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Yo! Today marked the start of the Approach Anxiety Program for me. I went to a big mall in a large city about 100 miles from where I live. By the way, I live in a city of only about 12,000 people so it's pretty hard to do anything here. But I can't go down to the city every day. So I think I will try to improvise somehow.
**Anyways, I started with Day 4.. the first day of actual approaches. I will be doing Online Dating while I go along, but I have to get some pics first... may hire a photographer to take them. Btw, I am 46 years old so I'm on the older side but I think I look younger than my age, and I've had people say I look about 10 years younger.
... I did 5 approaches at the mall, asking for the time. I had actually gone there thinking I might be able to do some full approaches but, after walking around for about 2 hours and not being able to bring myself to approach anyone, I decided I need to start doing the AA Program.
Everything went really well... to my surprise, it was actually kinda fun and exhilerating. Pretty much all 5 were really nice. I even stopped a couple girls who were walking pretty fast. One girl looked at her phone and said "It's 17:05" (military time) lol..
I have done a few full approaches and I got the same type of feeling with these little drills. The initial intense anxiety actually turns into exhileration when you actually start talking to the girl.
I also learned something today: I felt more comfortable with each approach, as I built up "social momentum". The last approach was like 100% easier than the first, and I can already feel the effects on my psychology.
Thanks Andy. I've never actually used Tinder, and I hear they have an age limit of <30 for younger girls (18-21)? I will give it a try, though. What's your take on age in the Online world? I'm thinking I am going to list myself as being 36...reasoning is that a lot of girls probably will be thinking about it logically and pass because of the age difference. I don't think age really matters much to girls in person, as girls go off of how they feel when they're around you, anyways.
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