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So I have been breaking out of my shell and approaching more but almost all hot girls I have approached in recent weeks have been white, usually blonde. Now I feel so much more at ease approaching a hot white girl or a hot black girl. In some ways I am lucky given that the wealthier areas of Manhattan (and most of the US thankfully) have a very high white population.
Throughout my life, I had great experiences with white women and black women. I kind of felt like they were big sisters to me in some ways but also saw me as an exotic guy they were curious about (I am brown). Naturally, whether it is me at bars/nightclubs before lockdowns or me out during the day, I felt more at ease approaching them. The other thing is that cool high value brown dudes I knew had no issues getting hot white girls or hot black girls, never known one who piped up hot latin and exotic looking women (outside of indian girls).
To top it off, most of my matches on dating apps (I've had over a 100) are white girls followed by South Asian women (since that is my background).
The thing is, I am more into women people would call exotic. I like the tanned Latin chick with dark hair, Mediterranean looking woman, or a hot Persian chick. Think Kim K, Jenner twins, Gal Gadot, and Salma Hayek. Sexually, that is what gets me going.
Throughout my life I have had horrible experiences with them, found them to be more rude towards me, dismissive of me, and more than a handful of times put me down. I am in this terrible dilemma where I am sexually attracted to that look but women of those cultures and backgrounds with that look strong prefer a Bad Idea Bear or Andy lookalike, even more so than a white woman would.
Is there any recovering from this mental roadblock?
For some reason its weird because if a hot blonde rejects me, I can laugh it off. If a hot Arab chick does it for example, I cannot.
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Paralyzing AA towards hot girls of certain cultures that I am attracted to.
23 Jul 2020 04:09 #330468
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