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Last post was about taking a 3-week break, it has been 4 weeks now, so back with a short update.
The three week job was extremely stressful so as I had feared, I had no energy to do drills. It was so stressful that I needed all the time since to recover. I was travelling to a different city every day, slept in a six-bed youth hostel room for three weeks and the work was talking to strangers all day in the streets trying to convince them to donate to charity which includes an insane amount of rejection and bad vibes.
For anyone reading my journal it should by now be apparent that I do not react well to stress. I have the psychosomatic reactions that pretty much anyone has like exhaustion and tiredness but I get them more quickly. Beyond that I also get a stress-caused skin rash (neurodermatitis), which is fucking annoying since it is mainly around the eyes and makes me look like a zombie. It is also kind of helpful since it is a pretty good stress indicator and prevents me from pushing myself too hard, which I tend to. When I look like a zombie, I am less likely to approach.
For the past week I have been feeling bad for not approaching. So beyond being stressed out, I felt guilty for that fact, which is pretty absurd and self-sabotaging. I should not judge myself for having to process and needing time-outs. The past 9 months have been fucking crazy and way less steady than the lives of anyone I know personally. I wrote my bachelors thesis, managed to find two fuckbuddies simultaneously, moved cities with all the social change that goes along with moving, started a new job in a sector I had never been in, quit the job because I hated it even though I was fit for it, started the AA program and already did most of it (=facing one of my deepest fears and undoing my social programming), traveled and had friends visiting me from out of town over and over, did the summer job which was constant travelling and rejection. My life is absolutely fucking crazy. It is not a surprise that this kind of unsteady and exciting life takes a toll. I will be able to finish the AA program, but at my pace. I need to be more patient with myself. FUUUUUUCK.
Next week I will be visiting some friends in the city I will move to at the end of the month. After that I will return to Cologne for like two weeks. I am hoping to "finish" the program (milestone day 46) within that time so I can start approaching once I have moved cities.
*Bonus story for the lads that read through all my thoughts:*
During the second week in the youth hostel, there was finally a hot chick in the six-bed room. I introduced myself to her, but she was super shy and wouldn't even tell me where she was from. Few days later on Friday I came home from work, made some small talk with her, and invited her to join me for dinner since I hadn't eaten yet. To my surprise, she was happy to join and we had dinner. Turns out she is 19, from Romania, studies at the Warwick school of Business (UK), and was too shy to tell me because it was her first solo travel and her crazy conservative parents told her not to talk to men she didn't know. We had a good conversation and she seemed interested.
The whole time I was contemplating on how to escalate and get more intimate. I invited her to go over to the area with couches so we could at least sit next to each other. Turns out it was all just single-seat couches with distance between them (fucking COVID). I should have just pushed two of the couches together but wasn't thinking quickly so we were still sitting very distant from each other. I simply didn't know where to go from there and so after chatting there a while I said "OK lets call it a night". I thought that I had fucked up my chance but when we went up to the room I noticed that on that night, we were the only two guests in the six-bed room. So I smelled another chance. She went to shower and so did I. When I came back she was still showering and I had some time to think. I needed to find a way to get us both seated next to each other on one of the beds. And then I found it. A disgusting shandy in a can was sitting in the corner of the room, some other guest had forgotten it. When she came back I showed her what I found and before I could do so she proposed to drink it together. She sat down on her bed and I asked her whether I could join her so she scooted over and we were sitting on the bottom of a bunk bed. We drank the disgusting warm shandy and chatted. She was sitting there in a very closed-off position and made little eye contact. I tried to loosen up the situation and we started chatting about music and eventually played some. I leaned back hoping she would too, but she didn't. She continued being very reserved and making hardly any eye contact. Usually at some point I put my arm around a chick but I was too scared given these circumstances. She had talked about the fears of travelling alone as a girl for the first time so I was afraid to misread signs and being the creep that becomes too touchy. After a while she said she should go to sleep. I took my phone, turned off the music and sat there for like one second. She repeated that she should go to sleep. I thought fuck, now I missed my chance. But I wasn't ready to give up yet. I turned to her and slowly leaned in for the kiss. She moved backwards with a questioning facial expression. I literally asked her whether I could kiss her. I have never done that before, usually was never necessary but the circumstances plus the facial expression made it appropriate. She said yes. We made out but she stopped me from further escalating and pushed me away. Turns out she is a virgin and not ready to lose it. Night could have been over even though we both enjoyed it. Instead I told her I wanted to kiss her again and she was into it, went back to her bed and we did make out. Took two matresses and put them on the floor so we would have more space than in the shitty small bunk bed. Cuddled a lot, eventually asked her whether I could kiss her tits after she had blocked attempts at undressing. She said yes. Turns out she has problems with being nude and would dress herself again after I caressed her nipples. Poor damaged girl. We continue making out, furthest I get is taking shirts of. At some point I ask her whether she has ever touched a dick. She said only with the tip of a finger, never grabbed one. Asked her whether she would like to. Yes. She is excited and does so. Ends up giving me a handjob. Much better than expected, probably because I hadn't masturbated for a week due to the stress and was therefore horny as fuck. She was super excited, talked proudly about how she would tell her friends that she kissed a German guy and made him finish. BOOM.
