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- Created Tinder, Badoo, and OkCupid accounts and set up profiles. It seems that you are no longer able to send a direct message, so I liked as many girls as I was allowed to. I think I cannot share my profile so I'll post some photos here
- Ask for the time to two women.
Notes: I felt anxiety before going out. I felt disconnected from myself while walking. I noticed it's easier for me to approach women that are not aware of my presence and stationery (I'm not a rapist, I swear). I can keep long eye contact, but no more after that. I quit because I felt emotionally drained.
I'm repeating this drill until I achieve the objective.
- I went out and asked for the time to two women in 10 minutes. I count a couple that was walking together as one woman. Then it started to rain pretty heavily, so I had to stop momentarily. Then went back and completed the other three. I lost momentum so those lasted 1 hour.
Notes: I felt more confident than yesterday. The second time I felt the same but I managed to finish the drill. The last one was pretty cute and kind, I hope I can take it further in the coming drills.
-I'M BACK BITCHEES
-I did the first set in 23 minutes, really fast compared to the first attempt. In the second set, I approached the first 4 girls in 15 minutes. I don't know why I resisted asking the last one until I reached 30 minutes XD, but pretty happy with the result.
-I'm repeating tomorrow to see if I can do it in 10 minutes or less.
Notes: Indeed, it was A LOT easier this time. On most occasions, my mind couldn't make an excuse before I decided to do it.
- I tried to do the drill in less than 10 minutes. I couldn't do it. I want to continue with the program. In any case, doing the other drills will make me better at this one so I'll try it again some other day.
Notes: I still resist approaching girls in certain conditions, like when there are people around us that could notice, or when she is walking in front of me and I had to approach from the back.
- I approached 12 girls approximately in 1 hour and a half. I felt that I had a good performance, but being realistic I just did 2 complete sets and the two first approaches of the third set. I'm repeating the drill tomorrow.
Notes: I felt this drill wasn't more difficult than the previous. I approached girls in more scenarios than before. I feel like the more approaches I do, the longer it takes me to do the next one. It's like I had a battery for socializing that depletes with every interaction. I'm repeating anyway, no excuses.
-Really unproductive day. I talked to 6 girls, but I didn't do the drill correctly with two of them, and the other wasn't beautiful to me so I didn't felt challenged. So the result was 3 reps of the third question. I've done these exercises for many days. Perhaps I've talked to 30 girls in the past few days, so I'll continue with the next one.
Notes: I tend to walk for a straight hour and a half, with no breaks. This makes me feel pretty tired, especially on sunny days. I think I need to take a rest between reps so my performance and mind state don't get affected. I still miss many opportunities because I feel it's not the perfect situation for approaching and not looking weird at the same time. I need to get rid of that ego.
I feel really ashamed. I have been everything but disciplined with the program. I went to do the drills on Thursday and today, but the result was really below average, so I think it's not worthy to be written here.
I promise to anyone reading this, including myself, that I'll do the drills and update the journal daily, no matter if my performance was ridiculous. I'll give my best to complete them the way they are stated, not creating my own rules or excuses.
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