min. She was really nice and started asking me about where i went to colleege and she seen really interested even tho she was prob like a 5. I knew that and was trying to resist hitting on her because thats part of the petition is just do the drill and dont turn it into a pickup. We were talking about some places nearby where they had nice views and in the end she asked for my number so she can text me those places address. she was 30 years old btw and she even said that i was cute and asked if i had a gf lol. afterwards I left but was it was amazing how all that played out. if i didn't stop her she would've just went by and none of that would have happened. anyways right now were texting back and forth and im just keeping it friendly as possible for now lol. Lets see what happens

Time, Leave (talk to very first girl you see; DONT let her slip by)
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, Leave
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, I got a promotion at work/Passed my test at school and I want to celebrate, Leave
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, I got a promotion at work/Passed my test at school and I want to celebrate, What type do you recommend?, Leave

I went to the mall today to complete the remaining 2 sets but as soon as I came out and saw 2 girls in a car eating i didnt approach and went to the mall. I was supposed to approach the first girl I see and I was telling myself in my head that I need to go home. I turned back and went home and than came back 4 hours later to the same mall and asked the very first lady for the time. Overall it was good, the younger girls were really nice and feminine. I asked this blonde chick prob 18/19 while she was sitting and she told me the way to the wine store and and said she was really happy for me with a genunine smile. I was like dam I wish I could get ur number girl but Im doing AA drills (in my mind). Im pretty nervous of tomm drills, idk how its gonna play out with the high 5s. I might stop and ask for the time and than ask for a high 5. lets see

Give 10 girls a high-five.
Guesstimate how long it took you and record it in your AA Log.
Repeat this 2 times today, you will high-five 20 girls in total.

I went to the mall today and I was there for an hour and I only was able to do 2 highfives. Like wtf, I was a little happy once I did start but in the beggining before even going is the worst. My head thinks of plenty things to not do it. The first one I went to footlocker and started a convo with the worker about shoes. we had a few min conversation and I said thanks and put my hand up for a high 5. after that as I was leaving the mall (had to goto gym than work) I asked a girl for the time and said thanks and said high 5. she had that wtf look on her face. There were many times were i wanted to stop and ask a girl but I couldnt get myself to. Anyways after I finished my workout as I was leaving I saw the lady in the juice area and went up to her and said hello and happy friday,put my hand up and she gave me a high 5. Than when I went to work I was able to get another high 5 off a customer. So in total today was 4. I may have a date tomm, so I have to see if she doesn't flake than maybe I might do a few high 5s with her just for fun but if not ill just goto a mall and go for 10 high 5s atleast.

Give 10 girls a high-five.
Guesstimate how long it took you and record it in your AA Log.
Repeat this 2 times today, you will high-five 20 girls in total.

Hey guys
ive been still doing this drill but im just really having trouble finding locations and also getting this drill done. today i only did 1 and yesterday i did 2. The day before I was able to do 10 high 5s in the mall around 25 min. I mainly asked store workers. I either started a convo and than asked a high 5 at the end or just asked for time and high 5. I still have 10 more high 5s to complete but im just having some trouble with my time management and scehdule lately and also I kinda have been avoiding it since I constantly keep going to the same malls. Ik thats mainly my AA part of me talking but will figure it out.

Give 10 girls a high-five.
Guesstimate how long it took you and record it in your AA Log.
Repeat this 2 times today, you will high-five 20 girls in total.
Went to walmart today was able to get 3. Than left and went to the mall nearby and finished it. What I realized is that 3/10 high 5s were regular people in a store or something and the rest were employees and I usually go in the store and make up some bs conversation and ask for a high 5 in the end. Also I realized I was avoiding girls in public or walking because I was to afraid to get rejected while everyone sees me. these are some things ive analyzed and have to work on. Cheers

Give 10 girls a high-five, in half the time it took you on Day 14.
Try to do it even faster or equally as fast.
Repeat this 2 times today, you will high-five 20 girls in total.

