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Drill 39 finished
Today was cool. I came in super tired and negative with only an hour to spend on drills. Wasnt looking to accomplish much and kind of gave myself the out to half ass it. However i got frustrated and knew id feel like shit if i didnt give 100%. Initially i had this feeling in me that i was being a weirdo and bothering the girls i was half heartedly approaching- so i decided to just embrace it.
I had a fuck it moment and chose to just give myself permission to be a weirdo and a bother- with the goal of completing this drill in the most efficient way possible. Of course, i did do the drills as listed by chris and wasnt disrespectful or acting retarded. I just performed them back to back to back to back on every girl possible and didnt care if i looked like a weirdo in the eyes of onlookers- because today i WAS one haha.
If id pass by a girl who was surrounded by people id tell myself - “no, u DO go approach this girl infront of everyone because u ARE a weirdo”. Or when id feel like chickening out of a string of approaches id say- “of course youre going to drill all 3 of these girls back-to-back regardless of if they all see u do it- YOURE a weirdo”.
This was a cool and very productive mindset to get into. I knocked out all 40 reps plus more in less than 30 minutes. CRAZY. I approached one girl who told me “you just did this to me 5-minutes ago”. Hahah ahh well. Had to laugh it off. Kind of makes me nervous as to wether i run into these girls one day in my home town- guess ill cross that bridge but hopefully never happens haha.
Cool little day of perseverance to finish out the week. Ill cyas all monday. Go be weird boys! Cheers
Out in the city again today. Starting to prefer it over mall as i suspect im starting to drill the same girls over and over lol. Todays drill was actually quite easy and i really didnt have much anxiety from the start. This drill just seemed super straight forward and (after the last couple days of drills) the reactions are increasingly predictable.
However i did bitch out of more opportunities than usual- buts that pretty common for me on monday. By the end i was able to do this on groups of hot girls which i believe is a drill later on in the week- pretty cool. Progress is definitely starting to feel real. The fact that even after a weekend off i could still do this drill on the majority of girls with no warmup really makes me proud. Looking back i came in today with a real sense of security i think. I was assured within myself that today would go well and to me that was a real indication of the progress ive made. Cool shit
Day 41 complete
Real grind of a day today. Bitched out alot but my prep was everything i usually do so not sure what the go was. Maybe i worked out too hard this morning or somthing but mood was just really off from start. Im really surprised i made it through tbh. Got a super awkward rejection infront of alot of people but im really happy with how i just shrugged it off and kept going. In the past something that blatant would have ruined my entire week- but i was drilling another girl in less than five minutes. Drills actually pretty easy u just need to get receptive girls. 2nd high five is a little awkward but i think it plays into not trying to be smooth and just executing- because the girls that gave 2nd high fives i could tell were definitely interested/available. Glad to have made it through. Will revisit these past few days tomorrow before moving on. Cya boys
I might've said this before in your log but yea sometimes you're just not feeling it. That's normal. It's great and all when you're fired up and WANT to go approach, but where I think you make the biggest strides is when you're really not in the mood and you go and do it anyway.
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Previous days revisited (briefly) and Day 42 completed
Approaches today definitely starting to feel real. During the interaction i have little to no anxiety. The only hard part about today (and the last couple days) has been finding girls that i WANT to drill. Im not sure if this is creative aversion or im just being picky, but i have been giving up more opportunities than usual to approach the last couple days. Im curious- should i not move on from drills until im so comfortable that i can perform on anyone (to the point where its like asking for the time?) Or should i still be happy if i can do it on the majority of girls i want to when the scenario is suitable (girl isnt w friends, not in a rush and is my age)? Even today in perfect scenarios i did find myself bitching out for no apparent reason- it left me kinda confused and frustrated with myself lol. Do u guys think im ready to move on? I did all 20 reps plus maybe 5 more of the final rep...
Cool stuff that happend:
Some smoking hot chick my age and type tried to insist on taking me to the movie theatre after i asked for directions. Got a bit awkward because i just wanted to eject despite being not that nervous- i just wanted to continue my drills lol.
Another time a hot girl tried to keep the convo going and was showing obvious signs of interest- asked how old i am what im up to where im from etc. was cool- hard to not ask for number.
Lemme know what u guys think about whats considered completing a drill. Cyas tomorrow!
I'd consider that completed. Other guys may have a different opinion.
Some days you'll be a bit more of a pussy and have more AA. Other days you'll be super confident. It'll be like that for the rest of your life, even after you've hit on 5000+ women. Some days are just good, some days are just bad.
Gonna have to agree with Andy. One thing that's important though is doing it every single day. I've done at least 2 approaches 7 days a week for quite some time.. now I may take 1 day break but never more than one day. Once you do that it's pretty much gone compared to what it used to be like when you first started lol. It's more of an excited feeling, but its very, very rare that you bitch out.
I did 5 of the final rep from yesterdays drill before starting today because i dreaded moving on. Was super easy but still really dreaded the high fives- at this point they just feel kind of dorky lol. As always got easier as i got into it. Finished within 90 mins inside of a somewhat quiet mall. Finished on a smoking hot chick who made eye contact and i b-lined straigh to her. She was receptive tho which was cool.
For guys out there. Dont make the same mistake as me and wait for hot girls that u think will be receptive. For the first two reps u just have to find someone who will highfive because then u can just say ur piece and leave regardless if they are receptive. Save the final rep for receptive girls when u need the handshake.
Day 44 finished
I love fridays. It took me like one set to get into the rhythm today. That being said- getting eye contact in the city was a drag. Everyone keeps their head down and mind their own business i found. When u do get good eye contact and or a smile it really is a good lead into a receptive exchange. Had a couple cool instances where passing a girl she would shoot me good eye contact and a smile and i would immediately spring into- “cute!” and run the drill. As awkward as it may sound it actually felt really natural and smooth
Did like 5 extras of the final rep and finished the drill on a solid 8 with the wink *challenge. She said she was on her way to work but wanted my instagram and wanted to hangout. Her personality and style was definetly my type so i caved and gave my number to her instead- shes already texting me. This is somthing i am obviously stoked about as it shows me this shit fuckin works! But in that short interaction i also have realised im not ready to go on dates with hot girls yet. I can approach them but not maintain conversation without being uncomfortably nervous. I kind of feel like an imposter because i probably come off as confident on approach but cant maintain that frame because im used to ejecting.
What do u guys think the next course of action should be? Go on dates with less attractive girls to practice so im less dependant on outcome? How many dates do u guys reckon before it becomes natural/enjoyable with hot girls? This is obviously the next step for me in my cold approach journey and feel i foolish for neglecting it. Let me know your thoughts!
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