TOPIC: quick update

Day 4, took me an hour!

Today's mission was to approach 5 girls and ask for the time. I went out for a walk after dinner, and for half an hour I couldn't get myself to approach anyone, it was frustrating, there was a good 8 to 10 girls I could've talked to and I didn't.

It was getting really late, and I told myself "you're not going home until you do this". Then I saw a guy standing by his car, I spat out the words "excuse me" before my conscious mind could stop me, "do you know what time it is?" I asked, "9:03" he responded, I thanked him and we parted ways. In the next half an hour or so, I sort of got on a roll and asked 3 girls and 3 guys for the time, it was 9:40 pm then and there were almost no girls around, my legs were getting tired, so I came home.

Most of the responses were just the plain and basic time, one guy was standing outside a pub and he was reluctant to talk to me, I asked him maybe 4-5 times and gestured a ticking clock, and eventually he showed me his phone.

Bear in mind that for the whole time I had my watch on my wrist, clearly visible, and nobody seemed to noticed or cared. It's all a bunch of noise/excuses we make up in our minds.

I consider this 60% done because the mission was to ask 5 GIRLS for the time, I will finish up the other 2 and maybe add a couple more in the morning. And then continue my day 5 mission after work.

Thanks for reading, I feel great!

Today’s mission was to ask 5 girls for the time, then 5 more girls but faster. Yesterday was a struggle for me to find girls, and I ended up talking to a few guys. Today I decided to go somewhere more public and stick to females strictly.

I first went to Dick’s, asked 2 girls for the time to complete yesterday’s mission, took quite a while (20 minutes maybe? Though, I was shopping in the interim). Felt like everyone in the store had seen me, so I got out and walked into Stop & Shop, quickly approached 3 girls in about 10 minutes, and then drove to a plaza, and did the other 2, total 5 approaches took about 15 minutes. Not bad.

The plaza was filled to the brim with people, I basically circled the place once, and did 5 approaches in 7 minutes, awesome!

I did chicken out on 2 sets though, one of them was a big group of 5-6 young girls, dressed all sexy and stuff, and I was sort of intimidated. Another set, only 2 girls but there were a lot of people around, and stopping them would’ve felt like I was blatantly hitting on them, albeit that’s where we want to get to, I just need a bit more time.

I could definitely have sped it up and finished it in 3-5 minutes, but overall I’m happy with my progress.

As usual, thanks for reading, see you all tomorrow!

Great day, it's been hours and I'm still ecstatic. I had been feeling nervous and even a bit sick at work when I was thinking about doing today's drill. But there was not a doubt in my mind that I was going to do it.

Today's drill was to ask for the time, then time + direction, and then time + direction + have you been there. 5 rounds, 15 girls in total.

I went straight to the plaza where the people were. As soon as I parked my car, I saw a girl standing next to her car, and I asked away. Kinda weird if you think about it, just got out of the car, obviously I knew the time, but stuff like this goes right over people's head, besides I've been wearing my watch every day when I do these drills.

I was asking for directions to places in the same direction I'm walking, so I could just circle the plaza. Did 3 circles, took me 30 minutes. And today I was mostly focusing on girls that I would bang, like cute ones I would normally be terrified to approach. The sets were mixed, a couple of groups, 2 girls, girl alone, girls in the car, mom & daughter, boyfriend & girlfriend. I only let one girl that I found attractive pass because as I was about to approach her, another girl I had just talked to walked near us. Oh, and I think I approached one girl twice, didn't care though, and she gave the time twice.

I did have to take a 3-minute break after the first 3 rounds, feeling super weird, and saying to myself "why are you doing this, this is fucking weird".

I know it hasn't been long, but I'm starting to sense a pattern that I heard a lot about: The hot girls will be cold off the bat, but they're actually friendly if they know you are not trying to take anything from them; most girls would be neutral, I'd say 9-10 of them were neutral (straight answers, not showing much emotion), 4-5 that kind of liked me (very friendly and smiley, and were not in a rush to end the conversation), and 1 was a bit weird (or weirded out by me, it was a mom & daughter set and they never fully stopped and was walking away when I said "have you been there"). One girl was hella cute, wearing a black low-cut V neck T-shirt, her bosom was staring straight at my face, and I could tell she was into me, I almost let out a compliment, but I remembered I needed to stick to the drill, fuck!

A few minutes after the drills, my mind started to settle down, and I realized I had done what most men couldn't do in their whole lives, I felt like Corner Mcgregor with his double world champion belts on. My body language changed as well, I was very relaxed, open, smiling at people, making strong eye contact. I went to get food after and there were 2 chicks that were just eyeing me up and down and sneaking a few peeks here and there.

Awesome day, thanks for reading, see you tomorrow!

Same drill as yesterday. Weather was cloudy and there were not a lot of people, so I basically had to chase people down when I saw good targets, I also went up to 3 cars and made them roll down the window so I could talk to them.

