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Today marks my 10th number, 1 almost meetup, rest didn't even go past 3 messages. This is kinda shit isn't it.
And I thought you were getting less hung up about the rejections for a second there. Again, you're just starting out. Eames didn't get his first lay until around approach #100 if I'm remembering right and then he had a second shortly after.
Do you hit them up even if they don't respond to the first message? I do that but I don't recall if it's panned out.
About MM's Models, I think he mentioned referencing something from his convo when texting a girl. I was thinking of doing that, getting a bit more personalized. Probably doesn't matter much tho.
Man I do miss surfing! Only 12 more days til I'm home and can go a few times. I'll definitely let you know when I can swing a trip to Boston.
bro you are taking it wayyy too serious and getting wayyy to invested into these girls man.
ask them out within 10 messages or less. all of the girls that actually go out with me are actively replying. there is no game involved like you say "building emotional spikes" and all of that shit, toss it out of the window my guy. when youre with a girl whose down to sleep with you, none of that shit is going to matter. hit the numbers game harder.
Yo, it's been 2 terrible weeks. I feel stuck again, AA is back and I haven't been able to do many drills/approaches (less than 10, mostly half-assed), and I went out almost every day, the lays seem so close yet so far. Only got 1 Instagram, she's going to Germany for Christmas and "will see where things hold next year". Talked the girl I met at the beach into meeting up, so I drove 1 hour and 20 minutes to meet her for surfing on Sunday, and she didn't show up, a heavy blow to the nuts, still had a good surf sesh though. The condom girl DMed me on Instagram a week after we met saying we could talk if I started wearing a mask in public, she still hasn't said anything after that.
Girls nowadays all use Instagram and want to see who you are before they decide if they want to hang out. I just reinstalled it, my profile is shit and I'm thinking about beefing it up. Since I was a social cripple back in college, and people from my country don't use Instagram, my only source of new followers is just strangers. I'm talking to a lot of people on the beach, introducing myself, being friendly, whenever possible we'll just exchange Instagram, but it's going to take me a long time to build a solid profile. Give me a follow if you'd like @jxc127.
there is no game involved like you say "building emotional spikes" and all of that shit, toss it out of the window my guy.
Yeah, I feel that now, the ones who aren't enthusiastic are not going to get any keener by my text game, only leading up to disappointment.
Do you hit them up even if they don't respond to the first message? I do that but I don't recall if it's panned out.
Depends, if I think there was a bit of connection or she showed clear signs of interest, I'd follow up with a second text, then that's it, mostly I just delete the number. None of them goes anywhere.
Usually after I post something here I'd feel a bit better, get encouraged to keep going, so I'm GOING to go out and approach tomorrow, I'll get at least one number or I'm not coming home, there's no waiting around, a snowstorm is coming on Thursday and Boston is shutting down again. Fuck AA, this is such bullshit.
Yo guys, I think I'm done with the drills (maybe I'll do the "you're sexy" stuff too). I'm solely focusing on doing cold approaches nowadays, and the "you should be my bodyguard" stuff is too unnatural, it throws me off rhythm, I do like the squeeze part though, will keep doing that. Now I'm just focusing on developing my own routine and executing it so much that it becomes my second nature, how to open, a couple of jokes, teases, small talk, number close, instant pull, etc.
I went out to my usual spot today (shopping mall) in downtown Boston, saw this black guy and recognized him from before, and he was talking to some chick and was giving off the pickup vibe. I circled around a bit, saw him and 2 other guys were doing the same thing, circling around, so I opened them, yeah turned out they were doing game too, we all hit it off, linked up and started doing approaches for like 4 hours together. 2 of them were legit dirtbags, one just pulled last night, the 3rd guy was somewhat new, but we're all going to be approaching together now, it really gives you a nudge and like one of them said, "a safety net". I was approaching girls left and right, calling them cute, squeezing and stuff, 2 girls turned completely red, it was adorable. Got 1 number, took off her mask and she was meh, don't really feel like texting her now. The other one we really hit it off, we went on an instant date, I got a milkshake and talked for about 15 minutes. As I was trying to get her number, she surprised me with a "no", and went on to say that she was "asexual", and it seemed legit, based on some of the sexual jokes/innuendos I've thrown her way. I really wanted to just bail right then, but I stayed in, held back on the sexual vibe, started showing more of my personality, talking about books, life and whatnot, got her Instagram instead, she might text me, might not, I hope she does though cause she actually has some content and isn't a boring girl.
