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jc127 wrote: A side note, style is very important. I got in my night out attire, tailor-fit shirt and pants, nice boots. I definitely had the momentum going and was therefore more assertive, but I think my style could be what made the difference.
Seriously true dude!
Also, that's awesome you got a surfboard! I really miss being on the coast. Def enjoy it.
We are going to play a game. It's called - WHO IS YOUR DADDY AND WHAT DOES HE DO? READY? WHO IS YOUR DADDY AND WHAT DOES HE DO? 10 girls.
I've gone out for the past 3 days and tried to do this drill, man, I couldn't get myself do it. I only did it once and as soon as said "who's your daddy and what does he do", the girl said "bye" and took off. I'm trying to find the best place to do it, where people are not in a hurry to leave. Summer is almost gone and the day is getting shorter, when it gets dark, doing this shit is just creepy. FUCK, this is hard.
Aside from the drill, I've been having random chats with people while I'm surfing. This past weekend, I was chatting/flirting with a lot of girls at the beach. One particular group of 4-5 surfer girls, all friends with each other, I had a bit banter with every one of them, they liked it. I was going to ask one of the girls out and only to find out she was visiting from DC. Still need bigger balls to ask for phone numbers and taking things further than small talk.
It got the best of of me and every now and then since I quite the AA program it has been on my mind.
But YOU can do it. You've already attempted it. I remember someone here telling me to just keep trying it on girls and eventually you will find someone who doesn't suck. Someone who is down for a bit of fun. Forget about the negative ones and just move on.
Yes, ideally you will want stationary girls who obviously aren't in a hurry. Go to a park when the sun is out and you will often find a pair of chicks, sitting down, talking gossip.
161/160 cold approaches
Approach in the gym
Cold approach lays (2/2)
You could build up to it. Like 5 one day then 7 then 10.
Look for girls that walk SLOWLY they will stay and hear what you have to say. Girls on their phone will run. It's a common tell when people are by themselves and see strangers they pull their phone out if they are stressed. I swear everyone does it. Worst case scenario you come back to day 26 drill. But remember you get stronger once you push through it. Good luck
Till the end of 2020
Work around lockdown and bang my apt neighbor
get a sales job either locally or out of state in Texas
Finish my shit and do the best I can in No Nut NOvember
Thanks, @Eames and @JacobPalmer123. That was the bit of encouragement I needed. Went out and did a few more today, I've got 2 left and it got dark out so I'm going to finish the rest tomorrow.
FUCK! This was some next level shit. Some of them looked at me like I was the creepiest weirdo in the world. I mostly went for stationary girls, the ones that were moving never stopped after they heard the question. Most of them didn't know what the hell was going on, a couple of them basically, as I did, had to suffer through the repetitive questions. 4-5 relatively receptive ones, they were genuinely trying to understand how the game was played, and I just followed it up with "my disappointment is immense" after they failed to give an answer. One set of 2 girls were terrified, they were like "please leave us alone". Another set of 2 girls laughed out loud and gave me real answers, "Harry Styles" and "Josh" something, one of them even snapped it.
In hindsight, the girls who never spared me a second or gave me shit responses gave off a dismal vibe and their lives probably sucked too, so the screening is working out as expected.
Tap on shoulder, Hey/Bro - I have a question... Leave
Tap on shoulder, Hey/Bro - I have a question... Where's the beach?, Leave
Tap on shoulder, Hey/Bro - I have a question... Where's the beach?, (Start Flexing your muscles in all directions for 5 seconds), Leave
Tap on shoulder, Hey /Bro - I have a question... Where's the beach?, (Start Flexing your muscles in all directions for 10 seconds), Leave
Not an easy one for me, took me a couple of days, many hours (5 maybe) to finish. Not sure if the drills are getting harder or I'm getting weaker, maybe both.
I don't really go in the specified order when I do these drills. I like to gauge the girl's reaction and receptivity, do each part with a short pause after, and then decide if I should go on and do the next part. This way I'm not missing out on receptive girls and forcing the question and flexing on the shitty audience.
Surprisingly, flexing was not the hard part, going up to people and tapping then on the shoulders was more difficult. I startled a lot of them because I'd approach from the side, behind or when I'm about to pass them and then quickly tap on their shoulders. I'd say no negative/crazy reactions, mostly just awkward, they'd say "cool", "nice" with an awkward smile, and then look at each other. It's like a joke with a ton of buildup, but no punchline. I approached a group of about 10 girls, flexed, and it was just silence, crows flying by. A few of them found it amusing, most of them didn't know what I meant (or rather, what my intentions were).
Girls look for the intentions behind your words, "Where is the beach", "who's your daddy and what does he do", "what was for lunch" are all straight forward questions, but a lot of them answered "what do you mean", "I don't know", "what?". I'm so tired of these drills, I want to get to the part where I get to show my intent and talk about her and us.
Tap on shoulder, Hey - I have a question, Leave.
Tap on shoulder, Hey - I have a question, Do you know where I can get nerd glasses?, Leave
Tap on shoulder, Hey - I have a question, Do you know where I can get nerd glasses?, How cool are nerd glasses?, Leave
Tap on shoulder, Hey - I have a question, Do you know where I can get nerd glasses?, How cool are nerd glasses?, Pretty fuckin cool huh?, Leave
Challenge: Approach an additional 5th girl and ask "would you fuck me if I had nerd glasses?"
I think I got blisters on my feet from walking too long in my stupid fancy boots. It took me 4-5 hours again. Touching people these days is TOUGH. Multiple girls backed up when they saw me reaching over to touch them, one said "you shouldn't touch people during COVID", I've only successfully touched people from the side and behind. But I loved this drill, it's the fucking shit.
