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I've been sick since friday and couldn't go out so didn't do any drills.
I'm feeling a bit better I hope that tomorrow I will be able to go out !
Besides that: I just created a whatsapp group, for the people that are approximately on the same point as me like that we can motivate each other, so if you are between week 2 and 3 for as of right now or if you're done with the program and want to be a mentor for us, welcome, just write your name when you arrive and also your nickname from the forum
Link to enter the group
I didn't write much those last days, i was sick, then when I started feeling better it took me 2 days to do 3 sets of day 9, nothing special happened, i was a bit anxious, I'm not consistent enough those last weeks and also everytime I forget about the power of social momentum. Everytime I finish a set it reminds me of it, and it reminds me that the program is fun and that I should not give up.
We opened a whatsapp group for our AA cohort, Qtip, Cain, and Honeybadger, I hope it's going to help us and that we're all going to finish the program !
Today I went out to do day 11 (I'm skipping day 10 because movie theaters are closed and I'm not socially free enough yet to do something that weird, and last week this day made me stop for an entire week so now I just skip it), so today I was out for one hour, there were not a lot of girls I talked to only one and bitched out of 2 others, I'll do better tomorrow !
Went out twice today, one time in the morning, one time in the evening, thanks guys for the tips and the encouragement, in the end I did day 10 and it was not difficult at all this time.
In the morning did 2 sets, people looked at me weird and didn't really want to talk but I didn't care I just wanted to be done with this day, the girls were not really attractive and not super nice
But in the evening I found some more attractive girls, they also seemed to not understand why I was asking about movie theaters but they went along with it, only 2 were talkative enought to give me recommandations (Or I should show a better mood I don't know, I really didn't want to do that day haha)
Anyway I'm happy to finally be at day 11 and to keep goiinngg !
Went out, did only one set of drills, all the girls were nice, but still I could feel that something was off like they didn't understand why I was asking for a phone store, so yeah it's perfect to get used to it and enhance social freedom, still I have a hard time going out every day and I'm not sure if I see any improvement.
Also I feel that it's taking me too much time and that I'm not consistant enough so I don't build momentum and I don't feel change.
Are there people than finished the program after a lot of time and stayed on the same day for a week a couple of time and finished the program slowly without momentum ?
Any tips to be more consistent ?
Also, my lack of consistance in this program, is due to the lack of motivation in my studies in computer science, it takes me a lot of time and I procastinate a lot and then it pushes the program also, I have to find a solution.
Yeah, some days in the program took me many days to complete. There were some that I dreaded, but after completing them, they weren't that bad.
For me, once I got to the weeks where you actually hit on girls, I was having a blast and the momentum came naturally.
For being consistent: prioritize the program over literally everything else except your career (which for you would be school). Only 40 or so more days and you'll be done and have vastly improved your social freedom.
Hey Sam maybe this can help with the procrastination: Pick a fixed time slot every day during which you do drills, irrespective of how far you got with your studies. Like 15-17 o'clock or something like that. That way even if you procrastinate on your studies, it won't impact your AA drills.
Hi everyone, sorry I didn't post for so long (wow I just saw the date and I didn't know it was that long), as I said in one of my last post I entered in a huge rut due to lack of motivation in my degree and that spread into every area of my life I wasn't doing anything anymore, no gym, no studies, no eating healthy, no going out, nothing, now I had to pick myself back up because I entered exam period so I'm trying to work out again and go to the library to study but I don't have any time for the AA program.
I didn't stop the program because I don't like it but because of that. So as soon as I finish my exams, beginning of August I'll be back, and I'll be on vacation so 100% focused on the program.
Good luck with your goals everyone and see you in one month !
Finally that's it I finished my exams !
So as i said I'm going to do the program again as of tomorrow.
I will start again from day 4 as I was only on day 11, and I want to build momentum again and not have a really hard time straight from the beginning.
There is one problem it's that I failed 2 exams so I will have to do them again this month so maybe it will stop me for the program. And also when I'm done I will go on vacation so not sure that I'll do the program there, but maybe it will be even easier there, we'll see.
But anyway I said 1st of August I'm starting again so I will start again tomorrow and hope for the best, and even if those things make me loose time I will never give up the program.
I don't know about you but all those pictures of girls on the side of this forum makes me want to try all the different pussies there is on this planet !
Started again today on day 4, felt good to be back !
Nothing much to say about it, it was easy to ask girls for the time as I already did it last time, but I want to start slowly and create the habit of going out every day before going back to the day I was at.
Something great happened, as a sign of the AA Gods, as soon as I left my apartment, the first girl I saw was a super hot girl in yoga pants heading for her workout, I asked her for the time, she looked at me with a big smile, and said very slowly 9:20. I know it's nothing and I sound like a noob but it instantly made me happy I was back on the program.
Why a sign of the AA gods you may ask. Yesterday night I checked some techniques people have to stick to their training and not miss their workouts. One of them was to have something to look forward on, like registering for a marathon if you want to consistently go running. So now I have my marathon. As soon as I finish day 46, this girl will still be around my building, and I promise she's (let's call her the 9:20 girl) going to end in my bed. (I'm not really obsessed with her it's just for the beauty of the challenge).
So now every time I won't have the strength to go out I will think about my appointment in the future with 9:20 girl.
The program is supposed to take around 3 month so let's say from the 1st of November I will try to find her again
Did the first part in 30 minutes and then the second part in 12 but I don’t know if it counts because I was in a much better environment.
That’s why I said this day was somewhat interesting, for the second part I went to the campus of a private college with the reputation of being for rich people and it was a very good place to do the drills (the girls, just wow) so I’ll go back there sometimes and I can’t wait for summer to be over and people to be back in class. So if anyone has something similar where he lives, I recommend.
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