She wouldn't let me take care of her because she was on her period. I was uncertain whether that was an excuse but I think she wasn't lying, she was wearing a pad I could feel it through her pants. I explained to her that that is not generally a problem for sex, you can just use a towel. She told me she had tried toys with an ex but it hurt so they stopped. When she masturbates, she does not put fingers inside. She considered fucking for a second and even asked me whether I had condoms and which brand. Eventually she decided not to and said that for these reasons she was afraid of the pain and wanted to have her first time with a guy with a small dick. My dick is unusually big which I am pretty proud of, but this is not the first time this has caused problems (not virgins, but girls for which it was painful). It made me think of the article on screening game in which Chris talks about a friend who screened out virgins for that reasons. Maybe I will have to start doing that once I become good at picking up chicks and have abundance. So to all the guys who have an average dick: Having a huge dick is not without its downsides.
We made out some more and she claimed she even came while I was grinding and kissing on top of her. I have trouble believing that even though it sounded completely sincere and she was indeed super excited and into it.
We ended up staying up and making out all night until she took her train in the morning. Nice convos and a lots of insights into the psyche of a young and exploratory girl. Way too much to write up here, but just one funny one: She has commitment issues and doesn't want a relationship or a guy who is clingy or any intimate emotional connection. In contrast, she mentioned at another point of the convo that she doesn't like fuckboys. I think it's funny that she didn't notice that the guys that would be happy to settle on her terms ARE fuckboys. I think the "I don't like fuckboys/players/douchebags" phrase is kind of a thing that all girls tell each other because many of them have had their hearts broken by one and it has become so much of a phrase that it is meaningless and uttered without thought. Another possible interpretation of this contradiction is that she doesn't know what the fuck she wants. Evidence in that is that she was interested in my past sexual encounters and such even though she said she was just looking for casual stuff. She was asking all the "boyfriend-screening" questions.
I mentioned earlier how I was afraid to constitute a negative experience for her by misreading signs and being the creep that gets too touchy. I talked to her about this later that night and she said it was perfect the way I ended up doing it. I told her that she can make these things easier on the guy and more likely to happen if she gives signals back to him after he makes a little move towards her. Like moving closer to him, opening up her posture, making eye contact. She said she does not want to do that, she wants the guy to make ALL the first moves. That was pretty insightful to me. You can read and read and read so much about non-reactions being a green light, it doesn't sink in easily for me. This was practical learning and much more helpful.
Long story short: Be creative and persistent and take leaps of faith. If you get a lucky situation like this (only you and an interested hot girl in a six-bed dorm), go ahead and grasp it! Don't project non-reaction or interpreted rejection upon yourself. It is often just insecurity on the side of the girl. Try again later or in a different way. If she is still resistant, resort to questions of whether you may.
Got 16 reps out. I'm glad to be back. First drill since 6 weeks so I am happy that I was able to pick up where I left of. Was less audacious than some other times and skipped a fair amount of girls. Didn't get as much out as I hoped. But the important thing today was getting back out there.
My new goal is to finish the program before I move (September 28th) and to also do some real approaches before that date. This way I can start approaching chicks in my new town right away with some good momentum.
It is an ambitious goal, but I will make it possible.
Last week I was out clubbing with friends and tried to approach some girls in the club. I have wanted to hook up with chicks in clubs for a long time but I have mostly only been dancing with buddies, hoping for something magical to happen (yup, I'm retarded or at least an anxious procrastinator). I decided to take the first baby step to hitting on girls in a club. I set the goal to take the initiative to talk to three girls, no matter how long the convos were.
