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Forgot to update but got done. Quite easy. Been socializing+ work lately so juggling that + as program has been fun but I am determined.
Day 14: first in ~10 second in 7 minutes or so. Both were at bad times so I was basically power walking to get the sets in that time. Might wait till tomorrow evening for day 15 so I can really go fast with this.
So I have still been chugging away, have done days 13, 14, and 15 as of yesterday. Got the high fives in 10 min, 6min, 23 seconds, and I didn't count the last set since there was no way I could get less than that. All the drills are still very easy and the time to do them is what is more hard for me than anything, I don't even have time to get on my computer (getting coffee on way to work, typing on mobile). I will try to get the drills today but it might get pushed to tomorrow (actually though, might do a few days tomorrow to get ahead.)
Hey man, welcome to GLL. I don't read this forum super regularly, but I post my log on here as well. I am on Day 38 rn. Your progress looks really good.
Regarding your question with week 7 and onwards: Many people stop after day 46, which is towards the end of week 6 (yeah, the week=7days isn't a thing later on in the program). Chris says you can try real approaches at that point. There is a week 8 but Chris took it off the website. I asked some old members why and one said it is due to the whole MeToo stuff. Another old members does not recommend one to do it. If you are hell-bent on doing it, you can find it though in the Internet Archives:
The backup does not include the audios and Chris cautions you:
"Do these at your own risk - you don't necessarily "need" the harder ones but they are a good test of social freedom.
Proceed at your own risk and do not violate any laws in your country. I assume no liability if you take it too far or get your feeling hurts- by now the later shouldn't even be a concern."
Now you know haha!
Some advice for posting your log both here and on KYIL: Modify the thread title as to include the current day. The further you get, the more people will put in advice and encouragement. On KYIL you can do this by modifying the title of the first post of the thread by editing the first post of the thread. Here you just change the title of the first post.
So, I am back. I honestly have been so busy that I haven't had time to really do any internet at all. The last few updates have been on my phone, NOT my computer. I am just starting to have some time to check my computer, so that is what I will be doing.
I have gotten through day 17, the ABCs. So far, I have done all the drills as told, and today was no exception. I DID an extra set by accident (16 girls instead of 12.) but it didn't add more to the overall experience. Mostly got weird reactions out of girls, a few decided to finish off the alphabet. By far the worst reactions are when a girl is shopping with her mom but walked off, the moms all act like crazy ladies to get back to their girls and act super funny. In a way, I sometimes point the drills at them just to throw them off if they attempt to bother me during the set, but that has only happened a handful of times so far.
Regarding progress, it is definitively a lot better. I almost did the entire drill today with no anxiety whatsoever, either prior or after. It was really just doing it. Honestly, I think I could skip a lot of these drills but I don't plan to since I want to say I did the program through till the end, and so that I give it a chance + do it right. So far, it is working. I am 100X better than when I started, and even then it is amazing how much carryover there really is to this.
I will be taking a day off tomorrow to focus on starting a tinder again. I have had one on and off like 20 times in my life, mainly due to lack of success. I have terrible pictures and have not really done much to update and make them better. That changes tomorrow, I will make some good pics and upload them. That means I will be taking a day off but man, I need to have some options, as I am currently lacking hard. I ordered a remote camera shutter release for my T100 but the camera is just shit so I need to save for a better camera. I have been updating my wardrobe to get a more player style but it is taking time. All this approaching + work _+ moving has put the gym on the back burner so I have lost some muscle on the low carb diet I am on. Overall, just very busy due to this program.
Got through all the days up to day 20, so it is a very good progress so far. Was very busy with a move and am just getting done with it, and will soon be done with my part time job for a three week period before my actual job starts, so I will be getting the program completely done.
OK I am still alive. Finally moved into my temporary lodging so I should be good on that front. I have all of next week off and have no plans so I plan to try and hit two weeks in the span of one. I will be doing a small trip down to the big city in my state so that I can find a volume of women to do these drills on. That is the main problem I have been running into. For example, I did day 20 yesterday, and I had a super hard time finding pretty girls alone. I am approaching girls in front of their mom, or as a group of friends, which isn't causing problems but it is causing a much higher threshold of awkwardness for the drills. It seems that most girls are never really alone, either with a bf, on the phone, with their friends/mom, orbiters. I don't really have a large city where people walk around so it seems to be difficult in that way.
On a side note, day 20 wasn't hard. I didn't do all of the 20 approaches since there wasn't enough time before work, but I am moving on to the next day. I have less than 40 days until my job starts, and once it starts it will be a sensitive job that will prevent me from getting multiple consecutive drill days in. Funny/embarrassing story from the day, I told myself that if I approached a girl in a very difficult setting then I would call it good. The approaches up to that point were all done in full (IE, asking all the questions for each girl.) so I see a pretty girl in line on the phone. There were several people in line so it was easily the balliest rep for a drill I have ever done, but I did it. The girl barely answered any questions and was confused out, the people in line were confused, but I did it. It was probably much more difficult that what is being asked for at this point in the program, so I consider it a win.
Tonight is the next drill so I will be going to a bar at a college town nearby. This should be a joke since I am very accustomed to going out alone, but I will knock it out and get to week 4 here tomorrow.
21 was a complete challenge to me, and was quite difficult, but I made it much more difficult for myself. Firstly, didn't go to the college town or bars. I went to the downtown near me (Kinda sketch place) and went to a biker bar. I have seen lines out the door with cute girls most weekends, so I said why not? Well, it wasn't filled with cute girls that night, it was live music and the majority of the bar was over 40. Many bikers there with their girls. Not very packed. I was determined though so I did it and got out. Was a bunch of guys and girls staring at me by the end lol, some of the girls were confused. I moved around the bar alot for no real reason and that was confusing to some people I guess. I get a ton of stares as it is so it is hard to do a drill like this inconspicuously.
Day 22, wasn't too hard. Got through this easily though I hate doing the funny man shit. Will definitely dislike this week, but if I can get through this week I will complete the program, since this will be the worst part for me since I hate it so much. Would rather pull some ultra - aggressive approaching than this, and frankly I have thought of doing it several times, and just breaking with the program. That being said, I will still complete this program since it has helped and I don't want to leave anything behind, and I don't want to make excuses and rationalize again. It is a weasel in my brain telling me to quit and overconfidently overestimating my abilities. These drills are humiliating to me though, the mom line makes the girls laugh but the rest of it makes you seem entirely serious and it immediately makes you labeled as a fucking weirdo, so I guess that is a benefit to getting over the failures that will happen but still, just fuk.
Got to approach a solid 9 today and I am happy since my area has few really pretty girls. Honestly, just want to say it almost seems like a beneficial thing there aren't tons of pretty girls I am approaching since it makes them "just another girl" as opposed to "pretty girl, must act a certain way." Fully preparing myself for later drills will be time consuming since there are no good areas around me to do these drills but will make it work, or worst case scenario just decrease the volume, and only progress when I am comfortable doing it. Time will tell.
Fun day overall. Most of the reactions weren't that good however, had a somewhat bad reaction from one girl when I approached a girl in the same isle as her (lol). Didn't phase me at all. It is really incredible how the volume of this program actually changes your perspective on social interactions. Definitively worth it.
That being said, progress is still going but it has been rough lately. Got till Monday for work then I am free for the next month and a half or so, before I start my real job. I will be moving to a much better area and will be able to really approach and try this stuff out. My area is too small and the number of hot girls around is just really small. All the girls move out of town as soon as they are able, and most of them have went back to college I think. Whatever, still going through it but the time commitment is real if you don't have an easily accessible place to hit up women.
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