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Time, do you know where to get good wine, I got a promotion at work and I want to celebrate, what type do you recommend? 4 rounds, 16 girls.
I did all 4 parts on every girl, all positive responses. I was so carefree that I started doing rapid-fire approaches on all good targets insight. 2 girls didn't stop, the first girl didn't stop and the second one saw it, she probably assumed I was a weirdo, (lack of) social proof at work right here. I caught that right away and slowed down the pace, walked a bit further, then opened the next set. I’ve been going to the same local plaza every day for almost 2 weeks now, and so far I haven’t met the same girl twice (or at least no one called me out on it).
A few girls were trying to start a conversation by asking me where I worked after I mentioned the promotion, I answered but steered the conversation back by saying that was not relevant, continued with the question and exited. Same with yesterday, I tried to spice up a couple of approaches with "My crush just texted me back, I'm looking to celebrate" and “My girlfriend's pregnancy test just came back negative, I'm looking to celebrate”. Got some laughs, the point was to see how far I could stretch this and still get good reactions, also just have some fun with it.
I get nervous every day on my way to do the approaches, and the feeling doesn’t seem to go away. I believe this is true for every form of improvement. I’ve been taking a cold shower every day for about 6 months now and it’s a similar feeling, every day that water is goddamn cold and it never gets better, but the one thing that changed though, was my mindset. I’m able to view these challenges as growth now and not an ordeal, to the point that I don’t even think about or fight the pain anymore, I embrace it.
I only did 4, I had a small bottle of hand sanitizer in my hand and gave them a squirt right after. A girl was about to high five me and her friend pulled her back and said "Corona!". After some resistance from a couple of girls, I chickened out, felt awkward and socially inappropriate right now. But I'm going to try again tomorrow.
Maaaan it was difficult. Finished the rest 16. I only got 5 high fives on the street, people were like no, no, nope. A teenage girl wanted to high five me, but her mom was right there and she said "Seriously? High five?". I noticed some girls wanted to do it, but they didn't want to bear the social judgment. If one girl does it the rest will comply too, and if one says no, the rest will most likely pass as well.
But when there's not a lot of people around, they're more compliant. In fact, 14 of my high-fives were done in the plaza's garage, and I don't recall many turning me down. Still, it took me 2 hours to finish this drill.
I walked up to a few cars, made them roll down the windows, and high fived everyone in there. They asked me why I was doing this, I told them "You don't need to justify high-fives, you just do it".
It did make me feel like the shit, pushed through it in spite of many reasons not to do it.
Okay, I was going out to do day 15 but I'm not going to make any excuses, I was afraid of rejection and I chickened out. Based on my 2-day experience with this drill, the hit rate is very low, which means getting 20 high-fives I'd need to try 50 - 100 girls (Only 1-3 girls in mask out of the 20ish I approached high fived me). Going to hold off on day 15, 16.
Singing ABC was easy for me, I did it to 16 girls in about 20 minutes. I was pretty consistent on my end, the reactions were mixed. About one-third of them found it amusing, half of them just listened with no reactions/emotions whatsoever, the rest did not even give me the time, but I kept walking with them and finished the song.
For the last one, I added "Now I know my ABC, 26 letters from A-Z", and the girls were like "Awesome~, thank you" as if they were talking to a kid.
time, do you like my shirt, I just bought it and I can't decide, I'm going to wear it and keep the tag on so I can return it. 5 rounds, 20 girls (I just realized it's 20 as I'm typing. I thought it was 16 and I did 17-18 in about 40 minutes.)
I mostly did the challenge part "Time, Do you like my shirt? My boyfriend bought it for me, and I think it's gay", it's more interesting and more fun to do. About half of them found it funny, mostly average - good reactions. There were two girls sitting outside eating, I asked for the time and they were like "we're trying to eat", and when I asked if they liked my shirt, one girl said "no", I then said "my boyfriend bought it for me ...", she couldn't help but chuckled.
I walked up to a car, a few people were smoking weed in there, I executed the drill, and as I was walking away, they started howling in laugher. Another lady, I asked her for the time, and guess what she said after that, "I like your shirt". Didn't even have to ask.
How's it going (hanging)? Do you know if there's a hair salon around here? I'm getting the Justin Bieber haircut. What's your favorite hairstyle for guys? 4 rounds, 16 girls. Do one being gay, do one being completely serious, two just being yourself.
I've been doing the whole drill on most girls for a while now, did 4 yesterday and 12 today. Very good responses. Sort of half-assed on the being gay part. Most girls found it amusing and were more willing to talk than before. I did feel an increasing amount of pressure as I've run into a couple of girls that recognized me, might need to switch up the venue or have a gap day in between every drill.
I saw this girl with an hourglass figure from afar and I was hooked, lost her for a bit then walked around and eventually found her and approached her. She was very keen to talk and I felt like she was into me, we locked eyes for a solid 10 seconds, there was some tension building up, she told me she's just moved here last October, and there were several opportunities where I could just go on and have a normal conversation, but I had to stick to the drill. I said goodbye and she was still in no hurry to leave. Damn, I can't wait to do the actual approaches.
Time (I did "how's it going", it's more personal, and the response rate is lower therefore more challenging), do you know where the nearest bathroom is? I mean the men's room. I hope it's clean, men's rooms are usually gross (Say this even if she answers No). 20 girls.
Same deal, I'm skipping just doing one or two parts, I try to go as far as I can on every approach. Some of these drills are really time-consuming, this one took 2 hours. To make it more fun, I did this a few times "where's the nearest bathroom, I need to take a bath".
I mixed in yesterday's drill because it was fun and also to make up for the ones I missed. I didn't really enjoy today's drill even though it was fairly easy to do. Chicks don't know how to respond after you say "men's rooms are usually gross", it feels like it's coming from someone who's not socially calibrated but tries to force a conversation.
More people are starting to recognize me, a chick in the car said to me "looking for candles?". Someone else said her friend knew a guy (me) that walks around and asks questions.
I can honestly say I'm way more relaxed around women, did 2 drills on a blond chick in the stairway, then teased her a bit, didn't feel nervous or awkward, and she seemed to have enjoyed the interaction. Chris said you'll know when you are ready to have a conversation on your own, I think that's pretty close now.
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