Surprisingly I was probably the most aggressive one out of the 4 of us, I'm very physical, squeezing, touching, holding hands, taking their masks off, hugging, leading. I usually would find out if someone has a boyfriend or is interested in the first 10-20 seconds and not waste time with them, same with the handshakes, no handshake, no conversation. Feeling great, the girls were telling me I was confident as fuck, and I sure felt like it. Going to hit it even harder now that I've found some pickup buddies. That lay is coming any day now. Next time I post here it'll be either a lay report or an actual date. Love you all, peace out.
Okay guys, I lied, just wanted to check back in and write about what I'm going through rn. It's been an unbelievable couple of weeks. I've got 2 dates lined up on Thursday and Friday, I'm hitting the streets every day and trying to get a couple more for the weekend too. I'm getting numbers left and right to the point I'm mixing girls up and texting them the wrong stuff. Today I truly experienced what it is like when a girl is down, I talked to her for less than 2 minutes, got her number, the texting part was all logistics, no resistance whatsoever, she's an 8/9, hottie, I still can't believe how easily it happened (see attached).
Aside from that, our pickup circle is getting bigger, now there are 8 of us, and 6 of us actively game together. I've really put in the work, and I can't thank this program enough for pushing me to where I am, the other guys all have some anxiety and hesitate a lot, and I just go go go, we'd be walking together and I'll be gone for a few minutes and come back with a number, they'd even watch me game and get numbers. If they don't approach a girl, I'll go, a guy dared me to approach a black girl (I told him I'm scared of them), I did, got her insta. It's funny, guys will see you killing it and get jealous, then try to laugh at you like "oh look, he's so aggressive, haha", almost everyone has said I'm too aggressive (Honestly, it's not aggressive, I just go head-on, stand in front of the girl and say "hey, you're cute, I'm James", put out my hand, the other guys like to wait till the girls walk by, go up from behind, "calibrate", then say some semi-direct opener), I briefly explained to them that the girls who are not down are only going to waste your time if you don't filter them out by being aggressive, but I'm not trying to change anyone's mind, the results will speak for themselves, I'm cycling through waaaay more chicks than them. Through it all, I kind of gain their respect and they all kinda want to game with me, it feels good to be recognized for your effort and hard work, and I'll continue to do good and inspire the people around me.
Do you just ask the questions right away after the girl answers with the time? After giving time a lot of girls just start turning away and walking after I say thanks.
Yeah, why not, if you're not used to it just go on to the next girl, I used to just say "hey, do you know where xxx is" even when they tried to leave after time, and they'd almost always stop and tell me.
can you give some examples of places you asked for directions where you can follow up with have you been there?
Yeah, I might've mentioned it in the logs, I'd walk around a mall in a circle and ask for directions to restaurants or random places like "bath & body works", it doesn't matter, restaurants are easier I guess, especially when you need an opinion like "do you like it", the weirder the place, the more social freedom you gain.
Yeah I never liked the whole u-turn approach either. It seemed to work more often though in getting the girl's attention. But I preferred the front stop regardless. Sounds like you are the alpha of the group with your 'aggression!' That won't be without its perks.
Yes, my brothers, I did it, after one month of proper cold approaching, hundreds of approaches, I fucking did it.
So here's the full story. I was gaming on the street with the boys, they were chatting and I was just approaching like crazy. Saw this cute chick crossing the road, stopped her, not sure what I said exactly but it was like 30 seconds in, I got her number, stayed in for a bit after and the whole convo was less than 2 minutes. I posted the text in the last post. Fast forward, we met up today for a drink, I grabbed her hand to cross the street and she pulled it back after like 5 seconds, tried a couple of times, same thing, she didn't give me much. Then she sat like hella far from me when we were sitting at the table, I was like shit, how am I supposed to kino her from here. I kinda just leaned back and chilled, kept the conversation going, we shared similar backgrounds so the connection was good. A few sips in I was getting loose, i stretched my leg out so that my calf was just rubbing against hers, I'd bump into her or give her a playful kick every time I teased her, but overall not much kino. We finished the drinks, I suggested that we take a walk, I put my arm around her shoulders, and she took my hand, I was like "let's go to my place drink some wine and watch Key & Peele" (I seeded that during the drinks, we both liked Key & Peele), she was down, so off we went.