I did 10 high 5s yesterday and I was supposed to do it in 13 min or less. i ended up doing it about 10 min. The second I started the timer i was just looking for receptive girls to give high 5s and 5/10 was regular people (not workers).

Today I went to a different mall and probably 3/10 were regular people. In the beginning I was just walking in the whole mall and just contemplating. After I reached the end of the mall on the way back i setup a 13 min timer and say Fck it and started giving people high 5s mainly workers tho. I also approached a girl in the store and said heyy high 5 and she gave it to me without me starting a convo just to get the high 5 in the end, which was a good bc I couldn't do that when i first started high 5 drills last week. Hard things I realized were I didn't usually go upto some women bc of what i thought that they might not be receptive and I wasn't doing it while I was walking in the mall and stopping strangers bc of the potential rejection or if I would, there wouldn't be many people around than I would go up to the girl. in the end I ended up doing like 4 extra high 5s and I did it to these 2 girls that were probably in there 15s and I overheard there convo talking about someone being schrizoprenic and they were emo from the way they looked, so i asked for the directions for bathroom and said high 5 and they were hesitant but i persisted and they gave it and as soon as they left the door they were asking one of there family/friend that if there father was there so i quickly turned and went inside a store and went in there bathroom lol. I was there a few min and left. So far so good.

Give 10 girls that aren't walking a high-five. They must be fairly stationary and not on their way somewhere.
Hint: try a book store.
* Challenge: On the final girl (or 11th girl) find a girl who is smoking a cigarette and give her a high-five.
(if you are able to do this, you are ahead of schedule)
Repeat this 2 times today, you will high-five 20 or 22 girls in total.

Hey guys
I didnt post past 2 days bc 1 I had a date w a co worker and the other day I coudnt really do the drill properly, I got 2 high 5s in the end . Anyways yesterday I went to the mall and was looking for stationary people to give high 5s to. I ended up getting 10 in the span of like 40 mins. there were 2 girls I went upto in a store and just said hey guys high 5. there were like whats this a kind of trick. I persisted and got it. I also went upto a asian couple that were sitting and went to the guys first and said hey bro can I get a high 5 and he asked me what for? I told him straight up that im just giving out people high 5s so he high 5d me and his girl.
The weaknesses I noticed is going in crowded areas I tend to pussy out. Like there was a food court I went in the mall and was walking and had plenty of opportunity but some excuse in my head would say shes eating with her friend and im gonna bother her or shes gonna reject me (for the hot ones). Another one is when I would high 5 a girl I dont want her to see me high 5 another girl or I dont want her seeing me again so I would find different routes to not see that girl again that I high 5d. Also ive been usually splitting the drills in half instead of doing the whole day and Ik thats a avoidance technique.
Some thought to share and weaknesses to work on. Cheers

Give 10 girls that aren't walking a high-five. They must be fairly stationary and not on their way somewhere.
Hint: try a book store.
* Challenge: On the final girl (or 11th girl) find a girl who is smoking a cigarette and give her a high-five.
(if you are able to do this, you are ahead of schedule)
Repeat this 2 times today, you will high-five 20 or 22 girls in total.

Yesterday I went to the mall and was able to complete 10 high 5s. some of them were younger workers in there 17/18s and they were really sweet and one even was blonde that was interested but I did my part of the drill and just went along. I saw a group of 4 thick black chicks standing and went upto them and said hey guys high 5, 1 gave the other was being weird and saying why are you giving people high 5s and I just basically ignored and went along. after that I felt hesitant just going in on strangers and saying high 5s so I realized to make it more "socially acceptable" I would start a BS convo and ask for a high 5 in the end. in the end I saw there were like 4 security guards in the mall and I felt as they were keeping an eye on me and after I realized that when I gave my next high 5 to the next girl I looked at the security guard and he was basically watching me but looked away so that started my overthinking again and I started going into stores to avoid them and just got over w my prob last remaining 3 high 5s and left the mall. And I went to the food court but I just couldnt get myself to give and girls high 5 bc it was crowded and I just felt I would bother her. weaknesses to work on

