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How get rid of extreme aa in front of people 25 Jun 2020 12:35 #330067

Hi!

I can only approach people when no one else is watching or hearing.

I can take the metro or go shopping or do my everyday business without problems, even took publice speeches in class, its only when i do things like this as is not normal, or "accepted" or whatever that the anxiety kicks in and prevention me from doing it.

I have gone out in the last 2 days and asked people for time, i focus mostly on hot girls, but i’ve tried any kind of person (guys also).

I can ask girls for time when no one else is watching or hearing.

Ex; girl sits alone with no people in earshot, i can go to her and ask her for the time, no problem. Even if she is hot i usually can do it.

I can't do it if other watching. Seriously i just wont do it, my brain refuse to do it.

One other thing is that the girl must be in my way, if you understand. Like i walking on a street and the girl must be somewhat close (max 1 meter from me) i will not take a big turn of the way to go and talk to her, that feels so weird especially when other people see it.

This is my blockages. I know this sounds like social anxiety, but as i said in the beginning, i can do all "normal society" things because then i blend in in the crowd.

So; How can i approach girls in public when other people are near? Because right now the approach anxiety program takes me hours just to finnish one set

This is my aa-thread;
www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/beat-app...one-here-we-go-again

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How get rid of extreme aa in front of people 26 Jun 2020 03:11 #330077

The same way you fix all AA - by doing it.

Go do it 50 times in front of people and you won't care so much.
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How get rid of extreme aa in front of people 26 Jun 2020 05:22 #330079

For one thing, you need to GET IN THERE before the AA flares up: before you notice there's someone there, that it's "weird" your taking a big turn to go talk to a girl etc.

For another thing, if it's "normal" stuff that is fine for you, you can increase your social freedom in other ways in addition to the AA program (walk backwards on a street, wear a suit to a dive bar, jog without a shirt on if it's legal (not in France apparently; it's "normal" in the US but it still feels quite immodest due to my upbringing, etc.)

Third, doing the drill on the very 1st girl you see helps massively.

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