Got back to my place, I poured her some wine, put the TV on, 20 seconds in and I was rubbing her hand, then I went for the kiss, and she immediately hopped on top of me and started devouring me, I undid the bra and was kissing her breasts, then I lifted her up and walked to my room and threw her on my bed. She gave some minor resistance, "not tonight, okay?", I was like "yeah, okay", and kept going, repeated a few times, eventually got her pants off, started eating her out, and pulled my dick out going straight in, raw dog. Now here's where it got interesting. or weird. She bit my lip and I think I was bleeding a little, and she also wanted me to bite her on the neck, and told me to give her a hickey. Freaky, I kinda liked it though. She wrapped her legs around mine so I just had the tip in and couldn't move fast, and that went on for like fucking 10 minutes, I was getting frustrated and was like "girl, you need to stop teasing me". she said "I'm not teasing you", and turned out she just liked it slow, and by that i mean SLOW, if I went fast or deep she'd push me back and I’d have to reengage. I tried the aggressive shit, like shoving it in, but she only liked it slow. It was this back and forth for like 45 minutes, and finally I was like “can I go fast”, she said “yeah”, so I went full thrust and blew a huge load on her belly. She loved it. Afterwards we took a shower together, I took her to get some food and drove her home. Now she’s trying hard not to seem too eager but she totally wants to hang out again. I’ll keep her around, she’s half white, half Arab, 21, kinda hot, 8 out of 10, and we’ve got a connection going.
I feel fantastic right now, all my hard work has finally paid off. Started off 2021 with a bang! Have another date tomorrow, that one’s probably even easier to pull, we’ll see.
k, as expected, I pulled my date tonight. She's half Italian half Iranian, 31, classy-looking lady, an 8. Totally different type from the girl from yesterday.
I opened her at night, some dudes were standing by, staring at me and they were just stunned, she was easy to talk to, got her number, and I could tell she was DOWN from the way she texted me.
we met, hugged, started walking in the direction of the date spot. 20 seconds in I was holding her hand, and she didn't pull back at all, we walked for a good 3 minutes holding hands. I was like this is so easy, exactly what I expected, so I was trying to push the envelope, I suggested that we go back to my place and watch "queen's gambet" and get free wine at home. She was a bit flustered, pulled her hand back, and said "oh, we're already here, let's just get a drink", I immediately saved the situation and took her inside. I gave it a good 10 minutes or so till we got our drinks, then I started doing heavy kino on her, grabbed her hand, played with her fingers, held the hand there, you know, kinda like the stuff that Chris would do in his videos. She was totally okay with it, and I threw in a bit of leg rubbing as well. Same thing as yesterday, I went to the same place, same exact seats, same drinks, and the waitress definitely recognized me, I felt like a player. My pull line was "let's go to my place, I'll let you listen to the music I wrote" (yeah, I actually wrote some music, pretty good).
Back to my place, TV on, let her listen to my music, made tea, started kissing her, quickly unbuckled her bra, she was like "wow, slow down", so we went on to the couch, restart, kissing, undoing bra, kissing breasts, lifted her up and tossed her on my bed, same spiel. She gave quite a lot of resistance, and I was just doing everything by the textbook "yes, you're right", "it's okay", and reengage. Took me about 5-10 minutes to get her pants off. Then she was like "this is too quick", put her bra back on and we sat on the couch, watched TV, I told her about my "public, risky sex kink", and we talked about the craziest places we've had sex at, all sorts of things about sex. Then I restart the kino, scooped her up and threw her in bed again, this time I went down on her, and she was loving it, and off we went. I was trying to raw dog her, but she's like "do you have a condom", so I put it on, oh boy that changed the game, I wasn't feeling it, couldn't maintain my hard-on, and was humping her with a limpy for 10-20 minutes, then I fingered her and ate her out hardcore. She seemed to like it though, idk. Then I was like "let's take a break", and I bailed, it kinda got awkward after that, for me at least. We put on our clothes quickly and I drove her home.
I don't plan to see her again, she just wasn't turning me on that much even though she was cute. Idk, or it could just be I wasn't digging the condom. I get a raging boner just thinking about the girl from yesterday, I'm going to fuck her silly in a fitting room in a mall next time we meet.
Back to back cold approach lays, I'm feeling like a king, 2 days into this year and I already have 2 lays, this is going to be a crazy year for me. let's go baby!
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