I did. Nothing special came of it in terms of results. Indeed it was not spectacular at all from the outside. The first I went and said hi and what her name was. She wouldn't even give me her name but told me her friend was into one of my buddies. Introduced them. The second one I just walked up and told her she's cute and asked her for her name, got it and told her mine. It was super loud and I'm not even sure she understood my initial compliment. She kinda awkwardly looked at her friend and I had no clue what to do and took off. The third girl I approached from the front and boldly (at least for my frame of reference) tapped her on the chest to get her full attention and then told her that she danced well. That was true and I was truly impressed by her dancing skills but I wasn't into her otherwise so I didn't even try to continue that convo.
The interesting thing wasn't what I did, but how I felt. I have always felt some type of pressure/psychological strain building up in the club because nothing was happening and I was too afraid to talk to chicks. It would make me feel shitty and lower my confidence and my enjoyment of the night. It feels similar to daytime AA but not the same. It feels kinda even worse. But on this night, every time after I approached a girl, that psychological strain dropped and I was relaxed, even though nothing came from it in terms of results. Each of the approaches was uncomfortable and it took me effort to do it. But this discomfort of kicking my ass was better than having that shitty feeling keep building for the rest of the night. It would start rising again after a while but I was able to kick it down again with a new approach. After the three, I was more relaxed because I had achieved my goal and was mostly able to just put the getting laid goal out of mind. It seems like I am finally starting to become more comfortable with the temporary discomfort than with the consuming trepidation of inaction.
Got 27 reps out before it got dark. Pretty impressive number considering it was a rainy day. Much better than yesterday already in terms of ballsyness and going out of my way to approach chicks. Also had more fun this time. Getting back in the groove.
I mean it was kind of awkward to compliment them, introduce yourself and then just say goodbye. Naturally, one would hit on them like that. A lot of girls thought I was gonna hit on them and told me stuff like they are engaged.
At some point it dawned upon me what that really means. I have essentially done most of what it take to do approaches today, even though they aren't special. But man, that feels good.
Tomorrow I'll try to go out earlier so I can get even more done. I'll also try to be more aggressive/douchebaggy/cool and a less friendly.
Today I told 50 girls that they are cute and introduced myself and high-fived 20 of them.
I woke up this morning and almost immediately thought about having to do the drills. This often happens, but something was different today. I didn't get an immediate rush of stress. I was not afraid of going out for drills. This is the first time this has happened to me since the beginning of this program. Amazing.
I even got in 1 rep just on my way to do grocery shopping. This is a novelty too, I usually do the reps as a completely isolated block of my day which I need to concentrate on. I hope I can start from this and slowly convert this into a lifestyle and approach chicks all the time in everyday situations.
The anxiety started building up a little bit before I went out later that day. Got 2 reps on the way to the train station, both fairly below-average reactions. The 40-min train ride built up the anxiety in a weird way. I think it was a feedback effect. From where I started off in the morning, I expected to have zero anxiety, which is of course naive. Having a bit of anxiety made me insecure and concentrate on it and increased it. Started off fairly slow but then build momentum. Took a break for dinner after the first 20 reps. Then grinded trough the rest of them. 50 fucking reps. Crazy number. I think the only time I had more interactions was on one of the tries for day 15 where I got a lot of high-five rejections. But these interactions were far less substantial than today.
Funniest interaction was a fairly young girl getting scared and running away when I tried to stop her.
Funniest event was a hobo throwing the rest of his burger at me and shouting "catch!" while I was on my phone texting offwego. It hit me on the chest but I was lucky because it was just a part of the paddie and no sauce. This weird incident surprisingly improved my mood because it was so fucking random.
The week 6 audios really are good. Chris' talk on smoothness today said all there needs to be said about it.
Did 21/20 reps. Yesterday I needed a break, the 50 reps seriously rekt me. Today was hard to go out and felt grindy, but I did it. I hated going back to time and directions, I think at some point this bothered me more than telling the girls that they are cute. Overall the drill felt not super helpful. It was supposed to make you stick in there and watch the girls reaction. But as soon as you ask for the time, you stop the evaluation period. She thinks you are not hitting on her anymore but really just wanted time and directions. I sometimes stuck in there for a few seconds on the last few days already. Oftentimes I politely said "have a nice evening" or "nice meeting you", which stretched out the interaction a bit as well. So today wasn't all that new. But hey, it was a different version and extra exposure is always good. Also showed me the effects of daily form again, some days it's simply harder. Happy I managed to do it anyways.
