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Day 3 and 4
Not going to bother with Tinder or Match since i still need better pictures and waiting for my photographer.
Today i started by approaching 5 girls and asked for the time, took about 10 minutes to complete the drills. Felt unsatisfied that it took me that long so i went to a mall with more people and did it in under 4 minutes.
Completed day 6, talked to around 10 girls, rather than doing the sets in order i started by asking a girl for the time and then proceeding to ask 9 girls for time directions and advice about the location i was seeking. Not exactly what Chris instructed but i think its the same idea.
Completed day 7 today, not sure how i feel about all my interactions. By the 4th and 5th sets it felt easier to approach but I feel as though I came of in a hurry. Like i wasn't really invested in the interaction and just wanted to get it done since i was beginning to feel exhausted. I dont understand how guys approach and get 20+ numbers in just one day. Feels like just getting one number would take me hours
It's definitely misleading. I wouldn't watch too many pickup videos (or any). Your time is way too valuable for that.
Guys who get that many phone numbers aren't actually trying to fuck girls - they're just trying to rack up phone numbers to impress/entertain viewers on their youtube channel (think the "Simple Pickup" bullshit). Trying to get phone numbers is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than trying to get laid.
Everybody wants to go to heaven but nobody wants to die.
^Agreed, numbers are worthless on their own and girls will just give them to you if you ask, regardless of if they are interested or not. And the pickup videos are worthless. (I feel for the guys that that's all they have...they have it rough)
# girls: 3
-Summer 2016 (she approached me)
-January 2020 x2 (daytime cold approach)
6 new girls (completed: 2 / 6)
* Include one abg / party asian girl (completed?: NO)
* Include one fobby asian girl (completed?: YES)
* Include one "alterntive" girl (tats, maybe piercings, etc.) (completed?: NO)
Lol dude. 20 numbers in a day. Maybe they do that once or twice ever, but I don't think that's something you should be doing on a weekly basis - it's not helpful to you.
I bang about 4 out of every 20 numbers I get from cold approach, so it doesn't make sense to just keep getting more and more numbers - you need to actually try and have sex with those girls.
If you're actually trying to get laid (and not just collecting phone numbers like Pokemon cards), you wouldn't need to collect 20 phone numbers in a day - you stop after about 5 phone numbers. You message all those numbers, try and get one out on a date that night (or the following night), and you try to have sex. If none of those girls have sex with you, then you go out and get more phone numbers.
There's no reason to collect 20 phone numbers in a day - unless you don't actually want to have sex, and instead just get yourself off on collecting numbers. I'm writing an article called "Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards who don't Actually Want to Get Laid". Stuff like 20 phone numbers a day is exactly what I'm talking about.
Also, go out and collect 20 numbers for yourself. Then try and remember who each girl was, her name, how attracted to her you were, her hair colour, how much you wanted to fuck her, etc. Try and remember anything about her, when she's only 1 out of 20 numbers you collected. You won't remember jack shit, and you'll be less excited/movitated to grab a drink with her and try and bang her. She'll just be a number in your phone, rather than an actual person. Part of the motivation of banging girls is you actually like them at least a little bit - or at the very least find them attractive. It's hard to want to bang someone you can't even remember.
But when you collect 20 numbers in a day, none of the girls mean anything to you; it's exactly what Jordan Peterson is referring to when he says pickup artists often act psychopathic.
Really appreciate the feedback, sometimes it does really feel like pickup and "gaming" is disconnected from the actual act of being attracted to girls and wanting to get laid. I'll take the advice and stop watching pickup videos, focusing on beating approach anxiety for now
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