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Alright, I've already said more than I need to in my introduction so I'm ready to it. As of right now I'm starting the AA program seriously. I completed the first week of AA drills a couple weeks ago to get a feel for it, but didn't go further. I'm starting over from day 2 now, this time with an account, journal, online dating profile, and some real accountability. Thanks to doing them before, today's drills really were not hard, with a sense of 'I've done this before' that I'll hopefully have towards hitting on girls after this program.
-Completed the day 5 drills, approached 15 girls.
-Completed the day 6 drills, approached 15 girls.
Today I went out and did the day 5 drills. I was pretty comfortable while doing it but there were not a lot of girls around when I tried to do it faster so I did an extra 5. I took a break for a while and decided to move on to the next drill today since the first one went way faster than I expected. Ended up approaching a total of 30 girls today which is blowing my mind in hindsight since I've never done anything close to that before. Walked back home really feeling the social momentum from executing so many drills, it kind of feels like a runners high. One thing I did notice was that I was way less comfortable approaching girls when there were a lot of people around. Not when the girls are in a group, but when there are other bystanders around. Not sure why, but it I am much more nervous when I feel like random strangers are watching what I am doing and judging me. Going to have to be very deliberate on getting in there immediately regardless of who is around tomorrow.
-Completed the day 7 drills, approached 15 girls.
Did the drills as instructed today, and I'm fairly satisfied with how I did. I could have done a bit better about just getting in there on some of them, but on the whole I didn't really experience much anxiety after talking to the first girl. It was actually kind of boring and methodical at times. I've already noticed massive improvement and it definitely stems from repeating week 1. Now that I've done day s 4 through 7 twice I feel I have a strong foundation and am actually excited to take it to the next level.
In other news, so far Tinder and OkCupid have resulted in nothing except 1 match who never replied. Earlier this week however I got a girls number from my class and got coffee with her today. She's interested in a second date so things are looking pretty good. However it plays out, experience is experience, so at least I'm getting more of that. Week 2 here we go!
-Completed the day 8 drills, approached 20 girls.
Today was a grind. Not a lot of girls out so I had to do a ton of laps just to find one. Didn't do perfectly on just getting in there so I will probably repeat this drill. Had to repeat the last drill in the set several times when the girl hadn't been there, so I ended up approaching more girls than the minimum. The "do you like it" part was super awkward, but by the end I was so sick of doing laps and drills I just stopped giving a fuck about the interactions making any sense. At least it's progress.
-Completed the day 9 drills, approached 15 girls.
Another grind today, but better than yesterday. Did better at just getting in there, even though there were not many girls out. My first set had negative reactions from girls just blowing my approach off. I'm actually kinda happy about that since I didn't lose steam and wasn't as bothered by it as I imagined. But hey, not that important, I did the drills and I'm happy with my execution today. This was despite my anxiety raging the whole time, sweaty palms and shaking the whole way. At least I'm still moving forward.
Day 8 (again):
-Repeated day 8 drills, approached 16 girls.
Although I completed the day 8 drills, I didn't really fulfill the spirit of 'getting the fuck in there' when I did it and let too many girls slip by. Today I actually got in there without letting girls pass by and got the drill done way faster. It helped that it was a busier day out. Now that the drill has been done to standard I feel ready to tackle level 2.
-Completed the day 10 drills, approached 15 girls.
-Completed the day 11 drills, approached 20 girls.
Completed two sets of drills today since I had the time and there were a lot of girls out. Ended up talking to 35+ girls (some ran off before I could finish all the questions haha). Felt very little anxiety as I built momentum and it actually started to be a little fun as it went. I also didn't pussy out as much and did a better job getting in there. Still, not perfect though since I'm still finding I hesitate when the area is super crowded however. The idea of other people watching me approach girls is somehow more intimidating than the actual approach. Still got a long way to go.
-Did 1 set of the day 12 drills, approached 4 girls.
Took a half day today. Not enough girls out to complete the drills. In part this was because I went out to coffee with a girl I whose number I got the other day and didn't get started till later. Will finish the rest tomorrow.
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