The double-high-five reps were easier to get than expected, only had a couple missed tries. I even did one of those reps on a group of two girls and double high-fived them both. Also approached a couple of girls that turned out to be a lesbian couple, even married. They showed me their rings. Kinda funny since I met a lesbian couple the last time I did drills as well. Cologne is a very liberal city.
Tomorrow is my weekly off-day. Next week I will try to finish the program.
Finished day 42. I was more anxious than usual when I went out, my hands were shaking. Maybe partially though because I was cold. The rest because of daily form and because today was so close to the real deal that it made me nervous. More rejections than usual, especially in the beginning, I guess mostly because of the nervousness. Also some didn't want to handshake, most of them because of covid. Started of slow but got in the grove and from there on it was smooth and fun sailing.
Even though today was pretty real, it had some comedic aspects to it. It was so real that when I moved on to ask for the time, the girls felt like I was messing with them. One grinned and was like "good one" in a tone like someone was just successfully trolled her. Doing these felt a bit like the week 4 motto "I'm just gonna fuck with her."
I actually got a number today. Before you scream at me for not taking the drill seriously and leaving, I DID LEAVE. Approached a couple of chicks, called one cute, introduced myself to both with handshakes and then asked them for the time. Got it, said thanks and left. Five meters out, the friend of the girl that I called cute calls "don't you wanna take her number?" I turn around. "Sure, I 'll take that with me." While I hand her the phone, her friend went on to make a bunch of teasing comments like "You can't just leave after you complimented her" or "But only call in case you wanna know the time". Told the girl I would call her or smth. and wished them a nice evening. Fucked off. Was kinda funny to pull out the phone to take her number after having asked them for the time.
Today's audio was fucking useless, the other guys hyped me too hard for the week 6 audios. I have heard the "you are making progress because you are not sitting at home jerking off" so often, it is now obvious and redundant to me. But hey, at least the audio wasn't very long. Even though I bring the occasional critique, I freakin love this program. For example, day 38-40 were very long because of the insane rep number which was annoying at the time, but now calling girls cute doesn't bother me at all anymore. Before that, it was scary. This shit simply works and oftentimes one doesn't realize why or only after the fact. Today's "comedic" touch helped take the seriousness out of the otherwise really real and potentially anxiousness-creating-drill. Doing this the first time you go around giving handshakes is very liberating and makes the whole approach thing feel much more casual to me.
Today I had the crying eye thing again like on day 11 due to wind, temperature and other factors. It was fucking annoying. Plus my nose was a little runny. Giving out a bunch of high-fives, compliments and handshakes. Gotta spread the love and those germs (JK my nose is mostly allergies).
Finished the 21 reps, even though it was a hustle. Started off with a fair amount of rejections, but went up to 18 reps out of 27 attempts which is pretty OK. Then I switched to a more hasty and sketchy place of the city and it simultaneously got dark. Only moving targets, all trying to hustle home. Doing these on localized girls is much easier. Took me 15 attempts to get the last 3 reps. Was about to give up but got lucky on my eighths attempt of the very last rep. Funny how covid seems to become more contagious after sundown.
I had read that some of those that nobody finished the AA program up to day 46 actually skipped day 44 and I was told I could skip it if I want to. They said the day is the most pointless in the program and one could get stuck for over a week or longer.
I think this is a weird argumentation. People get stuck on day 17, day 26, nighttime drills, all kinds of days. What makes this day the one that can be skipped because of this? Sure, I get the temptation of skipping it because day 46 is so close and guys wanna finally start approaching. But every drill has a point to it. Some people have problems with eye contact and need to practice it. Eye contact is hugely important to come across confident in all social situations, but especially with women. Chris even talks in the day 34 audio about how it is a direct criterion of attractiveness and masculinity for some women. Even though I don't have an issue with eye contact, focusing entirely on eye contact was a nice experience for me as well. I had never done that before. Seeing the entire range of reactions from girls is interesting. Very few hold for a few seconds. Some glance (counts as eye contact in Chris' definition). Oftentimes looks cross. Oftentimes the girl realizes you are looking at her and deliberately doesn't look back or even to the other side or on their phone. Oftentimes girls don't notice you are looking at them. Becoming aware of this behavior and getting a feel for it is important and I think there might be a point to why Chris placed this before the milestone.
Of course, this drill is much different from other drills because it encompasses and requires a whole array from looks, over style, over body language to facial expression to lastly eye contact. It will be much harder for some guys.