1st Girl: ABCDEFG
2nd Girl: ABCDEFG, HIJKLMNOP
3rd Girl: ABCDEFG, HIJKLMNOP, QRSTUV
4th Girl: ABCDEFG, HIJKLMNOP, QRSTUV, WXY & Z!
* Challenge: Sing the ABC's over and over until the girl walks away.
Repeat this 3 times today, you will sing to 12 girls

Hey guys
ive been trying to this drill past few days but I wasn't able to really do it because I got busy with cousins. the day before yesterday I went to walmart and did 1 set which was ok except for the last lady she was an indian lady and she seemed butthurt after I said the alphabet and said these are the alphabets do yk it. She was like yeaa ik it,why? I just walked away while she was trying to ask me the same question.
Yesterday I went to the mall and my goal was to do 3 but holy S I only did 1 bc I literally saw everyone looking at me in the mall. I also got a new haircut and I can tell it was mainly bc of that but my state of mind yesterday was just bad and I just went in did it on the first lady left than a second one and she looked at me and ignored me. and I completed the last 2 but I literally couldnt get myself to stop someone or even walk up to someone that was sitting bc of what people would think of me. the mall was packed also bc of chrismas, and I see my weakness is usually in crowded areas and the girls I did it to were sort of isolated or with less people around. My goal is to the whole drill in a day to call it complete. Cheers

1st Girl: ABCDEFG
2nd Girl: ABCDEFG, HIJKLMNOP
3rd Girl: ABCDEFG, HIJKLMNOP, QRSTUV
4th Girl: ABCDEFG, HIJKLMNOP, QRSTUV, WXY & Z!
* Challenge: Sing the ABC's over and over until the girl walks away.
Repeat this 3 times today, you will sing to 12 girls

Hey guys
Yesterday my kratom came in and I took some and than later on went to the mall and was able to fly through the drill. I did all 3 sets but probably 1 and a half was on regular people and the rest on employees. idk how I feel bc it felt like I cheated and ik if I didnt take that kratom that day considering the mood I was in I probably wouldn't have done all 3 sets. I wanna give this another try tommorow just so I feel that im actually doing the drills properly. And btw ive realized even tho this drill is supposed to somewhat make you vulnerable and make you look weird ive made it so it doesnt do that. I go upto the girls and tell them you have 15 sec? they respond w yes and I say the abcs and say im just joking and thank you.

1st Girl: ABCDEFG
2nd Girl: ABCDEFG, HIJKLMNOP
3rd Girl: ABCDEFG, HIJKLMNOP, QRSTUV
4th Girl: ABCDEFG, HIJKLMNOP, QRSTUV, WXY & Z!
* Challenge: Sing the ABC's over and over until the girl walks away.
Repeat this 3 times today, you will sing to 12 girls

Yesterday I went out w a coworker to the movies so I havnt done the drill.

Today I went to 2 different malls and was able to complete the drill finally. It was hard in the beggining. I noticed that with the ABCs i usually did it w girls that were standing and didnt stop any girls bc i felt it she would reject me etc. I asked 50% on employees and other 50% on regular people. I mainly was doing it to low tier girls and not the attractive ones bc i didnt want to "bother" them or just they would think I am creepy. And also another thing is when theres crowds of people I cant get myself to do the drill bc of what others will think of me. anyways the last set I went up to these 2 young girls prob 19/20 and sang the Abcs and they said cool with a smile and I just went along and said yea those were the alphabets and they started laughing and were really cool about it. Im glad I finally did this drill even tho it almost took me a week to do it. Still have alot of weaknesses to work on but thats what im on GLL to do. the gym for my AA