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Summary: Ok so I actually completed the day today. It took me a lot longer than usual (almost 2 hrs) to complete not including the time it took to get out the door of my apt. I also let a lot more sets slip by today (50/50) than usual. This was partially because there were so many people out today moving around but it was also because there were a lot of smoking hot girls not wearing a lot of clothing and I was being a bitch. I'm going to be putting a lot more effort into not letting girls go by and I will not tolerate any procrastination in my apartment from now on. All that said, I did execute the drills on largely pretty attractive girls and it was not nearly as bad as I thought it would be.
- immediately asked hot blonde for time and got it
- asked this milf sitting down for the time and if she'd been to coopers
- full drill, very nervous: an average looking couple gave me the time, they had not been to coopers; I asked if they liked it but they did not hear me and left. I decided to count this because at least it was further than I pushed myself last night.
- got the time from a hot latina girl.
- asked another hot latina in a group for the time and if she'd been to coopers (no).
- ran the full drill on a couple where the girl was pretty cute (7/10) they said they hadn't been to coopers and when I asked if they liked it the girl just said, "i've never heard of coopers". When she said it her voice was still just as friendly as it was before I asked that retarded question. This is when I started to get what Chris was saying about the words not meaning anything and how the interactions don't have to make sense.
- hot girl eating lunch gave me the time
- asked a couple for the time and if they'd been to coopers. They were a little rude and were walking away while talking to me. They acted like I was a homeless person or something. I was feeling good though and really didn't care
note: A guy complimented me on my sunglasses and shortly after that a cute girl said hi to me while she was walking by. this increased my confidence alot
- I saw a 10/10 girl outside the gym in a sports bra and compression shorts. Without thinking I went in to do the full drill. I kinda got let off easy because she had actually been to coopers so it wasn't weird when I asked if she liked it. We ended up getting into a convo about good places in Austin. I felt like she was a bit older than me and way out of my league but I still feel I may have actually been able to get her number with a bit more social freedom. But I bailed.
- don't even remember the time approach
- decided to do time + directions for this one because I actually needed directions to cvs. These two average looking girls helped me. I had to actually take the girls phone and go into the shade to see the screen. They were quiet but still really helpful. I feel like they may have actually been a bit nervous to talk to me.
- Ran the full drill on a couple. They just repeated that they hadn't been to coopers. No problem
Round #5: was able to do these in almost immediate succession
- Asked this really hot girl stopped on a scooter for the time. Her "boyfriend" rather quickly took out his phone and told me it.
- Asked a cute girl (6.5/10) for the time, was a veggie so she hadn't been to coopers
- immediately after that I went up to this hot blonde to do the full drill. She hadn't been to coopers and when I asked if she liked it she said "In Austin you really can't go wrong with barbecue". She was basically walking away while talking to me and clearly did not want to talk but I was still able to do the full drill which I am very happy about
I definitely feel i've made some progress today. Still gotta get out the door quicker and I need to decrease the time between interactions but I feel I have learned the main lesson Chris was trying to teach with this drill which is that the interactions don't have to make sense.
This was a rough day that took me several tries to properly execute the drills. I don't have much to say about this other than that most of the people I asked didn't even know where a movie theater was and no one actually had any movie recommendations. I think this drill might be a bit dated as nobody goes to movie theaters anymore lol. I definitely feel like i'm out of the honeymoon phase and am starting to feel really dumb wondering around looking for viable sets. It's very rare to see an attractive girl alone. At this point i'd jump at the chance to talk to a group of girls. On the typical day I go out i see a bunch of lone wolf guys like myself aimlessly wondering, gangs of men with one or two women in the group, and the ocasional attractive girl with her boyfriend. I've had a bit to drink tonight and am having trouble writing so i'll just end it here. Basically this day was hard for some reason but I eventually executed all the drills and I guess that's a victory.
So it's been raining in Austin almost every day for the past week and i've been pretty busy with work so I haven't been able to complete my drills lately. However I did get in touch with several girls online and scheduled a two dates. I just went and had coffee with the first girl today and I think it went ok. We were able to keep the conversation going for an hour or so with some very minor dips and silences. If there's some things I think i did wrong it would be not being physical enough. I was just sitting across from her in the coffee shop and we barely touched aside from the hugs at the beginning and end as well as some footsie under the table. At the end I said i hope to hang out again soon and she said yeah but didn't sound too enthusiastic. Idk I guess i'm happy considering this is the first legitimate date i've ever been on and I had to push through some anxiety to even arrange and show up for this in the first place. Tomorrow I have a date at the same place at the same time with a cute latina girl so hopefully i'll be a bit sharper for that one.
Hey guys I'm gonna be getting back on the aa program. I fell off recently because I got kinda caught up in the tinder grind. It's largely useless and really just a form of procrastination but I fooled myself into thinking it was productive. Also I think I should say that I went on another date last night. We had planned to get ice cream and then come back to my place for a movie. Literally five minutes in the girl gets a call from her friend about some bullshit emergency and leaves. I'm not sure what I could have done so wrong in such a short period of time but anyway that really snapped me out of whatever this shit is I've been doing. Online can be good but a lot of times you're just fighting over the dregs of society. But yeah i'll be hitting day 11 tomorrow. Sorry for falling off guys and thanks for checking up on me and keeping me accountable.
Tinder is ideal as an accessory but if you want to fuck HOT girls, approaching is the way to go.
Finish the program if you have approach anxiety.
Even if you don't the audios Chris left behind have some gold there.
Summary: aside from having hooked up with a girl from tinder, i've been a worthless sack of meat for the past week or two. I finally got out today at around 4:30pm. It was raining and there were very few women around but I was able to do 1/5 rounds of the drill. Not much to say about it. All of the girls I'd been hanging with from online have left austin for the summer so I'm now back to square one and am going to be getting back into this. I feel really shitty about how side tracked i've gotten and really appreciate seeing some of you guys commenting on my log. But yeah, 1/5 rounds completed, took like 2 hours bc nobody was out today. Hopefully I'll have better luck tomorrow.
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