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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 16 Sep 2020 15:00 #331265

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So I'm making a separate log for the AA program which is gonna be separate from what I guess is my life/getting laid journal.

Obviously gonna be following Chris's program to the T so I can actually approach girls and not have to rely on online dating anymore.

Already got a Tinder and Bumble so tomorrow is gonna be an off day I guess, after analyzing my Tinder pics, I've come to conclusion that my profile actually sucks and I could be getting way better results if I had some high quality photos of myself.

My mate who lives with me has a DSLR so I've been trying to convince him to take pics of me, but I don't really want to nag him.

The AA program is also gonna be difficult considering the nearby areas are starting to go into lockdown again, will try my best to get around this.

Anyways, will be updating as I go along with the program, am determined to get AA over and done with so I can actually start screening girls in real life.

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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 17 Sep 2020 02:18 #331284

If he doesn't have a girlfriend, you should tell him you'll take photos of him too. Or just bug him anyway; if he's your bro he'll want to help you out.

OR, you can buy your own camera. Or if you have iPhone 10,11 (maybe even 8) that's honestly quite good if you use a tripod with phone attachment.
2020 Goals: A] 0/2 work projects completed; B] 8.4/9.0 photofeeler attractiveness; C] 200/180 lbs squat, 185/180 lbs bench, 300/200 lbs deadlift.

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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 17 Sep 2020 10:29 #331292

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All I can say about my nate is that he doesn't really go after girls. Msy be a self esteem issue idk but yeah that wouldn't really work. I'll ask him again in the near future .
Okay so it's Day 3 and so I've decided to show you guys my Tinder profile (I know it sucks) tje pics are from when I was 21 and I'm nearly 24 now so ut shows you how long I've gone without improving it.

I get some results but I notice I very rarely match with HOT girls but I guess I need better pics of myself

Here they are I guess
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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 18 Sep 2020 02:54 #331307

Pretty funny your a working stiff - I thought you'd be a bum with all your art talk :P

I'm always a fan of suit pics, but seriously I think the first two are pretty good photos. Add some nice juxtaposition to you as an artist as well. You're missing a "fun" photo though. Definitely could benefit of one related to you and your art.
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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 18 Sep 2020 03:27 #331309

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Ahaha I'll take that as a compliment, the artist life is a struggle for sure but I still try and dress up.I look a little different now with my nose pierced + longer beard, also I wear edgier clothes I guess. But yeah maybe I might get a shot of me doing some art when I'm on campus this year haha
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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 20 Sep 2020 02:34 #331330

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Okay about the program...been doing drugs over the last couple of days. Did MDMA with a girl on Thurs and did Ket yesterday so motivation to do anything has been very low in the days. Do not worry I do not have substance issues haha, it was my birthday yesterday so have been celebrating. Will do the first day drills tomorrow

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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 21 Sep 2020 17:03 #331344

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Okay this approach anxiety program isn't going super well lmao, yesterday I spent most of the day in the house and then went on a date with a girl in the night. Today however I did actually ask one girl for the time. She was working in subway, could tell she was pretty. This drill isn't super difficult but I need to get it finished so I can do day 2. Will make an effort to leave the house tomorrow so I can do 5

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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 23 Sep 2020 16:14 #331371

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Okay so I actually completed the first drills today after days of procrastinating, overall it went okay. Only one woman really sketched out on me and she was a lot older than I thought she was, my fault. She was wearing a mask and I sort of approached her from behind.

I actually spend last night looking at Bad Idea Bear's approach anxiety program and it was shocking to see the level of confidence he had towards the end compared to the beginning. Was really motivating to see this.

Also watched Chris's podcast on how to beat Approach Anxiety by being a man, this really resonated with me and I realize how much all this shit actually matters to me.

Anyways in the future I'm gonna be doing vlogs so I can properly introduce myself. an't today because my mates and their girl-friends are in the house and I'm not sure if I'm entirely comfortable with them knowing what I'm up to.

Anyways, onto day 5 drills!

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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 24 Sep 2020 17:47 #331387

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Okay here's my first video log below, like I mention in the vid, only did 8/10. Can repeat if people think I should do the full drill. Also, how the fuck do I hide this log from Google just in case of the worst scenario??
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Vid
vimeo.com/461505133

Can't seem to get the vid up on here for some reason

edit- if you watched the vid, the reason I took so long is cause I only asked girls I was attracted to, didn't ask every single chick I saw
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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 24 Sep 2020 19:37 #331389

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Logs in 'Approach Anxiety Vlogs (Intro/Journal)' don't show up in Google, I think.

Good job getting out there. Keep at it!
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Approach in the gym
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Skyfire destroys Approach Anxiety 25 Sep 2020 16:39 #331399

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Okay so day 6 drills today, spent about an hour out of the house. Honestly I only asked 7 girls for the time and 1 for directions so I'm going to have to do this day again.

Points to note-

Some hesitation when approaching groups or pairs. Done a couple but it just feels unnatural to me
Not stopping girls when they're running or when they'r on the phone, sort of feels rude
Also not changing directions, mostly just approach girls who come into my path when I'm walking

Most of the girls I'm approaching are somewhat attractive, no negative reactions. Everybody seems happy to help. Big fear is doing this on the same girl twice cause I live in a small city.

Also am very conscious of people behind me, so I always walk for about 3 minutes before asking another person.

Level of anxiety is relatively low doing this drill. Not finding it difficult once I spot a girl to ask. Maybe I should take more action in crossing the street or changing directions to ask them though, at the moment this feels "weird" or socially unacceptable for some reason.

Anyways that's all for today, will do this day tomorrow as well
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