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It was yesterday, I created the account, read the thread and introduced myself.
I signed the petition and started this journal of mine.
I think approach anxiety is the biggest hurdle in meeting new girls, because one can't practice if one's not able to jump in the water. However, I still think that if one's good looking, one's set for life.
I am back after a few months long halt due to a surgery, unexpected workload and coronavirus measures. My intention now is to continue where I left off and finish this program.
I created Tinder and Badoo accounts and obtained a couple of numbers
Day 4 Drill (Level 1)
Today, my first drill ended up an utter debacle. According to this drill I was supposed to ask 5 random girls for the time. I hit the streets after dark, which I perceived as an exacerbating factor because I expected lone girls to be a bit uneasy when approached by a stranger with such unnecessary question. With a group of girls, I just couldn't kick myself into asking for the time because I was wearing watch and nowadays everyone's got a cell phone, so, I thought it would be very awkward to ask for the time. Honestly, I thought this drill would be super easy to me, I was wrong. Anyway, I'm gonna try again tomorrow during day.
Sure, he'll get some exposure therapy making up some excuse. But when you want to approach a girl, there is no excuse. You just do it. Because you want to. Wearing a watch isn't required from what I remember but it's extra exposure therapy.
I remember my first Ask Time approach like 7 years ago, i was outside all fuckin day and couldn't do it because it felt so weird cause i didn't really need the time.
then finally when the sun was going down and i was on the train platform waiting i saw some mexican looking regular chick and finally asked with anxiety coursing through me.
And of course the reality was totally different from the fear illusion, the chick seemed shy and nicely told me the time.
That broke years of ice right there, i think the Ask Time drill never really phased me ever again after the very first successful drill.
fuckin incredible the kind of illusions we live in while the real world is completely different.
GOAL: Financial Freedom
13 online lays
3 social circle type lays
So, yesterday and finished this drill. I took me around 2 hours because I only wanted to ask girls that were in motion as I thought asking sitting or standing girls was easier. I was wearing watch but just in case I said that it was broken.
The first set of 5 girls went surprisingly smoothly, I was done in 27 minutes, which became quite a challenge to beat in the second round. I had to do the second round twice because in the first iteration of the second round, I was unable to do it faster than those 27 minutes. After that I was done in 20 minutes.
Day 6 Drill (Level 1)
Today I completed this drill all right. I was a bit afraid I wouldn't have enough time for that during the day as I was busy but I have made it. Out of all the 15 girls asked I got only 1 unpleasant reaction where the girl looked as if I was bothering her. She gave me the time though but didn't stopped walking and I barely heard what the actual time was.
I have had to split this drill today as I got tired after roaming the streets of the city centre during 3 hours. I have approached more than 20 women today but I can only count 7 of them towards the drill as many of them didn't even stop walking when asked what time it was. There was even a pair of mature women who completely ignored me and only upon me prompting again did tell me peevishly they didn't have the time.
I consider asking for the time very weird question these days when everyone's got a cell phone.
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