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Hey Sam, appreciate you checking by on my AA log. I was fucking afraid as well on the Day 10 drills. Not sure why. But once I did two sets, it became easier again. Put on some clothes you like and just go out!
About your fear of talking to chicks multiple times: I have that fear too. Actually happened to me today. And nothing really happened. The chick was super nice haha go read about it in my AA post from today!
Soooo, I know I said yesterday that I was going to do a full day today, I did only one set of drill and then it started pouring rain and we don't have mall or anything like that here so I guess I have to procastinate one more day, tomorrow even if it rains I will have to find a solution
If you're in a small town, consider taking a vacation to the city and bang out multiple "AA days" each day you're there. I forget but pretty sure I did 1.5-2.5 days of week 6 drills in a few hours in NYC back in the day.
Also a lot more fun if you can meet up with your AA cohort.
I agree with Cain there must be somewhere girls are at, even on a rainy day. Still, even getting at least one drill in on a shitty day is better than nothing: just keep going no matter what.
I went out 2 days ago and again managed to do only one set of drills.
Then I went out today saw only 3 girls in one hour of walking because of the rain, and bitched out from the 3 of them.
I feel like because all of those days without doing the program in the last 2 weeks I lost momentum, and in my mind I'm back at the beginning, I wonder if I should start the program again from day 4 to build momentum again, or if all this is just a trick from my brain/stupid excuses and I should just continue with brute force (and maybe getting stuck again on a harder day later I don't know how it's going to be)
What do you guys think ?
Anyway I'll go out to do drills again tomorrow I'm not ready to give up
First of all thanks RogerRoger, Cain, QTip, Ofwego, Toast and SamJ_ for the tips and encouragements this week !
So, since I felt like I lost momentum I went back to a day I'm sure I feel comfortable doing and start again from this day, I prefer to feel that the program is fun to do and to not stress too much time on a single day. If I feel stuck I think I will always go backward until I don't feel stuck anymore.
Today before the drills I did an hypnose from youtube (
) to help with social anxiety (don't judge haha it really helped).
So, it really helped with the confidence but I don't know if I will do it again, I'm thinking that maybe it will make me dependant on doing the hypnosis every time before going out, like being dependant on alcool to feel more confident, what do you guys think ?
About the drills, I felt good being back on the program, smiled to every girl, every girls smiled back, and it made me happy that I didn't give up. I bitched out a couple of time but it's ok, I hope it will become less and less.
I fixed myself to do 2 sets of 4 drills in one hour and I did it, for now this will be my average, and time constraint, I will go out one hour every day and do 2 sets minimum, and with the time I will try to go faster and faster.
So that's it I'm back on track, tomorrow I'll doo the last 2 sets of day 8, good luck every one !
Ps: I saw Andy and Toast podcast about their AA Journey, was very motivating !
Total number of interactions since Day 1: 84 (Feels good to see this number going up again)
Yesterday I did 2 sets of day 9, was very easy, got nice short interactions, nothing much to add, I have only like 20 minutes today to do some more so I will try to do the most I can.
Besides that, I wrote already about a girl I had a date with from OkCupis but nothing happened, yesterday night she sent me a message to come see her in a club even if we didn't talk for 2 weeks, I went, we talked about nothing for like 10 min then went back to my place and had sex, I did'nt have to do anything apparently she just wanted it haha.
So first lay from OkCupid, good ego boost but she was not really good at it.
Damn bro that's crazy. I had the exact same kind of lay from a girl with tinder. It's kind acrazy how similar this process seems to be going for us haha. But yeah man keep hangin in there. I'm sorry for falling off but I'm really making a renewed effort now to get after it every day. We're gonna get through this man.
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