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My journal 22 Jan 2020 22:20 #325944

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Day 22 complete, nothing special. Got alot of laughs so that's fun. Looking for Elmo tomorrow

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My journal 24 Jan 2020 18:58 #325994

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Forgot to update the log yesterday, did day 23 sesame street which was horrible since nobody in my country knows who Elmo is. Today i did the birthday drills day 24, only managed to ask 25 girls before I got exhausted. I dont feel like stopping girls right in there track as they walk by to ask about what they want for their birthday but most of my other approaches have been this way. Im not uncomfortable asking girls that are stationary but there are none, everyone is walking somewhere and I get mixed results when i stop girls, kind of difficult to make them stay when i start asking stupid questions.

Any advice would be much welcomed!

Other than that today was great, had a new outfit on that girls seemed to like, got a lot of looks and smiles myway as well as a group of girls on he bus trying to get my attention, waving and copying my moves.
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My journal 27 Jan 2020 16:05 #326108

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Redid day 24, slow day. Feeling a lack of drive to continue. Still gonna do my best but Im having a hard time getting into the "IDGAF" mindset

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My journal 29 Jan 2020 11:14 #326169

Dont give up man! These next few days sucked for me, but once you make it through to the other side you see how easy and minuscule the drill really is.

Get the reps in however you can. Once the drill is completely done keep revisiting the drill (do a couple reps) at the start of each day while still progressing forward until u see that they really arent that hard at all. I did this with the arnold drill and found that when i started attempting harder days, the arnold drill really came quite easy even though i hated it at first.

For me the biggest thing was just finding girls my age who i thought would be attracted/interested/curious. The moms and ugly chicks were always rude and just blew me off- but u just have to grit it out. Its worth it.

Good luck man. Do the drill and leave. Dont give up its that simple :)
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My journal 29 Jan 2020 11:20 #326171

Keep pushing mate - even when you don't feel like it.

@soggy biscuit: you give good contributions and you're a very positive person. Good to have you here.
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My journal 30 Jan 2020 17:23 #326202

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Yes soggy I can really see that, only the attractive girls my age actually give any "good" reactions. I don't really have a lack o girls but I keep finding shit excuses to not do these drills because they're little harder than the others. I attempted day 25 today, managed to do three. Gonna go out again right now and just push through

Thanks as always for the encouragement soggy and Andy

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My journal 30 Jan 2020 18:56 #326203

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So I went back out and actually got it done, wasn't as fun as other days but what was funny was that most girls thought o was asking them out for lunch. Guess it comes of a bit different on my language since I have to translate Chris's words. Feel much better now, again thanks for the support
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My journal 31 Jan 2020 21:48 #326229

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Did day 26 today, who's your daddy? Got a lot of fun responses and could really feel the momentum. Started the day with singing the ABC, that got me going real good. Went through this with ease. Did some of day 27, was fun flexing but was pretty tired so left after the first set. Going back tomorrow. Glad u guys pushed me!
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My journal 01 Feb 2020 19:38 #326254

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Day 27 completed. Was harder than I thought since I found it difficult to tap girls on the shoulder from the front. I.know my touch can I times be rough, especially when nervous so didn't want to hurt the girls. One girl was so drunk ( at 7.30) that she actually thought I was serious and started asking me if I was looking for a fun close by.

No drills tomorrow but I'll try to keep the momentum
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My journal 03 Feb 2020 18:09 #326303

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Tried day 28 today, not a particularly difficult drill but I didn't have any energy at all today. Did one set ( for girls) as well as some warm. Had a bad night of sleep so I'm gonna recharge and try again on Wednesday, going to a conference tomorrow so won't have time for drills

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My journal 05 Feb 2020 19:32 #326361

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Day 28 complete! Don't have a lot of time on my hands since I started my new job but still gonna make time for drills. Had some fun interactions and pushed it further with one group of girls, teasing them that they look like needs. Think I'm gonna need a couple days to complete day 29 since I know high fiving people was the most difficult drill so far for me

See you guys tomorrow!
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Super high fives without making an ass of yourself? 06 Feb 2020 18:14 #326384

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I went out today and tried the hay voice super high five on about 5 girls with no success. I had a similar issue with the Justin Bieber drill, I suck at acting gay. I just don't know how to do it. So I tried doing it as myself but again no luck. I decided to revisit the high fiving drill and I had mixed results. Don't know if it's because the weather is cold as hell but no one was open to high fives.

I don't know if it's AA or just this week of the program but I'm fucking tired of being a funny guy and acting all goofy. It feels like I'm constantly seeking validation and Im so tired of it

Does anyone have advice on the double high five? I already had trouble with the single high five drill. Feels like I'm stuck again

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