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Today i revisited some drills from week 4 that i thought i needed work (beach, daddy, abcs and super hi-5). Got them all done, pretty easy once i built momentum.
Started day 32 because its the middle of the week and cant go out to clubs until the weekend. Was easy and came pretty naturally- ive dropped a couple non sexual compliments while doing drills in the past.
I need help/ motivation. By this point, im happy with my progress doing drills, but i dont necessarily feel better about myself if that makes sense. The crew of guys i hang with all have pretty high coolness or swag factor, so i cant really tell them what ive been up to. Theyve just been working and they already have girls while i just feel like a weirdo who is kind of living a double life and havent really seen any success since starting. I want to setup a date from tinder because that might be whats holding me back, but even that feels like a lame move. I dunno i guess i just need encouragement/direction to move towards feeling better about myself and eventually getting some new pussy. Going out again tomorrow, will report back- cheers guys
I hear you dude, it feels like you are doing something really wierd and unusual and that's because you are! You have to remember that in order for you to achieve what a minority of people have, you have to be willing to do what nobody does!
I've read your post and you are absolutely killing it, I don't know if you're taking time to reflect each day and reminding yourself of your goals
Got laid last night w fuckbuddy. GOD DAMN what a relief- took a viagra just to guarantee it worked. Got a blood test and stopped taking finasteride for now, will wait for result before continuing.
Today was a surprisingly easy and productive. Only had like an hour to spend because i slept late, and was able to knock out both drills with very little anxiety
Day 33 is a little clunky and sometimes u just have to power through when theyre giving directions. Super easy tho
Day 34 was super easy. Hardest part was just getting started. Really only wanted to do 1 rep and leave, but it was just so straightforward i figured id knock it out now. Was able to finish the final rep on two hotties who were mid conversation (used chris’s mindset of just barging in). Got a confused laugh which was cool. I had no anxiety approaching hot girls with banana phone either, majority gave good reactions and the ones that blew me off i was pleased to find i didnt care. Was able to get back into the mindset of seeing them as lame for being stuck up, instead of blaming myself
What a difference a day can make. Cant wait for monday- i got a pretty busy weekend with parties both fri, sat and sun so ill try duck out to do drill 30 if possible. If not i will DEFINETLY make up for it ASAP and will repeat to comfortable completion. Cheers guys cya monday
Had a long weekend and took monday off from drills to hang with friends for the public holiday- so after 3 days i felt a little rusty. Also consumed alot of ecstasy while partying over the weekend, so i was actually quite depressed/anxious coming into today (common side-effect during x comedowns).
To start i brushed up on the last couple drills and built momentum gradually- i was definetly bitching out of approaches more than usual though. However i quickly became comfortable enough knock out drill 35 in like 45 minutes (was mainly targeting hot girls). Super stoked i atleast got this one done because i was expecting today to go alot worse. This drill is easy u just gotta be sincere and accept the interaction is gonna be weird. Got a few great reactions from cool girls and by the end of it i feel as though im back to where i left off. Stoked! Ill be back out again tomorrow cyas all then
Day 36 finished, day 38 failed
God damn today was hard. I was off to say the least. I had alot of anxiety and dread heading into today- on arrival i sat in the mall for like half an hour just procrastinating. I knew this drill wasnt hard i just wasnt in the mood. I had what felt like just a mild depression hanging over me- like a brain fog i could physically feel. Anyways i pushed through and got the drill done. Again mainly targeted girls in my demographic because theyre always the most receptive.
Tried a single rep of calling a girl cute after about 15 minutes of bitching out. Got a good react but definetly didnt feel comfortable. Tomorrow im going to revisit all the drills of week 5 before trying to start week 6 again. Safe to say approach anxiety won today haha. Will be out again tomorrow. Take it easy boys
It's funny i used to think once your aa hit a certain point you just kept going from there.
The past 2 years I've realized that in fact aa can come back. Interactions with people your mood. Sometimes it makes sense sometimes it doesn't.
But I've had those days where doing one feels like a herculian effort. Sometimes you can self talk your way into approaching. But if every approach feels world ending i think you made the right call. Some days it's good to push other days to call it and try again later.
Some days you win some you don't. I just found your log but good luck man.
March goals 2020:
Break day game dry spell
Continue 20+ approaches a week (week 6 done now on week 7)
Daytime approaches (14/50)
All the above on hold till corona is over
Yeah i can definitely see that beating AA isnt a linear progression. Whenever i feel as though im making significant gains, its always followed by a shit day. I think the best thing for me (and any other losers out there) is just reaffirming the previous drills ive done before moving on. It just solidifies my confidence and prevents me from getting in too deep and losing the progress ive already made.
Ive been on tinder also trying to setup dates but no luck. Im curious as to how much a couple dates would impact my progression- keeping in mind i do currently have a fuck buddy. Anyones input is appreciated. Cheers all
Day 38 finished
Went to the city today- nice for a change of scenery. Started off with a couple mr. Nice guy drills but had a fuck it moment and really just felt ready to move on. I found that getting straight in there without hesitation was a big factor for me today (and everyday for that matter). Need to have this tattooed on me because it really is one of the most fundamental lessons thus far in the program. I threw out a couple uncomfortable “your cute”s and the rest was history. Finished within like 90mins- i was focusing on girls in my demographic. 40 reps is alot haha.
Its weird being direct like this felt no different to walking up and asking for the time- i had no attachment its just another drill that involves words coming out of my mouth to girls. Cool turn around from yesterday. Also got back into the zone of laughing at girls that blew me off. Sorry to bother u mam’ ur obviously very important haha.
Stoked. I just did a week 6 drill. Fuckin aye boys. Cant believe its already here. After today i actually feel like ive really achieved somthing meaningful.
I can walk up to girls sober in public, and call them cute with no anxiety. To me the rewards for my hard work really came on display today. Fuck yeh.
Will be out again tomorrow. I’ll keep yas updated on how it goes
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