To improve my chances to be seen I put on a flashy outfit. A flower-t-shirt AND a double-rider leather jacket. I usually don't combine them. Due to the weather I was mostly wearing only the flower shirt though.
I was also lucky with the weather. Summer returned today and it was sunny and warm enough to chill in the park in a shirt. The parks, streets and river promenades were bursting with hot girls. Any day in the past week would have probably not gotten enough eye contacts to finish the drill.
I didn't want to skip the drill but I had doubts how long it would take me to do this, because you have to get eye contact from 16+ girls to be able to finish this. I intended to do it simultaneously with day 45 but turns out I am horrible at multi tasking so I deferred the day 45 reps to later in the day after the first few badly brought attempts and rejections.
I managed to do all required reps for day 44 plus the challenge. The number of girls that gave eye contact was vastly outnumbered by the girls that did not. I walked a lot today and could have talked to sooo many more chicks if I wasn't only shooting for eye contact. I considered doing day 46 simultaneously, but that overtaxed me both in terms of multitasking and anxiety. Somehow the anxiety increases a lot if you don't have a singular thing in mind.
Girls walking in the opposite directions were the main source of eye contact, but also some seated or otherwise localized ones.
Figuring what is eye contact (including a "glance" according to Chris) was very difficult to tell apart from just eyes crossing. I took the time the glance/eye-crossing lasted as the main indicator, if it was too short, I didn't go for it. Still though, many of the glances I did count were below one second if I had to guess. I also excluded some longer eye contact if the look was tired/empty and it was apparent to me that it was just a tired drifting look.
When doing the challenge rep, I realized I am bad at when it comes to winking and couldn't manage to do a sexy-looking wink in multiple attempts. Like closed both eyes instead of one. Gonna keep practicing that.
I also finished the day 45 reps. I had the perfect spot for it set up for the end of my day. It is a river promenade with large stairs on which a lot of young people sit to watch the sunset. The secret to this drill is smiling a lot and being happy and jumpy. Because of the perfect spot and momentum I did 9 of the 12 reps in under 15 minutes.
The day 45 drills weren't all that special to me, felt very much like day 43 to me. Chris says that most guys probably talked to groups on every 10th drill during the program. For me it was more like every 2nd to 3rd one, so today was not special at all. On day 43 I usually high-fived the whole group anyways when I did approach a group. I only did duos today, on day 43 I remember at least one larger group. So day 45 went over pretty easily.
HOLY SHIT. I did two of the arguably hardest days up to the milestone day in ONE DAY. It took me like 3h 15min but the last half hour was for the very last rep. Took forever because it was after sunset but I was a stubborn motherfucker and wanted to finish both days. So I didn't only do it, but also fast. Tomorrow, I am planning to beat the milestone day.
The day 45 audio was insightful. The techniques for winning over the girls friends are pretty nice and I’m gonna give them a shot sometimes. I just gotta become better at lying.
The notion that it’s pretty much pointless to talk to groups if you are shooting for the instalay during the day resonates very well with me. It’s not only about logistics, but also so much about judgment by the friends. You have to win them over as well. This reminds me of the job I did recently, where I was approaching strangers to convince them to donate to charity. I quickly learned that it is pretty much pointless to stop anyone who was not traveling alone. The chance that one of them wanted to keep moving was just so high and you would have to deal with all their bullshit objections as well, basically convince both. Convincing doesn’t work on the rational but on the emotional level and connecting emotionally with multiple people at once in such a convo is incredibly hard. Just another similarity between cold approach and sales.
Finishing this program is, hands down, the hardest-earned achievement of my life. On paper, I have achievements that others would be super proud of, like having developed healthy eating habits, like being fairly lean, like getting straight A’s in my final years of high-school, or like writing a superb Bachelors’ thesis with actual research content.
But I am more proud of this one.
This took an amount of dedication and pain I have not invested in anything else before.
I am proud of doing all the daytime challenges.
I am even more proud of not letting a bunch of excuses in my way. I was not scared off by one of the arguably worst and most unlikely responses when some stupid chick called the cops on me because she thought me giving out high-fives was suspicious. I was not scared off when I re-approached girls a second time and they recognized me. I was not held off from doing retarded drills that got lost in translation to German. I did not let my energy and stress problems stop me from finishing this program. I slowed it to my pace and got a bunch of obstacles out of my way, I even quit my job in part because I wanted to focus on this. I did not let my skin condition around the eyes stop me from doing this which made me look like a little like a clown on many days. I did not let covid stop me. I am the first to finish the program with ALL drills, including physical drills, nighttime drills and day 44 since covid. I finished the first two nighttime drills on a sitting crowd in bars with mandatory seating because the clubs were not yet open. The covid excuse is no longer valid for anyone. No fucking excuses.