I was very relaxed today, almost felt lazy, talked and walked slower, and paid more attention to people's body language and facial expressions. One thing I noticed, younger girls were more receptive to my approaches and questions, the older ones were looking at me weirdly, some glanced at my watch. I did feel like a big loser walking around asking stupid questions, doing the same drill got boring too. But I did it, just need to trust the process.

Proud of myself, back at it again tomorrow!

Day 8, time, ... + direction, ... + have you been there, ... + did you like it, 4 rounds 16 girls.

Got off to a very slow start, I had to go sit in my car to reset after the first round, felt weird and creepy. Then I went out and slayed the drill, took me about an hour and I ended up talking to 20+ girls just because I was in the flow. Only talked to the hot girls, like 8/10 at least, and my questions were pretty well-received, everyone seemed friendly.

I approached a couple of big groups, and as I was walking away, I could hear this long period of silence, like everyone was still processing what had just happened, and then I'd hear them giggling. It's a great feeling, girls' giggles are one of the best things about them.

Have a date tomorrow with my crush for 6 years, going to do tomorrow's drill in the morning to get myself in a social mood first, wish me luck. See you all tomorrow.

Good stuff man! Have fun on the date

Time, ... + have you eaten at XXX, ... + did you like it. 5 rounds 15 girls.

Had a tough time doing today's drill, 2 hours to be precise. I still need to be more outcome independent, only a few (2-3) positive/friendly responses. Approached 3 sets of guy + girl(s), and the girls all turned to the guy when I asked the questions. One girl rolled up her window after I asked her the time from outside the car. I don't believe I was giving off mad creepy vibe, maybe it was just a bad day.

Oh, and my date flaked on me, I called her last night to confirm the date, she didn't pick up, and this morning she sent me a text saying she was asleep and needed to work today blah blah blah, I didn't even bother texting back. We've known each other for 6 years and she still flaked on me, girls are really no different.

Hopefully, tomorrow will be better, but most importantly, I executed.

time, ... + is there any (drive-in, because of COVID) movie theater around here, ... + have you seen any good movies lately. 5 rounds, 15 girls.

The drill itself isn't hard, but it took me 2 hours to find 15 attractive girls to ask these questions. Getting mostly friendly responses, I could tell some of them wanted to continue talking, could see how this will naturally evolve into a conversation.

2 things I've changed: One, I put on a nice workout tank top so my muscles are visible, kinda whorey actually, as my friend would describe. Two, instead of saying "excuse me", I just threw out a "hey", and then "quick question" to set a time constraint, more of the CEO/player mindset if you will.

Honestly, approaching girls isn't that difficult, the hardest part is finding attractive girls to approach and approaching in front of groups of people and risking looking like a creep/weirdo.

I'm starting to see how blogging could be helpful, it forces me to reflect on my interactions, and I would write down things that I did right or wrong so I could remember them the next time I go out.

Keep it up mate.

Time, ... + do you know anywhere that sells cell phone, ... + what phone do you have, ... + do you like it. 5 rounds, 20 girls.

Honestly, I was scared to do today's drill, but it turned out to be my best day yet. Approached 20+ girls, all positive responses. Once I approached the first one I was in the groove, felt very loose and spontaneous. It really shows somehow and girls can pick up your vibe. There was only one girl (with her boyfriend) who didn't stop, everyone else came to a full stop and was very helpful and friendly. A few girls even asked me if I needed to use a phone and offered to let me use their phones.

There were 2 girls sitting on the patio outside the ice cream shop amongst a crowd of people, I've always had a fear of approaching girls with people watching, I walked past them a couple of times, but you guessed it, I came back and talked to them, everyone was watching me, it went smoothly and it genuinely made me feel cooler than everybody.

Excited about tomorrow's drill, finally some interesting questions.

Time, … + do you know where I can get nice candles, … + I’m planning a candlelit dinner for my girlfriend, … + I’m the sweetest guy ever. 4 rounds, 16 girls.

Went pretty well, all good responses. Candles have a special place in girls’ hearts (or I’m just getting really good at this), they were all VERY helpful, telling me "good luck", "aww I’m sorry" when I said the store was closed. 2 girls even came around and told me where they saw candles after I had asked them earlier. I got bored and switched it to “I’m planning a candlelit dinner for my side chick”, a few girls were digging it, got some laughs.

Girls are starting to laugh about random stuff I say. I walked by a set I had opened earlier, told them I didn't find any candles, I'm just gonna go walk around, and they were laughing about that. The girls that came by and told me where they had seen candles were laughing when I said "you went and looked just for me?".

This is getting really easy, I'm ready to level it up.

Good job dude. This is definitely the fun time. Enjoy it while it lasts. The summer I did the AA program is one I'll never forget