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I got laid today off tinder. First post gll lay, felt awesome to break the barrier.
As far as AA- i havent been drilling lately but im happy to report that my AA is conquered. I went to the mall to get groceries yesterday and challenged myself to make an approach. Was able to do so with very little nerves and no warm up or deliberation. The key now continues to just be constiancy and maximising my looks.
Cheers boys- ill continue to check back in with my future successes.
@radical at this point i think the only thing left for me is to lose weight. Im always told my hair is my best feature, and style is good bc i actually have quite an interest in clothing/style so im up to date.
Went to the mall today to do groceries and make an approach. Middle of the day on a work day so not alot of opportunities on offer. I did a lap of the mall and came across one girl who was hot, my age and also in an approachable setting. Success! No number (said shes not from here just visiting family) but success bc i pulled the trigger w/o warm up. Mind u this shit is easy in a city for me, but in my hometown i used to struggle for some reason. Anyways im gonna continue doing this a couple times a week until its second nature.
Was only able to get one approach done bc i had a trainer appointment to get to and not a lot of girls on offer today- but im glad i pulled the trigger w little anxiety once engaged. Afterwards i had momentum to where i was praying to run into more hotties to approach- felt like i WANTED to approach instead of HAVE TO which is how i started. Felt awesome. Will report back next time im out, cya then boys.
Been well, no more lays at this point but have had online dating success, as well as success approaches, and have been busy working and getting in shape.
My question- how is everyone handling approaching during corona virus? Im not sure if this has been answered on other threads, but in my country we're not allowed to leave the house unless its essential- or else risk fines. Is everyone still approaching during these times regardless? Its been on my mind to do so, but I keep thinking its not going to lead anywhere because- A) the girl won't wanna shake my hand, B ) there won't be any girls to approach at the mall, C) if I do successfully get the number, I have no where to take the girl on a date because everything is closed.
Im thinking about just keeping approaching on the back burner until it blows over. Do you guys agree? Or am I just being a diversionary pussy? let me know what you think!
One of my clients is still approaching - just without shaking hands, and keeping a 2ft distance. I've gotten laid with 3 new girls the last 2 weeks (from Tinder), and seeing a 4th girl tomorrow.
You do what's best for you. If it was me, I'd still be approaching - if a police officer said "Why are you talking to that girl?" I'd make up some bullshit like, "I'm lost and trying to find the grocery store, can you please help me officer?" My goals don't get put aside just because the outside world wants to shut everything down.
great article on ghosting. I needed that yesterday. Nice to see your pumping out the content and following your advice on making the most out of this qurantine business. This is what im trying to do. This is what im struggling with.
2 weeks ago when it started for me I was going hard. Working on school work even though it;s cancelled for about 4 hours a day ( I set timers to make sure I follow and dont lose track) But I hit a wall in the last few days and the depression is too much. I can't make myself do anything. I know the obvious answer is to just push forward but its never seemed so hard
@terry_crews: I'm available for counselling/coaching if that's something you're interested in - PM me. I overcame my own depression years ago, it's something I've talked about here:
If you don't have money to spare fo coaching, then read this, it is THE book to read when you're depressed: You Can't Afford The Luxury of a Negative Thought
On top of that, just don't give up. Depression is something you need to fucking FIGHT - as long as you never give in, you will eventuall win.
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