The program made me grow immensely. I could not have IMAGINED doing what I can do now 5 months ago.
Furthermore, the program brought me to my limits multiple times, especially in terms of stress. Exposure therapy is stressful. The program stressed me out insanely multiple times and I now know slightly better how to manage my stress.
What might possibly be more important than both these points is that I have become comfortable with discomfort. It is some sort of mindset which is forged inside you by the repeated confrontation of your fear. This mindset can help me achieve so many things. When you are more comfortable with the discomfort of leaving your comfort zone than suffering inside it, then you will keep moving.
Thanks and wishes:
- Thanks to everyone who pitched in on my log and my style questions through comments or likes (in no particular order): RogerRoger, Charmander007, 1v1meKid, play_time_is_over, Radical, Gabi, Vice, GettinItAll, YouBetYourCottonPanties, SinSilver, honeybadger, TylerDurden1995, Crisis_Overcomer, Jacobpalmer123, Holden, WhiteBear, slickbackhair, Gabo, DanielWhiting, Crypto, Adam, Rise, NewFoundResolve, Sisyphus, SamJeu, Spazdig, JinderS, TimmyTurner, lexluther_999, canderson, Jenson, Sprezza, Reservoir, colgate, Dewm
- Thank you to many more who inspired me through their logs
- Thank you Manganiello and Toast. You were an inspiration because you recently finished the program. And you kept pushing and motivating me over and over again.
- Special thanks goes to offwego. Following the AA path with you simultaneously made me feel less alone. And it fueled my ambition to not fall too far behind you during the times you pulled ahead. Finishing the program simultaneously with you is an honor, Asim.
- Thanks to KillYourInnerLoser for providing this forum and reviving a GLL-style community. Connecting with all the guys from above might not have been possible otherwise.
- RIP to all the bros that dropped out along the way. Some found other ways to chip at their AA, others just vanished. If you haven’t fully crushed your AA, then I hope you can come back and defeat your fears too. I’m rooting for you.
- To all those that are considering to do this program: DO IT.
Most of all I want to thank Chris aka GoodLookingLoser. Thank you for your site, it has been life-changing for me. This program is well-crafted and made me overcome the fear that felt most constraining to my life. Even though I have never exchanged a single word with you, reading so much of your stuff and listening to those audios makes it feel like you are indeed the older brother I never had.
Thank you Chris, seriously.
As a tribute, I bought a bandana like you used to wear and put in on for the last three sets of today’s drills. Made myself look like a fucking idiot. Now I kinda like it though.
Lastly, I want to thank myself. After all, I am the only person that can and will substantially improve my life. After all, it was me who went out and did like 1000 drill approaches. Thank you Cain for finally beating the lion’s share of your AA and not being a fucking pussy anymore.
Good job man! It's a shame you didn't come onto GLL a few years ago when you had at any given moment several logs of guys logging their journey after the AA program. Good luck with everything.
Ich habe dein intro gelesen. Du bist Deutscher! Hast du das AA Programm in einem einzigen Versuch beendet? Wenn ja, das is beeindruckend, Die meisten versuchen zwei oder dreimal Versuche. Entschuldige mein schlectes Deutsch, ich spreche es nicht so oft. Viel gluck mit alles.
Thanks 1v1meKid. Yeah it is a real shame that the GLL community isn't as alive as it used to be. This is the reasons why I now log over on KYIL. There is more active guys over there. Posted the AA program here AND there because the program is GLL, but from now on I will probably not check in here very often. Probably only in case I continue AA drills. I am considering doing week 7, but for now I want to focus on doing real approaches, even if its just Basic Guy game. Might just add some of the week 7 stuff to my repertoire without doing it in the form of drills. I wonder whether going through the drill motions is really worth it.
Ach wie lustig, wie hast du Deutsch gelernt?
Yeah I did the program in one try but I took a 6-week break at the start of week 6 because of work and stress. Also didn't stick to daily drills through the rest of the time. Overall it took me 5 months., including the breaks But man, it was fucking hard. I even quit my job partially in order to focus on it.
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