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Day 9 (Drill) 17 Jan 2021 01:58 #332742

Did 15 approaches today, asking for the time, then asking the girl if she's eaten at a random place, followed by asking her if she liked it regardless of whether she's been there. For the most part, when I faced the moment of tension/weirdness, girls either repeated that they haven't been there, or just kept on talking something random, finding a way to make sense of it. Wasn't bad at all, except one time when the woman's husband showed up and was somewhat trying to intimidate me.

I've been doing a good chunk of my approaches at the same grocery store, but I usually manage not to get the same women.
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Day 9 (Drill) 19 Jan 2021 04:30 #332781

Keep it up dude.

And by the way, it's easier to keep track of things (and look back when it's reflection time) if you actually have a log rather than open a new thread for every day.
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Log Update 20 Jan 2021 02:24 #332789

Got it. I'll make this my log.

Asked out a cute girl with a nice ass at the gym today just to see how far along I've gone in the AA program. Said she had a boyfriend, but I enjoyed the interaction and the anxiety wasn't really there; it was just the anticipation of approaching that got me flustered.
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Day 10 (Drill) 23 Jan 2021 03:10 #332819

Did 14 approaches today. I had done 10 approaches of the same drill on Sunday, which I felt I had to repeat, so Imma call this one done. They were fairly easy. Had awkward tension with one woman when she didn't know a theater place, and I still had to ask "Did you like it?" Eventually, I just excused myself.

One thing I realized is these drills go faster if I'm really enjoying the woman in front of me, and taking pleasure from our interaction, even the crabby ones, while still maintaining my frame.

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Latest Report 29 Jan 2021 03:35 #332874

Went to the gym today, and noticed this cute Asian chick was giving me signals, so I said fuck it and went over to say hi. Just basic "guy game" conversation, following Chris's no-nonsense rubric. I made sure to touch her and really stay under that sexual tension, and I felt like the fucking man. Got her number. After the interaction tho, I felt pretty drained and had to remind myself that it's not the outcome, but the performance/frame that matters.

This AA stuff really does work. It's the repetitions and tiny doses of tension that have been chipping away at my need to play it safe. I've put the drills on pause for a bit, but have been keeping them in the back of my mind and will start up the drill again tomorrow.

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Day 9 (Drill) 29 Jan 2021 08:13 #332876

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Day 11 (Drill) 30 Jan 2021 01:12 #332888

I completed 16 total approaches today asking women for the time, nearest cellphone store, her type of phone, and then if she liked her phone. Some reactions went well, others felt neutral, some just got me frustrated especially with a crabby ass lady (cute tho) who got defensive, then there was this hot chick who turned red and was practically shouting her answers, and I found it a bit hysterical.

The total is to do 20 approaches, but I've done this drill a few times before on previous days, so I'm going to call this one done. I felt exhausted by the end of it.
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Day 11 (Drill) 30 Jan 2021 03:02 #332891

Great work dude keep it up.
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Day 9 (Drill) 30 Jan 2021 18:10 #332896

Great job man. I just started day 5 so its nice to see other people reporting on their progress as well

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Day 12 (Drill): The Drag-Out 06 Feb 2021 02:32 #332950

I've been at the same drill for three days asking girls the following:
Time, Random question-Do you know anywhere that sells nice candles? I'm planning a candlelit dinner for my girlfriend, I'm the sweetest guy ever, Leave

Here's my sets:

1/30/2020
10 approaches

1/31/2020
13 approaches

1/5/2020
6 approaches

Today, I got into some trouble for performing my drills at my workplace while I was on my break. Apparently, asking women about candles is a controversial business. Safe to say, I'm going to need to find a new site to practice. At any rate, I knew I would have to go out in search of new horizons eventually. Seeing that I don't have a car, I'm going to have to be resourceful and walk my way to the nearest well-populated place.

On a lighter note, I asked out a hot Asian chick at my gym yesterday. The other Asian chick I asked out hasn't responded back to me. This new one had some sexy tattoos, and I even gently ran my finger down her back to feel her tattooed hummingbird. She seemed eager enough that she put my number in her phone and sent me a "hey it's[name]". I texted her back earlier today, asking if she wanted to grab a coffee. (I'm new to setting up dates, but I always try to be direct). I'm still waiting on a reply and trying to fight my tendency to overthink/read too much into the "wait and see" game.

I like the progress I've made so far, but right now I'm in a sort of limbo period, trying to devise a new strategy. This climb is steep brothers, but I'm just getting started. My respects to all the brothers out there, facing their own mountain, one step at a time.
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Day 12 (Drill): The Drag-Out 06 Feb 2021 06:02 #332954

Good stuff man. How do you get in trouble for asking about candles? Thats really dumb imo.

I'm not sure if you know this, but everyone doing the AA program during COVID (that I know about) is skipping the physical drills. Just so you know.

You're almost on week 3 dude. Keep it up!
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Day 12 (Drill) 11 Feb 2021 16:24 #332995

Luckily, I found a new location to do the drills. This time, I'm definitely focusing on speed and precision, getting in and getting out while being present in the interaction with the woman.

2/9/2020: 10 approaches
2/10/2020: 11 approaches

While I haven't been able to hit that golden 16 total approaches, by now, I feel more than comfortable asking women about candles. lmao. Time to move on to the next drill.
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