I tried to go as far as I could in every set, ended up doing the challenge 10-11 times. “Would you fuck me if I had nerd glasses” is the epitome of confidence, the girls' eyes lit up when I said it. Answers varied, "No", "Hmm...No", "Sorry, not interested", "Where is the camera?", "Maybe", "Probably, if I get to know you". I have some standard phrases/comebacks when girls are giving me shit. One of them is "I love you, too", if the responses are positive, it's fitting, when they say no, it's pretty funny, most of them chuckled.
There was this 10/10 sizzling hot babe in a tight pink dress walking with her friend across the street from me. The guys at the traffic light turned their heads and were like "shit, look at that", guys on the sidewalk were all looking at her. I said fuck it, this is what we do this program for, watch this you pussies. I crossed the street, went up from behind and tapped her on the shoulder, very soft skin. Turned out she was very nice and smiley, and I was even more confident than usual. “Would you fuck me if I had nerd glasses”, she thought for a second and responded "probably not, but it would help", I don't care, that to me was a yes in disguise, she was being playful. "I love you, too", as I walked off and feeling like I owned the whole damn street. After that set, I thought of another response for when girls say no, "I'll take that as a yes". Had I said that and followed it up with "so what's your number", I probably would've gotten her digits, who knows.
My last set, two Asian chicks, I didn't even get to the end, and one chick was like "Are we on camera? Are you single or something? Cuz my girl here is looking for a man", they weren't even paying attention to the question and I didn't even have to deliver the bomb, I smiled and started walking away, and she was yelling "Come back! What's your number?!", too bad I wasn't into either of them.
As long as it took me to do this drill, I fucking loved it, I'll definitely incorporate "Would you fuck me if XXX" in my future convos, it's fucking savage.
On a side note, I really missed the clubs and wish I could do the club drills. I've necked and made out with girls in the clubs within 30 seconds of meeting them. Squeezing girls on the arms and telling them they are "cute" is definitely right up my alley. Funny enough, I'm more at ease when I'm actually showing intent than doing some gimmicky nonsense. This program is going to take my night game to a whole new level, I can't wait for COVID to be over and go field test it.
Stories like these are great to look back on when you're older I would imagine. Fun times!
I mean look at all this funny stuff you've been doing just by this one drill; walking up to that sizzling babe while everyone else was drooling. And having a chick calling you out wanting your number. That's crazy, man!
I seems like you are killing it at the moment - keep it up!
Looking forward to read about your further mischiefs
161/160 cold approaches
Approach in the gym
Cold approach lays (2/2)
Skipping Day 29 (Physical drill), Day 30 (Club drill).
I've been slacking off for the past couple of weeks, days are getting shorter and the weather is getting colder, work has also been hectic, generally just not in a great state, but I'm going to try my best to get back out there and finish this thing off.
1. Which single drill was the hardest for you?
Day 26 (Who's your daddy and what does he do?). Absolutely horrific, I might go back and do this one again.
2. How are things going so far?
I have no qualms about talking to strangers, asking them questions nowadays, and I genuinely feel cooler than most people I'm speaking to, I dictate when the conversation start and end, and I know they feel the same way too. I do still fear approaching in front of a lot of people and attracting attention, I'd be okay going up to a girl and express my interest in her, but would feel fake and ingenuine to beat around the bush and ask some useless questions (Time, for example). If I see a guy going up to a girl and say "hey, you're cute/cool/whatever, I'd like to meet you", I'd have tremendous respect for that guy. Versus someone who asks "hey, you know what time it is? BTW, I like your hat, blah blah blah", I'd be thinking "what a joke, beta nice guy". And that's where I'm at right now, trying to get through these drills not knowing what the point of it all is (Rather, I know the point, but I can do more direct stuff without all this nonsense).
3. How does the future look?
The future is always bright, I have no doubt that I'm going to get through this program victoriously, getting the girls I want and living my best life.
Time, Directions, Leave.
Time, Directions, Non-Sexual Compliment (I like your shoes/shirt), Leave.
Challenge 4th Girl: Time, Non-Sexual Compliment, Directions, Non-Sexual Compliment (I like your shoes/shirt), Leave.
I sort of mixed this drill into my daily life, whenever the chance presents itself I'd go for it. Did it over the span of 3 days. Same spiel, trying to go as far as I could on every approach. The drill itself is very easy, but it's actually difficult to find girls that are compliment worthy. A few times, I'd walk up to the girls and just can't find anything I could compliment them on, and ended up walking away. Complimenting girls on what they obviously have put effort into and they’ll appreciate you, complimenting them on some bullshit stuff and they’ll brush it off like it was never said.
I saw 2 girls high fiving each other, and as we were crossing paths, I high fived both of them, no words were exchanged, pretty cool. Theses day, I can truly appreciate girls that are lighthearted and know how to have fun.
Directions, Hopefully I can get there I just fell down a few minutes ago, Leave
Directions, Hopefully I can get there I just fell down a few minutes ago, Non-Sexual Compliment, Leave
Directions, Hopefully I can get there I just fell down a few minutes ago, Non-Sexual Compliment, I need to be a little more careful, Leave
16 girls, skipped the challenge.
Easy drill, most girls were very helpful, no weirdos, a couple of them looked up the directions on their phones for me. I have a very short memory these days, the drills and reactions don’t impress me that much anymore, it's been only 2 hours since I finished the drill and I have to think really hard to recall the specific sets.
At this point (Almost 2 months in), I've probably approached around 400 girls/sets, and I could spot the girls that are likely to be receptive and down to talk (especially the ones that put a lot of effort into making themselves look attractive), and the little things they do subconsciously to signal their interest, walking/standing close to you and grooming their hair (I could almost time when they're going to do it as we're walking towards each other). It definitely feeds my ego and I enjoy every bit of it.
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