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-I re-installed tinder, the modern equivalent of POF or OKC. I initially hated the thought. I had gotten very little success in the past with it, found it a time waste and demoralizing. "Approaching is better anyway, why do I need this." Sure enough, the day I reinstall I get messages from two separate girls asking to hang out this week, from previous matches, no joke. Definitely a confidence booster. Hopefully this time I won't get as hung up on them since I have inner game and this program to give myself my own validation instead of them.
-The approaches today were pretty easy 5/5 completed. I have halfheartedly done similar programs like this in the past so it wasn't too hard. The only hiccups I had were having to find a new place to approach another girl because I didn't want the last girl to think I was weird for asking the time to multiple people for no reason. I also hesitated a bit to find people less in a rush on the subway so it would be less awkward. This is just me being in my head since I want outcome independence but it was something to note for something I initially considered too easy.
-Today was easier than the last, I did the exercise half in the morning before work and the other half after work. It was faster this time, it felt weird going faster but even now I'm getting a little bit more used to just "going for it", more spontaneously and whoever was in front of me because I knew I had to get it done fast. Overall it felt pretty okay, I was in a shitty mood today and one of the girls misheard me because she had headphones on and I had to repeat myself in kind of an awkward moment and we both laughed, putting me in a good mood.
-The volume of approaches that needed to get done was a bit daunting but easily doable. I'm a little worried that doing so many every single day I might get a reputation, especially later on when I start doing the weirder drills. Anyhow, it took me long time but I got it done in around 2 hours (probably because I was in my head and felt I had to move locations after "finding the right directions" from them so they didn't see me asking again). Yeesh. I felt great afterwards though, I liked the longer interactions but wish I didn't have to ask for the time every single approach because its awkward transitioning to the other questions, but it gets compliance and is an easy excuse to approach anyone, even someone who looks busy.
Nice job man! The first few days for me were really confidence-boosting so really make sure to get those reps in. It's all about repetitions until you start to feel comfortable just walking up and talking to random girls about anything. You on a good track, do not set yourself up for failure by selling yourself short or taking long extended breaks. Good luck!
-Another day another set. This time I did the approaches about a half an hour faster. Repeating the words in my head "Get the fuck in there!" helped. Its getting easier to approach girls that aren't in the perfect/easiest situation to approach. I noticed myself almost acting nervous as if I had somewhere to be so it would be more believable to ask a random stranger for the time and directions.By the end I caught myself and did it more calmly, no need to put on a weird act.
-Today's drill was sliiightly harder than the last. I'm getting more confident with a calm frame. People seem to respond more to an assertive frame. I'm doing the drills word for word more with less adlib and explanation. Just repeating the words exactly as is leaves space for pauses and is slightly more personal. That I had trouble with because in my head I didn't like coming off with an agenda, my question was asking where the nearest theater was the and those questions almost make it seem like you want them to come with you or something without actually saying it out right. Again, all in my head and I'm slowly getting out of that.
-All in all, felt good like always! I repeated the last question a few times more than I had to till I was doing it exactly like Chris said. So, doing good so far. STilll kinda worried about developing a reputation though so I'm doing the exercises in different parts of the city next time.
-Feeling like a chad right now bois. Personal lesson for the day Do the fucking drill right I kept exactly to the words listed in the challenge. no filler words. Felt awkward and stilted at first, by the end I had total frame control. Felt like a baller.
-Today was almost easier than the last just because the lines made the conversation made sense, the last question of "have you seen any good movies lately" Was a tad creepy/needy but whatever the fuck not too bad.
-did it on the subway, I was getting off at each stop and doing the drill, I might have to start doing the drills faster, it takes me so much time to finish.
-This day was awesome, the more I do these drills the more I start to love em. Its freezing out today but went walking the streets anyway, most responses were pretty average. I got 3 really warm responses though from girls that looked initially totally non-responsive, head phones in, hood up, looking away. Goes to show you really don't know what a person is like until you go up and talk to them. I ended up getting the third girls facebook because the conversation was going so well, sorry Chris (I don't plan on messaging her anyway).
-Oh, best of all, I had bad breath after picking up shawarma before I left but didn't give a fuck hahaha. (never had it before but it was the best goddamn wrap I've had in my life)
-I'm on No Nut November too by the way, being a horny bastard actually helps motivate you and have that masculine frame.
-This one wasn't too hard, I played into the nice guy role a bit too much but whatever, at the subway/grocery store again. Only the first few times I told about the candle light dinner for a girlfriend I was nervous about. It's kind of funny though since it was a bit embarrassing first to mention the dinner which I didn't expect, even though I don't even have a girlfriend that I'm doing it for.
-These next challenges with the wine and high fives later should be easy, its the funny man stuff I kinda worry about, also doing so many reps these basic bitches start to look the same (lol only half joking here), makes me wonder if I've approached them before or not.
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